We all find that the elderly now prefer to spend the rest of their lives in nursing homes, rather than relying on their children to support them as they did in the past, why is this? I think there are three main reasons:
First of all, the most important reason is that nowadays the old people are not willing to bring trouble to their children, both in terms of ideology and behavior, and feel that as long as their children live well they will be relieved. So the old people would rather keep a certain distance from their children, but also not willing to let their children support themselves, do not want to let the children feel bored. I believe that many people have heard the words of distance produces beauty, and sometimes it is really so, and then close people, if they stay together for a long time will also produce boredom, and even often appear all kinds of contradictions and conflicts. Therefore, some of the elderly after careful consideration decided not to live with their children, but live in the nursing home, take the time to get together with their children, so as to maintain a certain distance between each other, both for themselves and their children, is a good choice.
Secondly, the elderly choose to spend time in nursing homes, but also because in the nursing home, there are many elderly people, together have a lot of **** the same language, you can play chess together, dancing, while living with their children but very few **** the same language. The reason why some old people choose to live in a nursing home is in fact carefully considered, they will be before going to the nursing home, the nursing home environment will be carefully examined. In their opinion, the old people in the nursing home are about the same age as they are, and they basically have a very similar philosophy of life, so they all share the same **** language, and they can talk to each other without any worries. But if they live with their own children, there are often a variety of problems, for example, children are usually concerned about the children and work, due to the generation gap in communication with the elderly, so there is rarely **** the same language. In the long run, the elderly will feel lonely and helpless, relatively speaking, not as good as living in a nursing home to chat with their peers more freely and happily.
Lastly, the old people live in nursing homes are safe and secure, and children live with not all can be fully cared for, and now many cities in the country have a nursing home, where the medical equipment is more and more advanced, but also has a careful and thoughtful medical staff, once the elderly appeared sudden emergencies, you can be the first time for emergency treatment, so in the safety of the quite guaranteed. Comparatively speaking, if they live with their children, due to the fact that their children usually work under great pressure and even have to work overtime, sometimes they do not even have time to take care of their children, not to mention taking care of the elderly. Therefore, in the opinion of many elderly people, living with their children is not as safe and secure as living in a nursing home.
So nowadays some old people would rather live in nursing homes than with their own children for a long time. We also hope that all the old people can have a sense of security in their old age and all the children can be filial to their parents.