When my grandmother was alive, she always told me and my brother to stay in the city, because my brother-in-law and my aunts were all in the city, so it would be good to have a care. But even if

When my grandmother was alive, she always told me and my brother to stay in the city, because my brother-in-law and my aunts were all in the city, so it would be good to have a care. But even if they take care of it, they can't let us live well, the salary in our hometown is really too low.

I have a classmate in the hometown machinery company as a skilled worker, monthly salary of 4000 yuan, while in the big city, even the most common waiter and security guard, may be more than this monthly salary. It's easy for young people to find a job in a big city that pays more than 6,000 dollars a month, as long as they are not stupid or lazy.

When I was a salesman in Zhoushan, Zhejiang Province, my monthly income was basically around 6,000, with a maximum monthly salary of 10,000 yuan. If Zhoushan is divided into four cities, then my hometown can only be counted as eight lines away. If you want to earn more, you can only open your own store. In the absence of a lot of financial support, open a small store and work outside not much difference, but open a store but to bear more risk and pressure.

The village partners in the big city work, monthly salary of 2-3 million are not a few, to the old home is never dare to think. Even if the high consumption of the big city, saving four or five thousand per month, is not difficult. And just save this part, than many students in the old home of the monthly salary is higher.

It's worth a lot of young people leaving their homes to work in big cities just to earn more.

On top of that, big cities have a lot more going for them.

02. For the convenience of medical care

When I was sixteen years old, my cousin came to my house to play during the summer vacation, and the two of us ran around like crazy. I accidentally fell from a high place and cried out in pain at that time. I went to the most formal city hospital to check, but the doctor told me it was no big deal, just a slight sprain, rest a few days will be good. But after a week or so, the protruding bone still hasn't faded, and it's still there. It doesn't hurt, it's just not very pretty and I can't kneel on my left knee anymore. Maybe if I had been in the big city, this wouldn't have happened. (Maybe the doctor had good intentions?)

My mom has been coughing for years, and she can't afford to spend any money. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on a new product. The first time I went to a big city, I finally found out the problem.

In the old country, the medical condition is limited, sometimes the medical equipment is too old, sometimes the doctor's skill is not pass, every year because of the backward medical delay of the condition of the deterioration of the incident is not rare.

We came to the big city and wanted to fit in, not only to earn more money, but also for better medical care.

Big cities are unique in their location and resources, so many people break their heads to squeeze into them to work, pay social security, and enjoy the medical convenience of a big city.

03. A good environment

The environment I'm talking about is not only the public **** health and municipal facilities, but also the people who live in the big city.

When you stay in your old home for a long time, you become comfortable. I went back to my hometown during the holidays and found that my peers are almost all married or just hanging out, and in addition to going to work every day, I go out to drink and play mahjong, and I rarely have a positive heart. Because the people around you are basically living pretty much the same life as yourself, you are not willing to work hard for a better life.

And in the big city is different, everyone is in a hurry to walk, a friend said that the pace of life in the big city is too fast, for fear that they can not keep up. To be honest, this is the excuse for their own laziness. I've been in Shanghai for most of my life, and I've seen people working hard everywhere I go, in cafes, subway stations, and libraries, and I've always found people with computers, working on the spot, and starting meetings.

In the big city, there are more shopping malls than people, and everywhere you look, there is prosperity. The gap between the rich and the poor has forced people to move up. You are eating Sha Xian snacks in the corner, while others are blooding for luxury goods in the mall a hundred meters away. You almost got your mirror frame stepped on in order to squeeze the public transportation, and your peers drove their luxury cars whizzing past in front of your eyes.

It's not that you have to compare yourself with others, it's just that those who are serious about something good will always stimulate you to work harder. In the big city, you can't do it without a fight.

04. about the dream

I remember once on TV to see Wang Baoqiang on the program, he told the host, he became famous to go to Hong Kong to walk the red carpet, the people of the hometown envy is not that he is famous, but that he actually sat on the plane.

People living at the bottom of the social ladder don't have that much of a fantasy about fame, or they simply don't know what it means to be famous, and all they can think of in their hearts is the great dream of being able to take an airplane.

I know that the vast majority of young people like me. They all want to settle down in the big city, but most of them end up spending the money they earn in the big city on buying a house in their hometown, on their children's education and life.

But still look forward to the day when you can beautifully turn over. The birth of a child in a small city or a rural area is not a decision, but the future of life and the future of the next generation, it is too late to change.

We gathered in the big city from all over the world, maybe not eating and drinking, maybe not living well, but the odds are better, more opportunities.

My own uncle, from the countryside, less than twenty years old, went to Beijing, in order to run the business, the country's major cities have gone all over.

He is doing kitchen equipment business, more than ten years ago, he did not buy a house, just take some savings to go to the marriage. In fact, his savings at that time was not much, but also deducted a part, bought a cheap van, with his wife and daughter to the big city.

When his business slowly got better, he started to buy a house in his hometown, and in the first few years, he paid off the mortgage in his hometown, and now he has upgraded both his car and his house.

Now the family lives in a rented house, not because they can't afford a new house, but because their little cousin is about to start middle school, and they're not sure where to buy a school district house.

The younger cousin has signed up for dance, piano and English lessons in her spare time, and the uncle's family has almost all the appliances they need, because now more than ever, he can afford to live better.

If my uncle hadn't gotten out of the house and gone to the big city, maybe he would have been a hard-working farmer, and maybe not a bad one, but wanting to make things happen, it certainly wouldn't have been as easy as it is now.

Maybe you're not doing so well now, but things are getting better, aren't they?

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