Actually, personally, I hate Tik Tok teaching people how to be a man. Just like the modern fast food lunch in China, it is convenient and simple, and it doesn't take too long to make people feel full.
Unhealthy and nutritious fast food, like Tik Tok's knowledge, has given people some psychotropic drugs for their fast-paced life, but it is only one-sided and incomplete. In the long run, it is unhealthy. It's no use Just like fast food, it's convenient and fast, it doesn't take much time and it doesn't have nutrition.
Tik Tok and Aauto Quicker bring us the same benefits as fast food. Nowadays, people's social life is under great pressure, and they are all fast-paced lives. Few people can settle down to study.
A truly healthy life is like cooking and stewing soup. It needs to be simmered. In order to absorb comprehensive nutrition and health.
Now people love Tik Tok so much, but they don't know that some knowledge of Tik Tok is incomplete, if we generalize. It is easy to mislead people, leading to people's wrong values and outlook on life.
Here are two examples:
Tik Tok was brushed by her mother-in-law:
I have an old aunt who often watches Tik Tok, and every time she brushes her daughter-in-law to honor her mother-in-law. Daughter-in-law is very kind to her mother-in-law. Tik Tok often tells people to respect the old and love the young. Tell people that parents are heaven and earth, so take good care of them. Without parents, there would be no children. It is not easy to raise children, so repay your parents in time. From the standpoint of this Tik Tok writer, I think what he said is very reasonable.
Listening to this concept, the old aunt will feel that it is really not easy to raise children by herself. And I have been helping children everywhere but I have not been treated well, and my heart will be unbalanced. I think daughters-in-law and sons should be kind to themselves and put themselves first. Over time, contradictions naturally formed.
It is easy to produce the concept of partial coverage, and people will have an imbalance in their hearts, which will affect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law over time. For this Tik Tok-style truth, we should generalize from the partial. It is easy to cause family conflicts and disharmony.
Tik Tok was brushed away by his daughter-in-law:
But there are also some Tik Tok, which were shot by modern young women in Tik Tok. Their point of view: parents should be kind to themselves, not seeing their grandmother for ten years and their daughter-in-law for ten years.
Be good to yourself first, then to your parents. New women are recommending themselves for marriage. I have lived in my own home for so many years, and I have never eaten your oil or your salt. I didn't come to your house to babysit for you. You are not good to me, of course I have no obligation to be good to you. I think parents should be kind to themselves. (I stand on the side of Tik Tok, and my point of view is correct. That makes sense. )
This Tik Tok is one-sided and incomplete in knowledge transfer.
Be modest, be respectful, and treat each other like guests. No one should or should not, some should respect each other.
We shouldn't learn Tik Tok's fast food knowledge. Just like cooking and stewing soup, calm down and simmer carefully. The same is true of learning knowledge and truth, which also requires us to learn and absorb the wisdom of the ancients in the book and the way of treating people.