According to the owner's description, I'll speculate that most belong to the typical lack of self-confidence, as well as insecurity of the state. Most of this situation stems from your former experience, and with the female side of certain aspects of the asymmetry caused by. I suggest that you go to a local hospital, usually level 3 or higher hospitals have a psychological clinic.
I checked, the First People's Hospital of Baiyin City has a mental health department, which is the most authoritative and professional psychological counseling clinic in your area. Ongoing psychological counseling can effectively help the owner to open the knot in his heart to a healthier mental state to meet the challenges of the future.