1. Don't swear to your children.
Influenced by the education level and living environment, some parents are used to swearing, which is difficult to correct for a while. But when you talk to children, you must exercise restraint, pay attention to your words and don't scold them.
When you are in trouble, keep calm.
When you encounter unexpected situations in your life, you must keep a cool head and calmly deal with them. Don't panic, and don't call names to vent your dissatisfaction.
3. Always pay attention to children's feelings
As the saying goes, "disaster comes from the mouth", so you must think twice before you speak, and you can't say whatever you want, especially to express your views on children. I suggest that when you talk about children's advantages and disadvantages in public or in front of outsiders, you must consider their inner feelings and don't hurt their self-esteem.
Children's self-esteem is easily hit, which is difficult for our parents to realize. Over time, children's physical and mental health is greatly affected. Therefore, in the process of educating children, we must pay more attention to children, pay more attention to their emotions, and avoid children being hurt by their parents' behavior.
When we can re-examine the contradiction with children, those moments that can make you feel angry, angry, desperate and disappointed may make you feel different. Re-examine the voices behind these behaviors, meet the inner needs of children, listen and discuss with respect, and I believe that you and your children will become close partners who talk about everything.
More than 90% of children will be mediocre in the end, but what does it matter, as long as they can live a happy life? Parents can have this mentality, and when communicating with their children, it will help them build a healthy psychology.
Every child is unique, an elf who fell into the mortal world. They chose their parents in heaven and hope to be treated well in this world!