What should girls pay attention to in their mental health? The following knowledge about girls' mental health is what I want to share with you. Welcome to browse.
First, how to treat puppy love?
Puppy love refers to the behavior of underage men and women to establish a love relationship prematurely. /kloc-teenagers under 0/8 should not fall in love with middle school students, which belongs to puppy love.
Second, adolescent puppy love behavior has the following characteristics:
1, vague: Young people in puppy love are not clear about the development outcome of puppy love relationship. They are mainly eager to get in touch with the opposite sex alone, but they lack a clear understanding of how to form a family in the future, how to deal with the relationship between love and school, and how to distinguish friendship from love.
2. Contradictions: Young people who are puppy love are also full of contradictions. They want to contact, but they are afraid of being discovered. Pleasure and pain coexist in the process of puppy love.
3. Variability: puppy love relationship is a kind of emotional relationship full of changes and extremely unstable. One-on-one puppy love relationship between teenagers lacks persistence and generally does not last long.
4. Difference: Teenagers' puppy love behaviors are obviously different. In terms of behavior, some teenagers' puppy love behavior is very hidden, and they convey their feelings through letters and telephone calls. But some teenagers are very open, and many occasions are like lovers. On the relationship level, the main activity of most teenagers who are in puppy love is to chat together and exchange unrequited love. From the perspective of interpersonal relationship, it is not beyond the normal relationship. People have deep relationships. Besides talking about feelings, they even have sex. In terms of age preference, girls like men who are older and more mature than themselves. At the same age, most girls are active. Boys like girls younger than themselves and show their masculinity in communication.
Third, correctly handle your puppy love problem, you can deal with it from the following aspects:
1, we should clearly understand the harm of puppy love and overcome this immature feeling with reason. The most direct harm of puppy love is that it seriously interferes with learning. Because you think about the opposite sex you like all day and all night, it will make you have no mind to study and it is difficult to concentrate in class. Because you don't listen carefully, your academic performance will get worse and worse. Some people say that the attraction of career, the drive of love and the reaction of discrimination and oppression are the three major driving forces of life. Therefore, puppy love can be produced if it is handled well.
2. Pay attention to mental health. Don't watch inappropriate newspapers, magazines, movies and TV programs, focus on learning, read more biographies of great men, cultivate your willpower and set lofty goals. Some teenagers are in puppy love or unrequited love, and like to exaggerate their position in each other's minds, thinking that their words and deeds are related to themselves and even influenced by themselves. The other party's performance dropped and was criticized by the teacher, thinking that it was because of himself, so I felt sorry for the other party; The other person has been depressed or lost weight recently, thinking that this is because the other person misses himself, so he is very moved. This kind of psychology of teenagers is actually a kind of
3. Try to get rid of puppy love. When someone shows you love or courtship, when you are in love with the opposite sex, you can adopt the following methods: ① Transfer method: transfer your energy to study and replace immature feelings with the pleasure of exploring knowledge. Cold treatment: gradually alienate each other to cool the hot relationship. (3) Shelving method: stop the relationship, so that the hearts of both sides are not open to each other and maintain a pure and precious friendship.
4. We should correctly handle the relationship between puppy love and normal communication between boys and girls. Every adolescent boy and girl, with the gradual maturity of physiology, will begin to pay attention to the opposite sex students, hoping to get to know them and communicate with them. This is a normal psychological phenomenon. Teenagers' attachment to the opposite sex is not what some parents and teachers think, but a shameful thing. This has little to do with moral quality. The vast majority of teenagers
5. Take part in more group activities, distract yourself, don't like the opposite sex alone, and don't associate with the opposite sex alone. By participating in meaningful group activities, you can cultivate your own sentiment, set up lofty ideals, and get help and friendship from your classmates. At the same time, doing so can distract your attention from puppy love and relieve your troubles. It can also calm your mind and dilute your strong feelings for the opposite sex you like.
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