Of course, don't talk about finding a man with good economic conditions or who is particularly good or who is particularly good to himself. None of this is reliable. If you want to live a good life, you must be a smart person who can see clearly the social reality and the people around you.
Knowing who is good to you and who is useful to you, being a smart person requires reading more books, not reading chicken soup for the soul or reading textbooks.
One is to increase self-cultivation,
The second place to make yourself cute,
The third is to see people and things more thoroughly.
These things need to be accumulated, and they can't be achieved in one day, two days, one year or two, but one must have this idea and work hard in this respect, so that after 70 or 80 years, it will be the last happiness in life.