Every parent doesn't let their children lose at the starting line, so primary schools require Chinese and mathematics to be double hundred, middle schools require classes to be among the best, and universities strive to get a North Qing exam. For these purposes, children begin to attend interest classes in kindergarten and enroll in remedial classes after primary school, which leads to too many things.
Children's test scores do not meet parents' expectations, and some parents will be furious. It is common for children to be scolded and beaten. To this end, some children have learned to lie, afraid to say what they really think, and afraid to take out unit test papers for parents to sign.
Some parents work in other places for a long time and don't see their children several times a year. It is difficult for parents to understand and deal with children's injuries in society or bullying in school in time. After a long time, their children will become psychologically distorted and may become students with psychological problems.
2. Pressure from social environment.
People's tendency to compare with others in society is reflected in children. Some students in school have more pocket money than others. Whose clothes are famous brands and whose birthday gifts are more expensive. These trends make students from poor families feel inferior. They will become withdrawn and unsociable, and their academic performance will also decline, gradually becoming closed children.
Some students face the dual pressure of graduation and employment after going to college. They can't graduate if they fail all the subjects in the university, and they can't graduate if they fail their thesis. On the eve of graduation, they encountered the problem of difficult employment. The reality makes many college students afraid, afraid to go to society, and they are under great psychological pressure.
3. Pressure from school.
The teacher in the school requires students to get high marks. Students have different foundations, families and intelligence. Not every student can be excellent, even those who study well can't be excellent in every exam. Therefore, students are under too much pressure to study, and some psychologically fragile students can't stand the double blow of parents and teachers, and often have psychological problems.
Some teachers discriminate against poor students. For some students, perhaps the teacher's cynical language is the straw that overwhelms some students. Students look down, teachers look down, and their grades can't be improved. Some poor students will become distorted psychologically and even hate their classmates and teachers. When they grow up, they may hate society.
4. Pressure from love and marriage.
Many students want to talk about a vigorous love after they go to college. Two of a kind is the best, just afraid of shaving your head and carrying pole with its load. Especially for boys with ordinary family conditions, they want to find a college classmate. Some girls are disgusted. They dislike that boys have no money or power at home and cannot give themselves a rich life. This situation often causes the pain and psychological impact of boys, making them feel that their lives are bleak.
Therefore, college students with psychological problems on the Internet are often reported, and suicides are also common.
Rome was not built in a day, and children's psychological problems are gradually formed day by day. I hope parents can talk to their children more and find out their psychological problems in time. Serious psychological problems need the treatment of professional psychological counselors, and don't let your children become depressed patients and autistic patients.