The more you talk, the less weight you carry.
Whether a man is worth getting married depends not only on his pursuit of you, but also on how he treats you when you have contradictions and how to resolve them.
Youth is not capital, but health is. Quit staying up late, your spirit, boldness of vision and spirit are better than those of 80% people, and everything will be smoother.
5, don't be misled by this sentence [you will spend money to make money] unrestrained consumption. Stay away from credit cards, flower beds, online loans and other advanced consumption, so as not to fall into debt crisis.
6. The collision of ideas is more likely to increase cognition and knowledge. You can communicate with more people, meet more different people and read more books. Never hurts.
7. It's never too late to start. Age is not an issue. You have heard of Taoism in sequence, but you specialize in it.
8. Reduce the output of uncertain words such as "probably", "maybe" and "maybe". These words often only appear when you are not sure about your expression, especially when reporting work. The figures should be accurate and don't blur the concept. Otherwise, the leader will only think you are incompetent.
9. Don't let work occupy all your time and energy. After work, you should leave some time for yourself to think, study, live and exercise.
10, give yourself 10 minutes to recover every day, 10 minutes to meditate.
1 1, don't set limits for yourself, and don't give up before you start.
No, if you haven't touched it yourself, first observe how others do it. You can check the information yourself, try to do it yourself first, and then do it.
Don't just ask, think about whether you have done something similar before. If you ask every step, no one has that much time to deal with you, and others have their own things to do.
Challenge what you don't know, and you can grow faster.
12, you may not see people's hearts for a long time, but you can see more people's hearts through communication.
13, clothes and the like can be appropriately reduced in quantity, improved in quality and formed into their own style. It can be recalled that not those pieces are worn back and forth, but the rest are basically worn once every once in a while or even at the bottom of the wardrobe.
14, kindness with a bottom line is true kindness. Kindness without a bottom line will either cause trouble to yourself or others.
15, brush Zhihu to see a good answer, backhand praise, Zhihu will give you more good answers.
16, face is earned by yourself, not by others.
17, if you don't work hard to create the life you want, you will eventually spend a lot of time and energy dealing with the life you don't want.
18, don't always complain about your sufferings and difficulties with others. Who can get rid of these words in the adult world? It is good to know some things by yourself, and it may be just a joke to say them, because in some people's eyes, they are not worth mentioning at all.
19, when encountering problems, the first thing that comes to mind is the solution, not shirking responsibility or complaining.
20. When you feel anxious and confused, stop and think about what's wrong with you. If you really can't find the answer, then take action, read more books, learn some skills and fill up the time.
2 1, now many people are in a state of "indirect complacency, continuous mixed eating and waiting for death". Serious procrastination, poor execution and insufficient cognition.
Suggestion:
Cultivate a hobby for yourself.
Cultivate attention
Read more books
When you think about what you want to do, do it first.
Don't put off till tomorrow what you should do today.
22. About connections, it's not how many people you know, who you please and your position, but your own value. Interpersonal communication = value exchange.
23. With proper thick skin, you will gain more than others.
For example, ask questions, ask classmates, ask teachers, ask seniors, and don't be ashamed to ask questions to find a solution to the problem faster.
For example, if you are promoted and raised, you are too timid to compete and dare not tell your boss, then you can watch others get promoted and raised.
For example, if you confess to the person you like, and you are too thin-skinned to confess to the person you like, then watch TA become someone else's person.
24, no matter in front of anyone, as long as you don't owe him, there is no need to be passive in Nuo Nuo.
25. Don't compare your own shortcomings with others' advantages, that's suicide.
26. Don't talk when you are upset, don't make a decision, stay quiet for a while or practice using words to divert your attention.
27. When you are angry and lose your temper, you should restrain yourself from saying things that hurt each other. Bad words in June hurt people unless you are ready to be a stranger.
28. Accept your imperfections and recognize yourself, so that you can live a better life.
29. The adult world is very busy. No one has much time and energy to pay attention to you. There is no need to be nervous or embarrassed. No one will remember.
30. If you have a goal in doing things, you will have a greater chance of success.
3 1, you'd better not say anything before you do your own thing. If you can't do it in the end, there will be only jokes.
32. The feelings of others, if you don't participate, don't participate. Others don't mind, you mind.
33. To be a good person, you should also be within your own scope. Don't help others, and don't suffer yourself. For example, borrowing money should be weighed.
No matter who you go to, it is better to bring some gifts than to go empty-handed. In addition, a neighbor who visits every day said.
35. Even if it's two people, stay alone. Don't give up your hobbies when you are alone, stick to your own thinking when you are alone, stay independent when you are alone, stay together when you like it, and turn around when you don't like it.
36. When chatting, say something that others care about and everyone knows, otherwise it will become your unilateral spit.
37. I can see that the friends here are very patient. Give yourself some encouragement, praise the collection, be careful, and life will be better ~