1. Write a story about a toddler who is learning to eat
Teach your child to learn to "share the source" Sharing is a common means of interaction for nursery school children. However, the nursery class is in the period of the strongest self-consciousness, emphasizing self-centeredness, with a very strong sense of exclusivity, unwilling to understand and unable to understand the ideas of others. Although their living environment is optimized, they do not have the experience of living with their siblings, or the experience and training to love and give up to others. The child is the star of the family, and the adults give the child whatever he or she wants; the child is always the first to eat the good food, and the adults buy him or her whatever he or she wants to have fun with. As a result, children's mentality of "I am the only one who enjoys" and "I am the only one who respects" grows under the tacit approval of adults, thus forming the mentality of "What is mine is mine, and what is someone else's is also mine! " They are happy to accept things from others, but are unwilling to give up their own things. Even in kindergarten, they behave the same way as at home, taking toys for themselves and eating whatever they like without thinking of sharing with others. Sometimes it's just to have a toy to play with
2. Ask for an 800-word essay on the topic of eating
Life is like eating
Mark went to a wise man to ask him some questions about life.
The wise man told Mark, "Life is actually very simple, it's just like eating, once you figure out the problem of eating, you figure out all the problems."
Mark did not turn the corner for a moment: "Life is as simple as eating?"
The wise man said unhurriedly, "It's that simple, except that eating with the mouth is easy for everyone, eating with the heart is difficult, and even if a famous teacher points out that there may not be a few who can learn it.
"The smart people eat for themselves, the fools eat for others; the smart people eat as a meal, the fools eat as a show; the smart people like to eat outside the AA system, the fools like to call friends and grab the bill; the smart people eat neither too much, nor too little, he knows the right amount of food, how much can eat, how much to order, he can estimate to Their stomachs; foolish people are greedy for more, desperately order food, what dish is expensive point what, what dish is strange point what, and so the dishes served up and busy to people clip food, but they just move a few chopsticks on the put down.
"They either overestimated their own appetites, or to give others to do a 'eat elegant' gesture; smart people pay the bill with peace of mind, only shelling out one of their own; fools check out when the heart jumped, obviously the bill on the number of cuts in the heart of his heart like pain, but also Pretend that the face does not change the color of the heart does not jump the hero, as if he is the food and clothing of all the parents; smart people only come to eat, there is no other motivation, he did not want to please anyone, but also who will not be offended; fools but heavy thinking, and want to fight the amount of alcohol, and want to make friends, but also want to pull the business, he would like to get the envy of the crowd, and finally, but the other way around, making a mess, not to incur other people's ridicule, or to lead to the use of other people. Utilization. Eating is supposed to be a kind of enjoyment, but when it comes to him, it becomes a kind of torture.
"Eating is similar to life! Life in the world, the light is too much, who can not say which is good, which is not good, which is worth pursuing, which is not worth pursuing, which mode is considered successful, which mode is considered a failure, the only thing that can be said to understand may be only three points: first, their own things to undertake, do not bother anyone for you to work for you, do not snatch for anyone to work for you; second, to take care of their own Secondly, to take care of their own emotions, less concerned about the eyes of others, too much concern for others, make themselves like an actor, is really a thing out of the ordinary; thirdly, everything is best to do according to their needs, according to their ability, do not set too high a goal. Just like eating, how much appetite you have, how much money you have, how many dishes to order, never greedy for more."
Life is supposed to be a series of wonderful and incomparable enjoyments, but how many people can really enjoy these pleasures? So many people's lives have been wasted due to disregard for some basic principles. Just like those who grabbed the treats, spent no less than anyone else's wrongful money, get the pleasure of no more than anyone else, a hard, laborious, and in the end, often not even the money to sit in a cab, and had to walk home hungry, to soak instant noodles!
3. Stories about learning
Lu Yu abandoned the Buddha from the literature
Lu Yu, a famous scholar of the Tang Dynasty, grew up as an orphan, was raised by Zen Master Zhi Jie. He was raised by the Zen master Zhijiu. Although he was in a temple, he did not want to spend his days reciting Buddhist scriptures, but preferred to read poetry and books. Lu Yu was opposed by the Zen master when he insisted on going down to the mountains to study. The Zen master asked Lu Yu to learn how to make tea in order to give him a hard time and to educate him better. In the course of studying the art of tea, Lu Yu met a kindly old woman and learned not only the intricacies of brewing tea, but also a great deal about reading and being a human being. When Lu Yu finally brought a cup of steaming cup of bitter tea to the Zen master, he finally agreed to his request to study in the mountains. Later, Lu Yu wrote the widely circulated "Tea Sutra" to promote the tea culture of our country!
Tang Pak Fu studied painting
Tang Pak Fu was a famous painter and writer in the Ming Dynasty, and showed great talent in painting when he was young. Tang Pak Fu to study under the great painter Shen Zhou, learning naturally more hard and diligent, mastering the art of painting very quickly, by Shen Zhou's praise. Unexpectedly, due to Shen Zhou's praise, this time to make the always modest Tang Bohu also gradually produced a mood of complacency, Shen Zhou see in the eyes, in the heart, a meal, Shen Zhou let Tang Bohu to open the window, Tang Bohu found himself under the window is actually the teacher of Shen Zhou's a painting, Tang Bohu is very ashamed, and from then on to concentrate on learning to paint.
Qu Yuan studied hard in a cave
When he was a boy, despite the opposition of his elders, Qu Yuan hid in a cave to read the Book of Songs, no matter how hard it rained or how cold it was. After three years of reading, he familiarized himself with 305 poems in the Book of Songs, absorbing rich nutrients from these folk songs and ballads, and finally became a great poet.
Fan Zhongyan Broken Pieces of Porridge
Fan Zhongyan grew up in a poor family, in order to study, he saved money. Finally, his diligence touched the temple elders, who sent him to study in Nandu Academy. Fan Zhongyan still insisted on simple living habits, and refused to accept gifts from rich families in order to sharpen his will. After studying hard, he finally became a great writer.
Xuanzang studied Buddhism
Xuan Award is a monk in the Tang Dynasty, in order to obtain the original Buddhist scriptures, Xuanzang from the Zhenguan three years in August, left Chang'an, 10,000 miles of trekking, westbound to obtain the scriptures, and finally arrived in India, which lasted seventeen years, and authored the "Records of the Western Regions of the Great Tang Dynasty", which has made a great contribution to the advancement of Buddhism and mankind, and the civilization of the world.
Yue Fei learns his art
Yue Fei, the national hero, was born in a chaotic world, and his family was poor when he was a child, so he was sponsored by his neighbors to learn martial arts from Zhou Tong, a famous master in Shaanxi, and during this period, he witnessed the destruction of mountains and rivers and the displacement of the people, and he aspired to learn the art of serving the country, and overcame the feeling of pride and complacency. During the summer and winter, he practiced hard, and under the careful guidance of the famous master Zhou Tong, he finally practiced Yuejia snatching, and led Wang Gui, Tang Xian and other partners to join in the patriotic struggle against the Jin Dynasty to save the country.
Lai Gui Zhen learns to paint tigers
Five generations of famous tiger painter Lai Gui Zhen loved painting from childhood, especially like to paint tigers, but because he had never seen a real tiger, always painted tigers as sick cats, so he was determined to enter the deep forests to visit the real tigers, after a lot of hard work, in the hunter's uncle's help, and finally saw the real tiger, through a large number of sketching and copying, its tiger painting techniques by leaps and bounds, and the pen of the tiger! Through a lot of sketching and copying, his tiger painting skills soared, and the tigers under his brush were so vivid that they could be mistaken for the real ones. Since then, he spent most of his life traveling many mountains and rivers, see more birds and beasts, finally became a generation of painting masters.
Shen Kuo went to the mountain to see the peach blossoms
"The peach blossoms are blooming in April on earth, and the peach blossoms in the mountain temples are beginning to bloom", when reading this poem, Shen Kuo's eyebrows condensed into a knot, "Why is it that the peach blossoms on the mountain are beginning to bloom when the flowers are all blooming in our place? " In order to solve this mystery, Shen Kuo about a few buddies on the mountain field trip, in April on the mountain, how warm is still cold, cool winds, freezing people shivering, Shen Kuo spears mawkish, the original temperature on the mountain than under the mountain to be a lot lower, so the flower season only came later than the mountain down ah. With this spirit of inquiry and empirical methods, Shen Kuo grew up to write "Mengxi Bianan".
Lu You, a poet of the Southern Song Dynasty, was a hardworking, sensitive and studious boy. In his house, books were placed on the table, books were packed in the cabinet, and books were piled up on the bed, which was called the book nest. He was a diligent writer and left more than 9,000 poems in his life, which made him an outstanding writer in the history of China.
Liu Fenghua's Buddhist Temple
It was late at night, and the sound of reading suddenly came from the Buddhist temple. The young monks were frightened, thought there were ghosts inside, and immediately reported to the old monk. So, the old monk led the young monks to catch the ghost, I did not realize that the "ghost" was a poor child called Liu Fu, he was borrowing the Buddha's lamp reading it. After studying hard, Liu Fu finally became a great writer.
Gu Yanwu read ten thousand books
Gu Yanwu, a thinker in the early late Ming and early Qing dynasties, had a very unfortunate childhood, and smallpox disease almost took his life. Although he was weak and sickly, under his mother's teaching and encouragement, Gu Yanwu studied hard and copied the Ziji Tongjian by hand with great perseverance, and finally became a generation of great scholars.
Ouyang Xiu, a great writer of the Northern Song Dynasty, was gifted from a young age, but due to the poverty of his family, he had no money to buy paper and brushes. Ouyang Xiu's mother, Zheng, in order for her son to practice writing, came up with an ingenious way to teach him to write by using diesel grass instead of brushes. Ouyang Xiu's diligent and painstaking efforts resulted in a good handwriting and he became a famous prodigy, and this painstaking spirit also influenced his young friend Li Yaosu, who took him to the path of learning.
Pu Songling (蒲松龄) built a thatched pavilion by the side of the road to record the stories told by passers-by. After decades of hard work and sleeplessness, Pu Songling (蒲松龄) finally completed Liaozhai Zhiyi (聊斋志异), an epoch-making masterpiece in the history of ancient Chinese literature.
Song Lian braved the snow to visit his teacher
Song Lian, a famous essayist and scholar of the Ming Dynasty, was a scholar since childhood. He was not only knowledgeable, but also a good writer, and was praised by Zhu Yuanzhang, the founder of the Ming Dynasty, as "the first of the founding ministers of literature". Song Lian loved to read, and when he encountered something he didn't understand, he would always try to get to the bottom of it. On this occasion, Song Lian traveled dozens of miles in the snow to consult Mr. Meng Ji, a teacher who had stopped accepting students, in order to clarify a question, but the teacher was not at home. Song Lian was not discouraged, but visited him again a few days later, but he did not receive him. Because it was cold, Song Lian and his companions were
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froze enough, Song Lian's toes were frostbitten.
On his third visit alone, Lian fell into a snow pit , and was fortunately rescued. When Song Lian almost fainted at the door of his teacher's house, the teacher was touched by his sincerity and patiently answered Song Lian's questions. Later, Song Lian visited many teachers in order to learn more, and eventually became a famous essayist!
4. Little Stories about Learning
I. Chiseling the Wall to Borrow Light
Kuangheng was very studious when he was young. His family was so poor that they could not afford to buy candles. When Kuangheng wanted to study at night, he was often worried because there was no bright light. Later, he thought of a way, so he quietly cut a small hole in the wall. Let the candlelight from the house next door come through. In this way, he often learned late at night, and later became a famous scholar of the Western Han Dynasty, having been the prime minister of Emperor Yuan of Han. From the example of chiseling the wall to borrow light can be seen: external factors (environment and conditions) is not the decisive factor, Kuang Heng in extremely difficult conditions, through their own hard work and strong perseverance to study, and finally a member. This shows that the internal cause is the development of things, the basis of change and the first cause, the external cause is only the conditions that affect the change of things, it must be through the internal cause to play a role.
Second, hanging beams and stabbing stocks
During the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a man named Sun Jing, who was a famous politician. When he was young, he was diligent and studious, and he often closed the door and read alone without stopping. Every day, he read from morning to night, often without sleep or food. After reading for a long time, he was tired and did not rest. After a long time, tired to doze off. He was afraid that it would affect his reading and learning, so he came up with a special way. In ancient times, men had long hair. He then found a rope and tied one end securely to a beam. When he dozed off when he was tired of reading, his head was lowered, and the rope would hold his hair, so that it would tear his scalp and hurt, and he would immediately wake up, and then continue to read and study.
Third, negative salary (xīn) hanging corner
Zhu Baichen during the Han Dynasty, when he was a child, his family was very poor. In order to make ends meet, he had to go up the mountain to cut firewood every day, and had no time to study. But he was a good learner and used to carry firewood on his back and read books at the same time.
In the Sui Dynasty, there was a man named Li Mi, who was a cowherd when he was a child. Every day he went out with a few books hanging on the horns of the cows, and while the cows ate grass, he sat on the grass and read by heart.
Fourth, to draw the ground with reeds
Mr. Ouyang Xiu father died when he was four years old, the family was poor, no money for him to study. Mrs. Ouyang Xiu taught him to write by drawing on the sand with reed stalks. She also taught him to recite many chapters of the ancients. By the time he was older, there were no books to read at home, so he went to the nearest reader's house to borrow a book to read, and sometimes proceeded to copy. In this way, he devoted himself to reading night and day, without sleep or food. From a young age, he wrote poems and poems, and then he wrote them at the level of an adult, so high.
5. I want to fall in love with the story of eating to put the word also put out all is the content of the story
I want to fall in love with eating: a story about food and feelings
I want to fall in love with eating to discuss the issue of food and feelings back, when we learn to answer to communicate with their own inner, read the signals sent by the body, eat more or eat less will no longer be a problem. Food is not as simple as they think. Deeper, hidden needs play an important role. When a child eats neither too much nor too little, he/she also learns to communicate with his/her feelings. A child who is able to master his/her feelings with proper awareness. He/she will also become an adult who understands others and tolerates himself/herself. Instead of chasing your child with a bowl of rice, tell him/her a story about food and feelings!
6. Ask for a classic story about dining etiquette
I. Gaze and Character
A corporate manager told this story: "Once, I had lunch with the manager of a sales company ****. Whenever a beautiful waitress came to our table, he always saw her out of the restaurant. I was so angry about this that I felt insulted. I felt insulted, thinking to myself that the waitress's legs were more important to him than what I had to say to him. He wasn't listening to me, he just didn't give a damn about me."
Commentary:
The eyes are the windows of the soul, and respect is the principle of etiquette. The sales manager's eyes, not only shows the disrespect for his partners, but also shows from the depths of its heart of the lowly vulgar: he put the beautiful opposite sex than the work, the cause of the more important, he simply do not respect others, but also do not respect themselves.
Every public official should have a pure and noble heart, the only way to win the trust of others, goodwill and respect, in order to lay the foundation for good cooperation.
Second, the old lady and the "spouse"
A census taker to fill out the population registration form, asked an uneducated old lady: "Do you have a spouse?" The old lady froze for half a day and could not answer. Someone next to her explained, "He is asking if you have a partner." Only then did the old lady realize.
Comment:
To get the best communication effect, we must take into account the other party's ability to understand and accept the other party's cultural level, so as to target the use of appropriate address, words and phrases. If even the other side can not understand, it is even more difficult to talk about the other side of the understanding.
Third, just because of a mouthful of phlegm?
This is a difficult negotiation.
One day down, the United States, Mr. Joseph for the opponent - a Chinese medical machinery factory director Fan, both annoyed and admire. This Fan factory director is very familiar with the introduction of the "large infusion tube" production line market. He not only demanded a high technical index for the equipment, but also kept the price very low. It seemed that Joseph had never met such a difficult and powerful negotiator in China. He concluded that his business would be successful if he cooperated with the pragmatic Factory Director Fan. So he accepted Factory Director Fan's low offer with conviction. "Both sides agreed to sign the agreement formally the next day. It was still early in the morning when Factory Director Fan invited Joseph to take a look at the workshop. The workshop was well organized, and Joseph nodded approvingly as he looked around. As he walked, he suddenly felt a worm crawling in his throat, coughed, and hurriedly ran to a corner of the workshop. Joseph stared at Factory Director Fan in surprise, only to see him spit in the corner, then wiped with the sole of his shoe, leaving a spit stain on the painted floor. Joseph quickly walked out of the workshop, despite the Fan factory director's best efforts to retain, determined to go back to the hotel.
Early the next morning, the interpreter knocked on the factory director's door and handed him a letter from Joseph: "Dear Mr. Fan, I admire your talent and shrewdness, but the scene of your spitting in the workshop has made it difficult for me to sleep at night. With all due respect, the hygienic habits of a factory manager can reflect the quality of a factory's management. Besides, what we are going to produce in the future are infusion tubes used to cure diseases. There is a proverb in your country: human lives are at stake! Please forgive me for leaving without saying goodbye, otherwise, God will punish me ......"
Factory Director Fan felt his head "boom", as if about to explode.
Comment:
It is often said that great wisdom is not limited to the small. But others can look at you this way, you can not forgive yourself, especially in social activities. Because some of the small details, precisely to expose the gap in your etiquette and cultivation. And just the other side of the importance of the other side, which forms a big obstacle to affect the cooperation. The production of medical machinery, the environment and staff hygiene habits require a high degree of Joseph's "demanding" is not excessive, completely responsible for the enterprise and the product, responsible for the performance of the public. This also shows his level of scientific management and civilized cultivation. In contrast, the level of the factory manager is poor, although the factory manager has the talent of negotiation, but the civilization standard is too different, and how to achieve harmonious long-term cooperation?
Therefore, in social interaction, manners in speech and behavior are very important.
Fourth, the old chicken "back to the second line"
The new director of a Bureau of Banquet retired to the second line of the old Secretary. The table served a plate of fried chicken, the old director of the chopsticks point said: "Hey, old brother, frogs are beneficial insects, can not eat." The new director, without thinking, blurted out, "It doesn't matter, they are all old chickens that have retired to the second line and are no longer relevant." The old Director immediately changed his face when he heard this, and even asked, "What did you say? What did you just say?" . The new director wanted to make a joke, but unexpectedly, his words escaped his lips and offended the old director's pride, and he felt embarrassed. The friendly atmosphere on the table was destroyed, fortunately, the secretary reacted quickly, and then said: "Old Secretary, he said you have retired from the second line, eating chicken is not a matter of course." The atmosphere is only a little bit of easing.
Commentary:
On the surface, it seems that the new Secretary did not pay attention to the old Secretary's state of mind to show a little humor, the result of the metaphorical use of words and make a mistake, in fact, is the new Secretary of the inner depths of the hidden some of the ideas, due to the overly pleased and involuntarily exposed. So, no matter from the use of language, or from the personal thought, quality, character, the new Secretary are not cultivated.
From the conversation in the etiquette requirements, should pay attention to the other side of the psychological taboos, to the state of mind of different people to say different things, the Qing Dynasty, "the maxims of governance," said: "Do not talk about the loss of the people who are pleased with the things."
Fifth, there is no master, only the doctor
A college student, with his hand over his lower left abdomen ran to the infirmary, the doctor said: "Master, I have a stomachache." The doctor said: "Here only the doctor, no master. To find a master please go to the student cafeteria." The student's face reddened to his ears.
Comment:
For the cultural people must be clear, so as to reduce the embarrassment, which reflects their own cultural level, but also expresses the respect for others. Of course, as a doctor should also pay attention to the service attitude, pay attention to etiquette and cultivation. The improper language of the customer should be tolerated, criticize each other to adopt a euphemistic tone.
Six, the soprano on the phone
An acrobatic troupe is scheduled to perform in the United States next month, the troupe's director, Liu Ming on this matter to the Municipal Bureau of Culture for instructions, so he dialed the Cultural Affairs Bureau Director's Office of the phone.
But the phone rang for more than half a minute time, no one to answer. Liu Ming is wondering, suddenly the phone came from the end of an impatient soprano: "What's the matter?" Liu Ming froze, thinking that he dialed the wrong number: "May I ask if it's the Cultural Affairs Bureau?" "Nonsense, you don't know where you're calling from?" "Oh, hello, I'm from the City Song and Dance Troupe, may I ask if Director Wang is there?" "Who are you?" The other party interrogated without good humor. Liu Ming heart straight to mutter, "My name is Liu Ming, is the head of the acrobatic troupe."
"Liu Ming? What is your relationship with our director?"
"Relationship?" Liu Ming is even more puzzled;
"I don't have a personal relationship with Director Wang, I just want to ask for instructions about our troupe's performance abroad." "Performing abroad? Director Wang is not in, you can call back another day." Without waiting for Liu Ming to say anything else, the other party "snapped" and hung up the phone.
Liu Ming felt like being teased, holding the phone half a day did not come back to God.
Commentary:
In the above example, the comrade in the Bureau of Culture in the answer to the phone in a lazy attitude, the tone of voice, hard, rude, giving a person the feeling of overbearing. This not only affects the normal handling of official business, but also greatly undermines the image and status of national civil servants in the eyes of the people.
Seven, visit
A city in the South five years ago with a foreign city as a "friendly city". On the occasion of the fifth anniversary, the city was invited to visit. In order to visit abroad can be carried out smoothly, the city assigned a deputy mayor specifically responsible for the organization of this visit.
The deputy mayor was very experienced. He first put forward the list of visitors, and all the visitors to the targeted training, learning about the politics of the visiting city, economy, culture, customs and other aspects of knowledge. In addition, he also divided the work of all visitors, the leader, contact, translation, accommodation, food, security, etc. to the individual, but also questions, records, recording, photography and other tasks assigned to people.
Finally, he also asked the etiquette experts to teach all the members of the group to visit the etiquette of the norms of foreign visits, the members of the group's dress, socializing and socializing and other aspects of the specific provisions.
At the end of the group's visit abroad, foreign friends greatly appreciated the performance of the group members during the visit.
Comment:
The so-called visit refers to a planned and prepared field observation of a specific project. The deputy mayor organized the visit in a well-organized manner, especially in the etiquette of the training and requirements to do more specific, and was well received by foreign friends, reflecting the good image of China's civil servants.
Eight, please salute to the national emblem
World War I in the United States, a black major officer and a white soldier met on the road, the soldier saw the other side is black, there is no salute. As he swept past, he suddenly heard a low, firm voice behind him, "Please wait." The black officer said to him, "Soldier, I don't mind that you refused to salute me just now. But you must understand that I am a Major of the Army appointed by the President of the United States, and the coat of arms on this cap represents the glory and greatness of the United States. You may look down on me, but you must honor it. Now I will remove my hat and ask you to salute the coat of arms." The soldier finally saluted the officer. The black man was Benjamin Davis, who later became the first black general in American history.
Nine, so eat
When going out to a banquet with his colleagues, Jiang Kemi, an officer of the Finance Bureau, incurred a lot of criticism because of his misbehavior.
Jiang Kemi was at the banquet in order to eat freely, after the start of the meal will be repeatedly, again and again to reduce the "burden" on his body. First, he loosened his tie, then unbuttoned his collar, loosened his belt, rolled up his sleeves, and finally, quietly removed his shoes. Especially unpleasant is, Jiang Kemei in eating, always love intentionally or unintentionally smacking its flavor, eating a sound, and its ringing "a wave has not been leveled, a wave again", "a wave higher than a wave".
Jiang Kemei at the banquet of this behavior, not only to his side of the people jaw-dropping, but also called his colleagues are embarrassed. We have accused Jiang Kemi: lost their own people, lost the unit of people, but also lost the people of everyone.
Ten, visit
Zhang Lin is a city foreign affairs office of an officer, once, the leadership put him in charge of a delegation to visit the city to liaise with a country. In order to show respect to the other side, Zhang Lin decided to go to the other side of the hotel to visit each other.
In order to avoid a hasty appearance, he first made an appointment with the other party by phone, and told him the length of time he would stay. Then, he groomed himself and prepared some postcards of the city as a gift.
At that time, Zhang Lin arrived as scheduled, and after entering the door, he took the initiative to greet the other party and shook hands with them as a gift, then made a brief self-introduction, and handed over his business card and gift with both hands. After a brief exchange of pleasantries, he went straight to the heart of the matter, indicating his intention to talk in detail after shaking hands and leaving.
As a national civil servant, Zhang Lin's performance was in line with the regular etiquette of the meeting, and demonstrated his well-trained social style.