Yes, there is no hard and fast rule in this world, who should be supported unconditionally. What's more, in the love of the new century, the economic independence of men and women has become the norm, and no one needs to rely on anyone. However, whether it is necessary or not is one thing, and whether it is given or not is another.
Among the married friends around me, there has never been a so-called AA system. Whether you are married or in love, you talk openly about money and love.
As for the expenditure of money, they all choose to come and go tacitly, so they sublimate their feelings in such exchanges. What matters to a woman is not a man's money, but his attitude towards money and you.
Love is mutual. If a man is willing to spoil a woman and become the only little princess in love, then this girl really becomes the most special little prince in love.
Because each other is unique and special, the word "love" has made people so willing to risk their lives and even give up everything.
Although AA marriage is not a big problem in theory, from the standpoint of friendship, it unconsciously kills the warmth and sweetness in love and marriage.
If a girl makes up her mind, she will spend the rest of her life together. But after marriage, she should be careful everywhere and be as tough as a hedgehog all her life. What's the point of marrying this man?
In real life, this kind of thing is everywhere, which seems wonderful. In fact, it is a selfish mentality, that is, a mentality that only wants to take advantage of others and does not want to pay.
In a word, one person in a family has to live on AA system, which will make people a little uncomfortable for whatever reason.
This is not the same as that kind of "brother accounting". There is nothing wrong with a family that needs two people to work together, but if it is too clear, it will have no taste of home and no meaning of home.