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2. Pursue lofty ideals and strengthen lofty beliefs.
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Third, establish a correct outlook on life and values, and distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil, beauty and ugliness.
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(1) Establishing a correct and lofty outlook on life can not only constantly correct college students' attitude towards life, but also always lead them to meet every challenge and overcome every difficulty with a positive attitude and outlook. Values are people's beliefs, beliefs and ideal systems about basic values, including good and evil, beauty and ugliness, pros and cons, gains and losses, fortunes, honor and disgrace, pros and cons, high and low, usefulness and uselessness, loveliness and hatred, appropriateness, importance, priorities and so on. How can we make the right choice under different conditions and actively adjust our attitude towards life? As college students in the new era, we should adhere to the correct and upward value orientation and constantly improve ourselves. The world outlook is an ideological framework or system that affects a person's behavior, and it is a prerequisite that determines why a person has certain words, deeds and decisions. College students are in their prime. Only by closely linking our destiny with the rise and fall of the Chinese nation and broadening our horizons can we make a difference. To be a qualified college student, we must establish a correct outlook on life, make correct choices when solving a series of major problems in life, and always move in the right direction of life development.
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(2) A correct attitude towards life
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The attitude towards life not only restricts a person's understanding and grasp of life contradictions and problems, but also affects a person's mental state and life trend. Contemporary college students in China are in an important period of strategic opportunities for national development, facing both rare life opportunities and arduous life challenges.
Learning to meet all kinds of contradictions and difficulties in life practice requires a correct attitude towards life.
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(4) Proceed from the reality of life, treat life with a scientific attitude, create life with a pragmatic spirit, and do everything well with a pragmatic style. Start with small things, start with things around you, be down-to-earth, and realize life goals step by step.
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The main task of college students is to study.
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Book knowledge is the crystallization of the development of human civilization, the result of past experience and experiments, and it is irreplaceable. One of the main advantages of a university is that it has a large number of books. We must seize this opportunity and study hard in a planned and efficient way. "Use books, hate less", big
Extensive intake and rich accumulation during the study period will become a valuable asset for our life.
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How should universities study? We can start from the following aspects:
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(1) Pay attention to the study of basic knowledge and lay a solid foundation for professional study. Many college students despise the study of basic knowledge, and as a result, they are short of money when studying professional courses, which directly affects the completion of their studies. In fact, although the basic courses in the university overlap and repeat what you have learned before, both the theoretical depth and breadth have been greatly strengthened. Only by learning the basic knowledge well can we make a difference at a higher level.
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(2) Cultivate creativity. On the premise of learning basic knowledge well, college students should understand the latest development of this industry, exercise their ability of combining knowledge with practice, give full play to their creative potential, closely combine the great practice of building a well-off society in an all-round way, and be brave in creating, be good at creating and keep creating on the basis of constantly understanding and grasping objective laws.
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(3) Arrange your study time reasonably. Make a reasonable university study plan and ensure that it is strictly implemented. If "fishing for three days and drying the net for two days", even the best plan is useless.
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(4) Develop the good habit of self-study. In college, teachers teach a lot of content in every class, which is very fast. The teacher only talks about the outline and skeleton of what he wants to master. Obviously, it is difficult to fully understand and digest in class, and there are many things that need to be supplemented and mastered through in-depth discussion and self-study. Cultivating the habit of self-study and truly integrating knowledge is also the need to adapt to the development of work and social changes.
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5. Strengthen moral cultivation, temper moral quality, and inherit and carry forward the excellent moral tradition of the Chinese nation.
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Tradition is like a river, a stream of life. It is a relatively stable historical experience accumulated by a nation from generation to generation. College students should establish socialist morality and be masters of society.
Righteousness, honor and disgrace, strengthen their moral cultivation, sublimate their moral realm, and lay a good moral foundation for healthy development.
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Intransitive verbs improve people's communication skills
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Treat others with sincerity, blame yourself with the heart of blaming others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself. Be sincere and tolerant of others and criticize yourself. Treat people as you treat others, and others will treat you as well. Just like looking in the mirror,
Your own expression and attitude can be seen from the expressions and attitudes of others. The most sincere friendship and the most difficult hatred are gradually caused by this "reflection" principle.
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(1) Encourage others as much as possible.
You should praise his achievements ―― even a small success. Praise is like sunshine. Without sunshine, we have no nourishment for growth. Your praise will never be superfluous.
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(2) You should let others save face at any time.
Don't embarrass anyone, don't belittle others, and don't exaggerate their mistakes.
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(3) Observe others carefully, and you will find out what they have done.
Give reasons when expressing compliments, so that your compliments won't be flattering.
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(4) You should always quote other people's noble thoughts and motives.
Everyone wants to be considered generous and selfless by others. If you want others to improve, then you act as if they already have these excellent qualities. In that case, he will do everything possible not to disappoint.
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(5) Try not to criticize others, and it is best to take an indirect approach when you have to criticize.
You should always be right about things, not people. You should let the other person know that you really like him and are willing.
Help him. You should not criticize others in your writing.
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(6) You should allow others to feel good about themselves occasionally.
Don't brag, admit that you have shortcomings. You should be modest and prudent, guard against arrogance and rashness. If you want to make enemies, hit others everywhere. If you want to make friends, you must be tolerant.
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(7) apologize in time when making mistakes; When you are to be blamed, you'd better take the initiative to apologize.
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You should give more advice, not give orders.
In this way, you can promote cooperation and avoid conflicts.
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When others are angry, you should show understanding.
The anger of others is often just to get your attention. You should give enough sympathy and attention to others ―― they need it.
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You should talk as little as possible.
You should give others a chance to tell and be a good listener yourself.
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(1 1). Don't interrupt others, even if they say something wrong.
He won't listen to you patiently when he has something on his mind.
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(12). You should try to analyze things from the standpoint of others.
The Indian said, "First of all, you should walk a long way from the standpoint of others." Don't forget to ask yourself: Why did he do it? Understanding everything means forgiving everything.
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(13). If there is a conflict, you should keep calm.
First of all, you should listen to each other's opinions and try to find the agreement between them. You should also look at yourself critically, promise to consider his opinions and thank him for his inspiration.
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(14). Always address each other by their full names.
This shows your respect for him. Everyone wants to hear his name, which makes him happier than hearing any alternative name.
Of course, you should try to remember each other's names for this.
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(15). You should try your best to make the other person feel good when talking to everyone, including calling-first to himself, then to your behavior, and finally to you.
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(16) Forgive others as soon as possible and don't hold grudges.
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Seven. obey the law
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We actively do what the law encourages. We must do it according to the requirements of the law. We will never do anything forbidden by law.
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Conclusion: As college students, we should strive to improve ourselves and improve our comprehensive ability.
Ability, be strict with yourself in life, study and thought, win eight honors and refuse.
Eight disgraces, be a qualified college student and make contributions to the motherland.