Usually, if a child does something right or surprises me, I will praise him. I obviously find that he will feel very happy when I praise him, so don't be stingy with your praise. Praising him at the right time is very useful for him to build up confidence.
Second, start with eating.
There is no denying that children like it very much. When they see something delicious, they will be greedy for you to say that they want to eat this and that. In my experience, I should do the following three things.
1, when giving it to children, it will be regularly quantified, and eat less or no snacks. If he is greedy and wants to eat snacks, you can give him a small amount of biscuits and chocolate, but at the same time reduce the intake of rice and fruit, such as French fries, ice cream, drinks and other puffed foods. Try not to give him food.
2, the usual food should be diversified, and eating an ingredient in different ways will make him feel fresh. If necessary, I can ask him to help wash vegetables and watch me cook, so that he will be conscious when eating.
Besides, tell her to drink more water. In fact, children should drink at least 1200ml of boiled water every day. Remember that boiled water is not a drink.
Third, give play to wisdom.
Children like playing very much. As a mother, I am just a supporting role in his game. After giving him the toy, I just need to tell him how to play, and I won't interfere with others. Soon I found that children can play many new tricks. At this time, I think children will think in play and explore their own world.
Fourth, we must be faithful to our children.
You really must keep your word to your children. No matter how busy you are, once you promise your child, you must do it. If you break your word or lie to him, he won't trust you. This is very important. Your child's imitation ability is also very strong. Don't let him learn these bad things, parents should set an example.
Fifth, criticize and educate when doing something wrong.
If you just praise children blindly, it will only be flowers in the greenhouse. Once a child does something wrong, we should criticize education, but the way to criticize education should not be too extreme or too violent. We can tell him that this is wrong and how to do it by reasoning or telling stories.
Parenting experience of kindergarten parents 2 Hello everyone, we are parents of Xiao Jiahao. In a blink of an eye, Xiao Jiahao is over five years old. He is a cheerful, confident, happy and intelligent child. Because of work, grandparents mainly take care of their children's daily diet and transportation to school. And we can't take care of everything for our children. The corresponding correct guidance and education faced by children's gradual growth makes us feel that educating children is not a simple matter. While educating children to grow up, it is our parents' responsibility and our problem to master the methods and standards. We are afraid that if we don't pay attention, we will indulge our children to form many bad habits. Fortunately, now that the child is in kindergarten, he grows sturdily under the careful cultivation of the teacher, and every progress he makes surprises us!
As parents, our greatest wish is to make peace, health and happiness accompany our children's life as much as possible. Let's try to talk about our parenting experience:
1, extrapolate. The child's imitation ability is very strong, and everyone around him is his imitation object, so we will pay attention to our words and deeds, respect the elderly, pay attention to cleanliness and love labor, and let the baby be influenced and infected in daily life, thus developing good moral character.
2. Appreciate education. We find that appreciating children is a good way to cultivate their self-confidence. Self-confidence helps him bravely face the challenges from all sides now and in the future. As parents, a look, a gesture and a compliment are all intangible forces, which can stimulate children's fighting spirit, enhance their confidence and inspire their courage. When he came home from school and consciously ran to the bathroom to wash his hands with hand sanitizer, when he got up in the morning and consciously brushed his teeth and washed his face, when he took the initiative to help take care of his sister, we all praised him: "Jiahao, you are great!" And passed the eyes of affirmation and appreciation, so that the baby was deeply encouraged and deeply understood that it was right to do so. It is parents' nature to love children, which makes us understand in practice that the effect of encouragement and praise is far better than reprimanding and beating.
3. Teach children to respect others and be polite. Let the baby know that the world is not self-centered, people who respect others will be respected, and polite people will be accepted by others.
I believe that children can do it. At this stage, children have their own opinions. More often, he is willing to do things by himself, and we will let him do it by himself, instead of doing it for him blindly, thinking that the child can't do well or is in danger. In fact, every time he learns to do something, he needs a process. If a child is not allowed to try and do it by himself, he will never learn. And we just need to observe and guide him correctly when he asks for help, or guide the demonstration in advance.
5. Cultivate children's interest. Cultivating a child's interest should start with his curiosity. Children nowadays always ask "why" and are curious about new things. Sometimes we don't have the "why" question, they will ask. If one Sunday, we say to him, "Baby, let's go out to play today." He immediately asked, "Why?" The baby asked this question, which seems to us to be beyond doubt. He may not understand why he doesn't have to go to kindergarten today and why he doesn't play at home today. "Today is the weekend, the baby doesn't have to go to school, and mom and dad don't have to go to work, so we want to take you out to play ..." If we are bored and perfunctory when children ask questions, it will stifle their enthusiasm for learning. In this way, children will be afraid to ask questions for fear that their parents will be bored, and they will lose their curiosity about things and the basis for cultivating various interests.
Parenting experience of kindergarten parents 3 I have the same expectations for children as everyone else. I hope my children can grow up healthily and be happy every day. I want her to learn more skills so that she can better integrate into the society when she grows up and be able to deal with various problems in the future.
In my present life, I attach great importance to children's habits. We cultivate her deliberately and have good habits to change her from conscious behavior to unconscious behavior. I will take the trouble to tell her to wash her hands before meals and remind her every time. Now she will take the initiative to wash her hands before meals and no longer ask why. Maybe at first, I will tell her that washing hands is to wash away the bacteria, or enlarge the bacteria into bugs to make her feel. I think this is the process of habit cultivation, which is very long. Maybe every time I nag her, it takes her longer to wash her hands.
I spend a lot of time on children's meals. My daughter hasn't gained weight in the past year. Every time she eats, she doesn't eat vegetables or meat for various reasons. Too much rice and too hot soup made me really helpless. Later, I found that girls still love beauty, so I started here. Eating vegetables will brighten her eyes, eating meat will make her grow up, wear a more beautiful skirt and drink water without cracking her lips and nose. Secondly, we should give all kinds of encouragement and praise, which is considered as a meal, but I don't think it will play a long role. This method can only be managed for a while. When we really have no choice, we can only take measures to collect snacks and not let us watch TV, or we will be punished. I really didn't do well in this respect, and there was nothing I could do. It's not like my experience. I'm a little unhappy.
Every child likes watching cartoons. The key point is that the TV station has been playing endlessly now, and this station has ended and that station has started, so the children have watched it all day, so this question is also more difficult. I don't watch more than two episodes of TV for my children at a time. If I watch too much, I will intervene immediately. When watching TV, you must constantly remind yourself of your sitting posture and distance. At this age, my daughter has not taken the initiative to watch TV. On this issue, the most common mistake I make is that I forget the time when I do things by myself. Sometimes I don't have time to accompany my children and take the initiative to let them watch TV. This will cause children to get used to watching TV for a long time, thinking that I told her to watch it, and it is natural to watch TV for a long time. I bought an alarm clock specially for this purpose, so that I can remind myself of the time when my children watch TV in time. Also, when you ask your child to turn off the TV, you must make it clear to her, because the child is so absorbed in watching TV that she can't hear you. Even if she agrees, it may be a conditioned reflex. At this time, you can't blame the child for disobedience. Go to her, talk to her, and pull her mind out of the animated plot. Of course, this time is the best advertising time. I think this problem is easier to handle. After all, I can control the power supply, but if I am not happy at the moment, I can use something else to transfer it immediately.
Another problem of my daughter is that she is not easy to accept criticism and insists on what she thinks is right (actually wrong). In the previous stage, she always thought that 1+ 1 was not equal to 2. Even if I asked her to count her fingers, she wouldn't admit it. Maybe she's embarrassed or really doesn't know. Sometimes I insist and want her to know that 1+ 1 equals 2. In the end, she changed the subject and even walked away. This kind of problem has been encountered many times. When she tells her mistakes, she will not accept them directly, and sometimes she will resent them. Although at her age, I don't want her to study the knowledge she encountered in the exam, I am still very anxious in this case, fearing that she will become very headstrong in the future. Now I have found a more effective way, that is, to let her know what she thinks is "right" from the side, from the comics and from the point reading machine. Of course, it is best for the teacher to say it. In comics, 1+ 1 equals 2. Let her watch it twice. When she is asked again from time to time, she will accept it well, but don't say her previous mistakes, let her correct them and learn the correct knowledge without hurting her self-esteem.
We have tried many ways to show children's liveliness and bravery, which may be genetic. Our husband and wife are both introverted and inarticulate. Therefore, educating daughters has many disadvantages. At present, my daughter is particularly introverted, refuses to take the initiative to speak, is not good at expressing, and is easy to escape when encountering difficulties. We have been encouraging her to do something by herself and to communicate with others actively, and the effect is not obvious. This is the most puzzling thing for us. Of course, we will continue to look for good ways to make her progress.
Finally, I wish the children healthy growth, teachers and parents peace and happiness!
Parenting experience of kindergarten parents received a short message from teacher Liu on Friday, April 4, asking parents to write a parenting experience in their spare time on weekends. Hehe, to be honest, I still have a headache after receiving this news. I really don't know if I have any parenting experience, and I don't know if I have treated my children correctly in recent years. When the child was born, he was full of confidence and felt that he would be able to educate the child well and let the child develop according to his own imagination. He also bought a lot of parenting books. But sometimes it is difficult to educate children as taught in books. After all, every child is different. And parenting also requires all family members to cooperate with this move. I believe in this concept. If someone in the family doesn't cooperate, it will definitely be more difficult.
Cece is a lively child at home. She likes singing and dancing, but she is timid. She is a slow-heating child, so I advocate taking her to contact outsiders and nature as much as possible.
Before she was two years old, she was just afraid to meet strangers. She will haunt her mother when she meets strangers. A new early education center has just opened near where we live-true baby. This early education center has an hour of parent-child games every morning 10: 00 from Tuesday to Sunday. Because she lived close at that time, she could also ask her grandmother to take her to this personal game every day, just for a month or two. Cece will never associate with anyone, and she will be embarrassed to see the teacher. She will hide, but she still likes the atmosphere there, where she can play games, slides and bobo pools. After more than two months, Cece began to change. The teacher can take her to play alone, and she will have the courage to sit next to the teacher and dance with him. Although she is still sensitive, I think it is a psychological challenge for her. My mother thinks she is.
Before the Spring Festival this year, we moved from Buji to Baoan. After the New Year, Cece directly enrolled in Chuangye Village Kindergarten. As a mother, she is most worried, because she is a very timid and sensitive child, especially afraid that her child will cry if she doesn't adapt to kindergarten life and leaves her family to a strange environment. To my surprise, on the first day of sending Cece to kindergarten, I saw so many freshmen crying around the teacher. Of course, we have done ideological work with her before. I told her that when I got to kindergarten, I just played with my teachers and children. My mother has gone to work and will pick her up this afternoon. She agreed, but she really stopped crying when she got to kindergarten. This situation is really unexpected for the mother, and I also know that the child's inner self-regulation function is quite powerful.
Parenting experience of kindergarten parents 5 To say that my parenting experience is really nothing, everyone is a new mother and we have to explore everything. The baby grows up day by day, and I mature with her. How to understand children, learn to explore ways to educate and train children, and let them grow up healthily.
Diandian is a stubborn child, but he is also a good boy who eats soft rice instead of hard rice. The more mean you are to her, the more she cries. If you squat down and talk to her, you will be obedient, sensible and surprise us, just like an adult. So I often switch roles with her and let her be my sister or even my mother. She will tell me one by one what to do and what not to do, and then she will gradually get rid of her usual bad habits, and I have achieved my goal ahead of schedule. Why not?
A child's personality is not innate, and the cultivation of the day after tomorrow is very important. Diandian has a temper, but she is straightforward. I don't like children clinging like candy. Even if she cries, she won't last long. When she is endless, we use the transfer method. For example, when she is clamoring about where to play or what toys to buy, I will suddenly say, "Oh, why is the toy that Dad bought yesterday gone?" She immediately stopped making trouble and went to find a toy and said, "Look, isn't it here?" In the morning, children often stay in bed, especially in winter. They closed their eyes, curled up under the covers and refused to get up. So I put something in her ear and said, "Look at this?" Do you know what my husband bought you today? She woke up soon, hehe, she has been working hard. But sometimes it's unreasonable. At this time, no matter what the truth is, ignore her, put her aside, and the family will keep pace. She will cry until she cries, and then a "good man" will stand up and reason with her. At this time, she will stop crying immediately and keep saying, "Sister is good, sister doesn't cry." Our family will laugh knowingly at once. The children are still young, and our education is positive. We never threatened her, saying that the wolf came and the monster came to eat the baby. We never put the child in a dark room. Can't leave a shadow on the child's young mind.
The teacher often praises her dexterous hands. Of course, we adults are very helpful, but this is also the result of her frequent mess at home. It doesn't want her to clean up. Only let's race to see who cleans up the cleanest! She will be as excited as a clockwork robot. Children are eager to learn and be active since childhood, and they can best imitate adults. When they saw us cleaning, she rushed to clean the table and sweep the floor. When she saw her napkin dipped in water, she wiped it everywhere. Although it sometimes got dirty, we were all happy to see her serious and happy appearance! Our family often interacts with her. For example, she cooks with bibs and pots and pans, and asks this "what food do you want to eat" and that "what food do you want to eat" solemnly. We all say "I want to eat fried rice with eggs" and "I want to eat steamed fish", and she says yes and does it right away. It will be served to everyone soon, and we will pretend to eat with relish and keep praising "delicious", and she will giggle at once.
A child is a blank sheet of paper, and has no concept of what is good and bad, what should be done and what should not be done. When she first arrived at school, she knew nothing. The teacher gave out red flowers, but she threw them away. Because she didn't like it, some children did something wrong. In order to educate everyone, the teacher asked them to stand on it and tell them what was wrong, but she would stand on it with them. At this time, she cooperated with the teacher to educate the children patiently. Combined with her performance at home, she also likes to play with water. For example, she washed a lot of utensils on the faucet. First, her clothes were wet. Second, she liked to play with water. We told her that it is wrong to cough when clothes are wet, and it is wrong to waste water. Combined with the drought in the south, we told her that children in the south can't take a bath because there is no water, and so on, so that she can know how to save water. Now she often sends small posts to all of us, saying that whoever behaves well will send small posts to her, and our whole family is the object of her education.
Children have vanity since childhood and like to compete for the first place. When she saw that she couldn't win the first prize, she was shameless. She insists that we wait for her to let her, and sometimes she just cries. At this moment, I taught her: First, you should fight for it yourself, instead of asking everyone to give it to you. The same is true at school. Other children won the first prize because others have great skills. If you win the first prize, you must compete with others. It is a great honor to win the first prize. You should also be happy for your friends. Slowly, she understood that she would never cry again because she didn't win the first prize.
Because of physical reasons, we will still spoil her a little. We will feel very distressed when she coughs and breathes, but the doctor won't let us eat sweet food, so we will tell her that when we are healthy enough, we will go to the supermarket to see this sweet one and that sweet one, which are all sweet anyway. I hate it! I am funny and pathetic. I hope she can recover soon and be a healthy baby!
Diandian likes dancing very much. Specifically, she twisted her ass. Every time she asked me to turn on the music in my mobile phone, and then let us sit down, she began to dance. In fact, she has been interested in music since she was six months old. She can always grasp the beat and twist happily. She writes and plays by herself. We just need to be her audience and bow our thanks at the end. Sometimes we have to sing a song. Although some lyrics were incomplete, we all smiled and applauded her, so she preferred dancing. Our whole family also unanimously decided to let her learn Latin dance and never bury her little talent.
In fact, I didn't ask her to be smart and capable, let nature take its course and tell her the common sense of life and the truth of being a man. I think that's enough. Kindergarten is the happiest place for children, a paradise for children, and a big family that is first perceived. Enough play and recognition is enough, let them know to respect the old and love the young, be kind to others, love classmates and care about others. To be a kind boy, the first thing is to be a man, the second is to study and be healthy physically and mentally.
When you are with your baby, you often become a child, and even the whole family will become a child. My mother-in-law often laughs that the whole family will become mentally retarded. We use her heart to feel and interpret the world. Dear baby, I hope you grow up healthily. This is the hope of every family and the hope of the whole society! Guoguo's parents