Hello, this is the first time my father has written to you. 19 is your first birthday. How time flies. In fact, my father is a person who is not good at expressing, but there are many things I want to say at this moment, but I don't know where to start when I mention the pen. I can write wherever I want.
You are my mother's lucky star. Your mother worked hard when she was pregnant with you. She was still working eight months ago. By the third month of pregnancy, 9 10, she was trying to prepare for the tone selection exam. At night, because of your extremely severe fetal movement, she fell asleep very late and woke up at six in the morning. That summer vacation, she studied for nearly six hours every day on average. She is a pregnant mother who works very hard.
Coincidentally, you just caught the due date exam. You really live up to expectations, and the whole family is worried. My mother is still taking an exam in the examination room. What should you do if you want to go to the ground? However, to everyone's surprise, you passed the exam with your mother well. The next day after the exam, you started to make trouble, and the next afternoon, you were born.
More coincidentally, your mother has just been pushed out of the delivery room, and there is good news. My mother ranked high in the exam results and was selected successfully. Everyone is wishing her double happiness.
Later on maternity leave, your mother took you to prepare for the high school English teacher qualification exam. Because you are breastfeeding exclusively, I have to take you to Changsha for a written interview. I still remember the last exam, my father was worried about you and my mother outside, and in both exams, my mother stayed inside and worried about whether you were hungry or not. Before the end of the exam, your mother rushed out of the examination room to nurse you. Fortunately, both the written test and the interview were passed at one time.
Your mother often laments that you have brought her good luck. Of course, my father thinks that your mother's own diligence should be added.
The time that you worried me the most was on the 27th day of your birth, when you got sick for the first time in your life. That morning 1, your mother called me in a panic. I was on the night shift, and I really wanted to fly to your side with wings to take care of you.
Dad caught the first high-speed train the next morning and came to the hospital where you were hospitalized as quickly as possible. Dad's heart was broken when he saw the infusion tube inserted in his head. I hope dad can help you suffer. Fortunately, your fever dropped the next day, and this stone in Dad's heart fell to the ground.
Dora, dad is an incompetent dad. You are one year old. During the 365 days you grew up here, your father didn't take up the responsibility of being a father. I really spend too little time with you, just two or three days a month. So that you have a vague impression of the role of dad, as if you think that dad is a person who lives by telephone, so every time you answer the phone, you always shake it with your mobile phone and throw it on the ground, because you know that dad in the mobile phone is not with you.
I remember that once my mother and grandmother took you to Changsha, and I was about to take you from my mother, but you cried so badly that it seemed to fall into the wrong hands. You struggled hard, and dad's heart was cold that day. Of course, my father knows very well that this is my father's personal reason, which has nothing to do with you, but my father spends too little time with you. My father is an outsider in your eyes.
Dad likes to take pictures of you every time he goes back, hoping to record every moment of you. Dad usually opens his mobile phone photo album to see you when he is free.
Dora, the hardest person this year is your mother. 365 days and 365 nights, almost every day your mother put you to sleep. Mom is really hard. She said that women are weak and mothers are strong. These eight words fully reflect the current situation of your mother. Your mother is a self-disciplined person, who loves studying, working and family.
But after you were born, your mother had little sleep time, because you sometimes wake up several times when you sleep at night, which led to your mother's frequent lack of sleep. Especially after your mother goes to work, because your mother has to get up at 5 am to give herself early education. A person who can't sleep well at night will easily become haggard, and you will understand when you grow up.
Your mother has been crying silently for countless nights. It's really hard to take you. Sometimes she is also very broken and wants to share it with her father, but he is not there at that time. Sometimes if you don't listen, mom will lose her temper with you. Please don't take it to heart. It's all because dad's not around.
Some things can only be understood after experience, so your mother's hard work will not be known until one day when she becomes a mother.
Dora, dad is very sorry for you and mom. Sometimes my father is helpless, feels useless, earns too little money, has no time to accompany you and can't give you complete fatherly love. However, I believe everything will be extremely successful. Dad will definitely work harder, earn money and spend as much time with you as possible.
When Dora grows up, she must learn from your mother, self-discipline and progress. You must also thank your mother, your grandmother and your grandparents. It is their selfless dedication that makes you grow up healthily and happily.
Bud, your one-year-old father didn't give you any gifts, but he kept your one-year-old footprints. I hope you remember that the road of life is step by step, all the way forward, and I hope you can become an excellent independent and confident person in the future!
Let's stop here.
? August 29, 1965 438+09
Written in Changsha