Today, I saw an article entitled "How to be a healthy and happy kindergarten teacher", which made me feel very reasonable and benefited a lot.
I want to extract it, share it with everyone and motivate myself.
Preschool teachers are engineers of the human soul, engaged in the most glorious career in the world. With the development of society and its influence on preschool teachers
With the improvement of requirements, the pressure on preschool teachers is increasing. I don't know when it started, but we often hear some teachers complain: "Work!"
Work is really boring ","these children are too naughty ","parents are too low in quality "and so on. Let our kindergarten teachers get tired of their work,
Even enter a state of physical and mental exhaustion, leading to the reduction of work ability and work efficiency. Here's the thing: yell at the children and disrespect them.
It is not uncommon to emphasize children's language; Unable to treat parents' suggestions patiently and calmly; Wait a minute. This will not only affect preschool teachers' understanding of preschool education.
The input of work emotion and energy also affects the play and development of our own educational ability; Not only affects the quality of early childhood education, but also affects young children.
And it does great harm to teachers' physical and mental health. Therefore, our kindergarten teachers should pay attention to strengthening their psychological health care and try to avoid leaving.
Enter this state of job burnout and be a healthy and happy preschool teacher.
First, get happiness from children.
No work can be smooth sailing, there will always be difficulties and contradictions, and there will always be troubles and unhappiness. Only oneself can find the pleasure of work.
Interest, the formation of kindergarten teachers' professional happiness, can become a happy person at work, as someone said, look at your children.
Success is a person who annoys himself, then you will feel distressed; If you treat children as lovely angels, then you will become happy.
Angel. How can we get happiness from children? I don't think it is necessary to look at every child with appreciation and aesthetics at work.
Children should be regarded as their own educational objects. We should treat children's bright spots with appreciation and aesthetics, and achieve equality in work.
Communicating with children in an equal and sincere manner, not based on working relationship, is unequal and unemotional.
In the past, children would be a little afraid of teachers, stay away from teachers, close their hearts and dare not say what they think.
Lack of inner communication with children, kindergarten teachers have nothing to be happy about. Therefore, in the interaction with children, teachers have to let go.
Take off your role mask, communicate with your children with your true self, and become one with your children, and you will find happiness and happiness around you.
Equal and sincere communication with children will also make teachers realize the happiness of growing up with children.
Second, we should work creatively.
The famous educator Suhomlinski said, "If you think your work can bring some fun to teachers, you won't attend classes every day."
Complete a boring obligation, then you should gradually embark on this happy educational research road. "Early childhood education is a kind of
With the complicated creative labor, the educational objects, contents and situations we face are changing and dynamic. Only by giving full play to creativity,
Only by doing research can we do a good job. As long as we do it seriously, we will find that the sun is new every day.
Third, we should correctly handle our relationship with others.
"In a threesome, there must be a teacher." We should be good at discovering the advantages and strengths of others, so as to learn from others' strengths and make up for our own shortcomings. Be good at standing anywhere.
Consider the problem from the other side's point of view and be tolerant.
Four, kindergarten teachers should also have good psychological quality and continuing education ability.
With the development of society, preschool teachers should not only continue their professional education, but also receive knowledge learning and psychological quality training.
Let yourself have a peaceful heart in an increasingly competitive society to meet the needs of society.
In short, teachers are people who deal with people's spiritual world and directly feel the feelings of others in various occupations. Facing the children, I
Children might as well "squat down and talk, hold up communication and educate hand in hand", treat every child with peace of mind and true feelings and be a healthy person.
Happy kindergarten teacher!
Six principles of empathy
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As I treat others, others treat me.
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If you want others to understand me, you must first understand others. Only by looking into your heart can you be understood.
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You are who you really are in the eyes of others. Learn to look at problems from the perspective of others and improve your image in their eyes accordingly.
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You can only correct yourself, not others. If you want to get along with others successfully and make others respect your ideas, you have to change yourself first.
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A sincere and frank person is trustworthy.
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Only those who show their true feelings can get their true feelings in return.