1. Intelligence
The father and son saw a very luxurious imported car. The son disdainfully said to his father, "people who take this kind of car must have no knowledge!" " "The father replied airily," People who say such things must have no money in their pockets!
-Does your view of things also reflect your true attitude?
2. The situation is different
A pig, a sheep and a cow are kept in the same corral. Once, the shepherd caught the pig, and the pig barked loudly and resisted fiercely. Sheep and cows hate pigs barking and say, "He often catches us, but we don't bark." The pig replied, "catching you and catching me are two different things." He just wants your hair and milk. " 」
-it is difficult for people with different positions and different environments to understand each other's feelings; Therefore, we should not gloat over the setbacks, setbacks and pains of others, but should have a feeling of care and understanding.
paddle one's own canoe
The little snail asked his mother: Why do we have to bear this hard and heavy shell when we are born?
Mom: Because our bodies have no bones to support, we can only climb, but we can't climb fast. So we need the protection of this shell!
Snail: Sister Caterpillar has no bones and can't climb fast. Why doesn't she have to carry this hard and heavy shell?
Mom: Because sister caterpillar can become a butterfly, the sky will protect her.
Snail: but brother earthworm can't climb fast without bones, and he won't become a butterfly. Why doesn't he carry this hard and heavy shell?
Mom: Because Brother Earthworm can drill soil, the earth will protect him.
The little snail began to cry: we are so poor that the sky is not protected and the land is not protected.
Mother snail comforted him: "so we have shells!" We don't rely on the sky, we don't rely on the ground, we rely on ourselves.
4. sharks and fish
Someone once did an experiment, putting the fiercest shark and a group of tropical fish in the same pool, and then separating them with tempered glass. At first, sharks kept hitting the invisible glass every day, but in vain. It can never cross the other side. The experimenter puts some crucian carp in the pool every day, so the shark is not short of prey, but it still wants to try the delicious taste on the other side. It still keeps hitting the glass every day. It tried every corner and tried its best every time, but it was always scarred. It broke and bled several times for several days. Whenever the glass breaks, the experimenter immediately adds a thicker piece of glass. Later, the shark stopped hitting the glass and ignored the colorful tropical fish. As if they were just murals moving on the wall, it began to wait for the crucian carp that appeared every day. Then he hunted by agile instinct, as if he had returned to the sea, but all this was just an illusion. At the last stage of the experiment, the experimenter took the glass away, but the shark didn't respond. He still swims in a fixed area every day, not only turning a blind eye to those tropical fish, but even when those crucian carp fled there, he immediately gave up chasing and said nothing. The experiment was over and the experimenter smiled.
But everyone who has been lovelorn knows why. It is afraid of pain.
5. Miracles
In a remote town in France, it is said that there is a particularly effective spring, and miracles often occur, which can cure various diseases. One day, an old soldier with crutches and a missing leg limped across the street in town, and the villagers next to him sympathetically kissed him back and said, "Poor guy, is he going to pray to God for another leg?" This sentence was heard by veterans. He turned to them and said, "I'm not asking God for a new leg, but I'm praying? Help me know how to live without a leg. "
Imagine: learn to be grateful for what you have lost and accept the fact that you have lost. Regardless of the gains and losses in life, you should make your life full of light and glory, stop crying for the past and work hard for a high live life.
6. Fishing rod
An old man is fishing by the river. A child walked by to watch him go fishing. The old man is very skilled, so he soon caught a basket full of fish. The old man thinks the child is cute and wants to give him the whole basket of fish. The child shook his head. The old man asked in surprise, "Why not?" The child replied, "I want the fishing rod in your hand." The old man asked, "What do you want with a fishing rod? The child said, "This basket of fish will be finished soon. If I had a fishing rod, I could fish by myself and never finish fishing all my life. I think you will say, "What a clever boy." Wrong. If he only needs a fishing rod, he can't eat any fish. Because he doesn't know fishing skills, it's useless to have a fishing rod, because fishing is not important. "In this way, it is inevitable to fall on the muddy ground, just like a child looking at the old man, thinking that as long as there is a fishing rod, there will be endless fish to catch, and like an employee looking at the boss, thinking that as long as he sits in the office, there will be rolling money.
7. the way of employing people
Anyone who has been to the temple knows that Amitabha greeted his guests with a smiling face as soon as he entered the temple gate, but to his north, Wei Tuo was Darkmouth's black face. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples. Amitabha was very enthusiastic and happy, so many people came, but he didn't care about anything and didn't manage the accounts well, so he still made ends meet.
Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple, where Maitreya was in charge of public relations and greeted guests from all directions with a smile, so incense flourished. However, Wei Tuo is impartial, so he is in charge of finance and is strictly controlled. With their division of labor and cooperation, the temple flourished.
-In fact, in the eyes of the master of choose and employ persons, there are no useless people, just like the master of martial arts, who can pick flowers and fly leaves to hurt people without expensive swords. The key is how to use them.
8.parrot
A man went to buy a parrot and saw a sign in front of it: This parrot can speak two languages, 200 yuan.
In front of another parrot, it was written: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 400 yuan.
Which one should I buy? Both are shiny, very flexible and lovely. Men wander around, unable to make up their minds.
As a result, I suddenly found an old toothed parrot, dark and messy, and the price was 800 yuan.
The man quickly called the boss: Can this parrot speak eight languages?
The shopkeeper said, no.
This person is strange: then why is it so old, so ugly and so incompetent that it is worth this number?
The shopkeeper replied: because the other two parrots call this parrot boss.
This story tells us that a real leader does not necessarily have a strong ability. As long as he knows how to trust, decentralize and cherish, he can unite forces stronger than himself and thus improve his social status.
On the contrary, many people with very strong abilities are too perfectionist and hands-on, and no one can match them. In the end, I can only be the best researcher and sales representative, but I can't be an excellent leader.
9.kangaroos and cages
One day, the city zoo found that the kangaroo had escaped from its cage, so he called a meeting to discuss it. Everyone agreed that the height of the cage was too low, so they decided to increase the height of the cage from the original 10 meter to 20 meters. As a result, the kangaroo escaped outside the next day, so they decided to raise the height to 30 meters again.
I didn't expect to see all the kangaroos running outside the next day. The keeper was very nervous and decided to raise the height of the cage to 100 meters. One day, a giraffe and some kangaroos were chatting. "Do you think these people will continue to keep your cage?" The giraffe asked, "It's hard to say." Kangaroo said, "If they keep forgetting to close the door!" "
—— Management experience: from beginning to end, severity and severity. Closing the door is the origin and lifting the cage is the end. Of course it doesn't matter. What is management? Management is to analyze the major and minor contradictions of things, understand the background, importance and urgency of things, and then start from important aspects.
Bian Que's medical skill.
King Wen of Wei asked the famous doctor Bian Que, "Your three brothers are all good at medical skills. Which is the best? "
Bian Que replied: "The eldest brother is the best, the second brother is the second, and I am the worst."
King Wen asked again, "Then why are you the most famous?"
Bian Que replied, "Eldest brother treated the disease before it started. Because most people don't know that he can eradicate the cause in advance, his fame can't spread. " Brother Zhong's treatment is to treat the disease before it happens. Most people think that he can only cure minor illnesses, so his fame is only in his own village. I was being treated when I was seriously ill. Most people think that my medical skills are brilliant and I am famous all over the country when I see major operations such as bloodletting on meridians and applying medicine on my skin. "
-Management experience: afterwards control is not as good as in-process control, and in-process control is not as good as beforehand control. Unfortunately, most business operators don't realize this and wait until the wrong decision has caused huge losses before seeking compensation. Often, even if the famous "airborne troops" are invited, the result will not help.
1 1. Sudden salary
A guest visited someone's house and saw that the chimney on the stove was straight and there was a lot of wood next to it. The guest told the host that the chimney had to be changed and the wood had to be removed, otherwise it might catch fire in the future, but the host didn't give any indication.
Soon, the owner's house caught fire, and the neighbors rushed to put out the fire. Finally, the fire was put out, so the owner cooked sheep and slaughtered cattle to entertain his neighbors and rewarded them for their contribution to the fire fighting, but he didn't invite anyone who suggested that he move the wood and change the chimney.
Someone said to the host, "if you had listened to that gentleman, you wouldn't have to prepare a banquet today, and there would be no fire damage." It is very strange now that the person who gave you advice is not grateful, but the person who put out the fire is a guest! " The host immediately realized that he quickly invited the guests who had given suggestions for a drink.
-Management experience: Generally speaking, people who can settle or solve various thorny problems in the business process are excellent managers. In fact, this is debatable. As the saying goes, "prevention is more important than cure", which can prevent problems before they happen, and it is better to deal with chaos after they become problems. From this perspective, the prevention of enterprise problems is actually better than the solution of enterprise problems.
12. Save people
In a fierce battle, the captain suddenly found an enemy plane swooping down to the position. As usual, when the enemy plane swooped down, he found he should lie down without hesitation. But the captain did not lie down immediately. He found a little soldier still standing four or five meters away from him. He didn't think much, and a dive flight pressed the little soldier tightly under him. At this time, there was a loud noise, and the splashing soil fell on them. The captain patted the dust and looked back.
13. put out
In ancient times, two brothers each took a suitcase to go out. Along the way, the heavy suitcase weighed down the brothers. They must change their left hand to their right hand, and their right hand to their left hand. Suddenly, Big Brother stopped, bought a pole by the roadside, and hung two suitcases on the pole. He picked up two suitcases on the road, but he felt much more relaxed.
It may be far-fetched to link these two stories together, but they do have striking similarities: the little soldier and little brother in the story are lucky, but the captain and little brother in the story are even luckier, because they help themselves while helping others!
-Management experience: We will certainly encounter many difficulties on the road of life. But do we all know that on the way forward, removing stumbling blocks under others' feet sometimes paves the way for ourselves?
14. The son of the fish king
There was a fisherman who was honored as "the king of fishing" because of his first-class fishing skills. However, when he was old, the "king of fishing" was very upset because his three sons were mediocre at fishing.
So I often tell people my troubles: "I really don't understand, my fishing skills are so good, why is my son so bad?" I have taught them fishing skills since they were sensible, starting with the most basic things, telling them how to weave a net to catch fish most easily, how to row a boat without disturbing the fish most, and how to put the fish in an urn most easily. When they grow up, I teach them how to know the tides and distinguish the seasons of fish. I taught them all my hard years' experience without reservation, but their fishing skills could not keep up with those of fishermen's sons whose skills were worse than mine! "
A passerby heard his story and asked, "Have you been teaching them by hand?"
"Yes, in order to get first-class fishing skills, I taught them carefully and patiently."
"Have they been following you?"
"Yes, I always let them follow me in order to make them avoid detours."
Passers-by said, "in this way, your mistake is obvious." You only taught them skills, not lessons. For talents, no lessons can make people great, just like no experience! " "
15. Apples by the river
An old monk was surrounded by a group of devout disciples. On this day, he told his disciples to go to Nanshan to get a load of firewood. The disciples hurried to the river not far from the mountain, and everyone was dumbfounded. I saw the flood rushing down from the mountain, and I couldn't cross the river to collect firewood under any circumstances. In vain, the disciples were a little depressed. Only a little monk was quietly with the master. The master asked him why, and the young monk took an apple out of his arms.
-There are endless roads and rivers in the world. It is also a kind of wisdom to turn around and go back to the impassable river. But true wisdom should do one thing by the river: fly the kite of thought and pick an "apple". Throughout ancient and modern times, people who hold such beliefs in life have finally achieved breakthroughs and transcendence in life.
16. Right hand holding left hand
There is a popular jingle on the table: holding your wife's hand is like holding your left hand with your right hand.
Every time someone reads: a table of familiar or unfamiliar people will smile knowingly, and the atmosphere will be relaxed immediately. Of course, this is based on the consistent understanding of jingle-accurate feeling and appropriate description.
One day at the dinner table, someone read this jingle again, and the men laughed as usual. Later, I found a woman at the dinner table who didn't laugh. Men are busy joking. Don't take it seriously I didn't expect the woman to say seriously: the best thing is to hold the left hand with the right hand. First, the left hand can be trusted by the right hand. Second, the left hand and the right hand belong to one; Third, how do other hands make you happy and excited? After that, you can chop off your hand, leaving only your left hand. Without it, it's not complete, right? A table full of men admire and praise the profound and unique understanding of women. Women just say that if there is something profound and unique, you might as well go back and read it to your wives and see what they say.
Some brave men went back to test their wives, and their understanding was the same as that of the ladies at the dinner table.
They are all left-handed, so men should count with their left hands.
They are all right-handed. Of course, they think they are right-handed.
17. Select
A farmer saved his wife from the flood, but his child was drowned.
People talked about it afterwards. Some say he did the right thing, because children can have another child, but wives can't come back from the dead. Others say he did something wrong, because his wife can marry someone else, but his children can't come back from the dead.
After listening to people's comments, I feel very confused: if I can only save one person, should I save my wife or my children? So I went to visit the farmer and asked him what he was thinking.
He replied, "I didn't think of anything. My wife passed me when the flood hit. I grabbed her and swam to the nearby hillside.
When I came back, the child had been washed away by the flood. "
On the way home, I pondered the farmer's words and said to myself: There are many choices in life.
18. Simple facts
Once upon a time, two hungry people got a gift from an elder: a fishing rod and a basket of huge fresh fish. One of them asked for a basket of fish, and the other asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. The person who got the fish built a bonfire with dry wood and cooked the fish on the spot. He wolfed down the fish, but he didn't taste the meat of fresh fish. In a flash, he ate all the fish and soup. He starved to death by the empty fish basket. The other man continued to starve with a fishing rod and made his way to the seaside step by step. But when he saw the blue ocean not far away, his last strength was exhausted and he could only die with endless regrets.
There are two hungry people. They also got a fishing rod and a basket of fish from the elders. It's just that they didn't part ways, but agreed to look for the sea together. They only cook one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the seaside. From then on, they began to make a living by fishing. A few years later, they built a house, had their own family and had their own children.
-a person who only cares about immediate interests will eventually get short-term happiness; A person has high goals, but he must also face the real life. Only by organically combining ideal with reality can he become a successful person. Sometimes, a simple truth is enough to give people meaningful life enlightenment.
19. It's not what you think.
Two traveling angels went to a rich family for the night. The family was unfriendly to them and refused to let them spend the night in a comfortable room. Instead, they found a corner in the cold basement. When they made the bed, the older angel found a hole in the wall and repaired it conveniently. The young angel asked why, and the old angel replied, "Some things are not what they seem."
The next night, they went to a poor farmhouse for the night. The host and his wife were very enthusiastic about them. They took out what little food they had to entertain the guests, and then gave their beds to two angels. The next morning, two angels found the farmer and his wife crying, and their only source of livelihood-a cow died. The young angel was very angry. He asked the old angel why this happened. The first family has everything.
"Some things are not what they seem," the old angel replied. "When we spent the night in the basement, I saw that the wall was covered with gold bullion. Because the master was confused by greed and didn't want to share his wealth, I filled in the hole. Last night, death called the farmer's wife, and I replaced her with a cow. So some things are not what they seem. "
Sometimes things are not what they really are. If you have faith, you just need to firmly believe that you will always be rewarded. You may not know until later ...
20. the way to raise cattle
When we traveled to the countryside, we were surprised to see an old farmer shoveling grass on the roof of a small hut to feed cattle, so we asked:
"Grandpa, why don't you put the grass for the cow on the ground and let it eat?"
The old farmer said, "This kind of grass is of poor quality. If I put it on the ground, it will despise it. " But I put it on the roof where it can barely reach, and it will eat hard until it eats all the grass. "
2 1. Heart of love
This is a true story that happened in England.
There was a lonely old man, childless and sickly. He decided to move to a nursing home. The old man announced that he would sell his beautiful house. Buyers flocked to hear the news. The floor price of the house was 80,000 pounds, but people quickly sold it to 654.38 million pounds. Prices are still rising. The old man was deeply immersed in the sofa and full of melancholy. Yes, but for his poor health, he wouldn't sell the house where he lived for most of his life.
A young man in plain clothes came to the old man, bent down and whispered, "Sir, I want to buy this house, but I only have 65,438+0,000 pounds." However, if you sell the house to me, I guarantee that you will still live here, have tea, read newspapers and walk with me, and be happy every day-believe me, I will take care of you wholeheartedly! "
The old man nodded and smiled and sold the house to him at 1000.
You don't have to kill and cheat in cold blood to realize your dreams. Sometimes, as long as you have a loving heart.
22. Give
An old carpenter is preparing to retire. He told his boss that he would leave the construction industry and go home to enjoy family happiness with his wife and children. The boss didn't want to let his good worker go and asked him if he could help build another house. The old carpenter agreed. But later, everyone can see that his heart is no longer working, using soft materials and doing rough work. After the house was built, the boss gave him the key to the gate.
"This is your house," he said. "My gift to you."
He was surprised and ashamed. If he knew he was building a house for himself, how could he do it? Now he has to live in a humble house! Isn't it? We casually "build" our own life, not actively, but passively, refusing to strive for perfection in everything and failing to do our best at critical moments. When we realized our situation, we were already trapped in the "house" we built. Think of yourself as the carpenter. Think of your house. Every day you knock a nail, add a board or erect a wall. Your life is the only creation in your life, which cannot be erased and rebuilt. Even if there is only one day to live, that day should be beautiful and noble. The nameplate on the wall reads: "Life is your own creation."
Remind yourself
An old lady sat on the side of the road and looked at a high wall not far away. She always feels that she will collapse soon. Seeing someone coming towards Heng, she kindly reminded: "That wall is going to fall down, so stay away." The reminded person watched her swaggering along the wall-the wall didn't fall down. The old lady was very angry. "Why didn't you listen to me?" ! "Someone came again, the old lady advice. Three days later, many people walked by the wall, but their lives were not in danger. On the fourth day, the old lady felt a little strange and disappointed, and involuntarily went to the bottom of the wall to watch carefully. At this time, however, the wall collapsed, and the old lady was buried in dust and masonry and died.
It is often easy and sober to remind others, but it is difficult to remind yourself soberly at all times. Therefore, many dangers come from themselves, and the old lady's sorrow is born from this.
windows
A wife has been complaining about the laziness of the opposite wife for years. "That woman's clothes can never be washed. Look, the clothes she hangs in the yard are always dirty. I really don't know how she can wash clothes like this. "
Until one day, a discerning friend came to her house, only to find that it was not the wife opposite who couldn't wash the clothes. A careful friend took a rag to wipe off the gray stain on his wife's window and said, "Look, isn't this clean?" It turns out that my window is dirty.
25. Leave a gap for others
A famous entrepreneur was giving a speech when an audience asked, "You have achieved great success in your career. What is the most important thing for you? "
The entrepreneur didn't give a direct answer. He picked up the chalk and drew a circle on the blackboard, but it was not perfect, leaving a gap. He asked, "What is this?" "Zero", "circle"/"unfinished business"/"success", the audience replied noisily.
He was noncommittal about these answers: "In fact, this is just an incomplete period. You asked me why I made brilliant achievements. The reason is simple: I won't do things perfectly, just like drawing a full stop. I must leave a gap for my subordinates to fill. "
-leaving a gap for others does not mean that you are not capable. In fact, it is a kind of management wisdom and a higher level of overall improvement. Give the monkey a tree and let it climb all the time; Give the tiger a mountain and let it roam freely. Perhaps this is the highest state of enterprise management and employment.
26. Horse
Horses used to wander freely in the mountains. When they were thirsty, they drank some mountain springs. When they were tired, they slept in the sun. But since Bole appeared, the fate of horses has changed. Put a cage on its head, a saddle on its back and tie it. The death rate of horses is already 10, and there are 23 of them. If we force them to carry things, we will force them to walk thousands of miles every day.
-isn't that what people do? Under the constraint of rules, have we lost our id, followed the etiquette formulated by others all day, and forced ourselves to do things we don't want to do? How much is left in our limited life?
27. The director is useless
There was a Lu man who was good at weaving straw sandals, and his wife was good at weaving white silk. He wants to move to Yue. His friend said to him, "If you go to Yue, you will be poor." "Why?" "Straw sandals are used to walk, but Vietnamese people are used to walking barefoot; White silk is used to make hats, but Vietnamese people are used to long hair. Take your strengths and go where you are not needed. Is it possible to make yourself not poor? "
This story tells people that if a person wants to develop his specialty, he must adapt to the needs of the social environment. If he is divorced from the needs of social environment, his major will lose its value. Therefore, we should decide our own actions according to the needs of society and give full play to our specialties.
28. The mouse on the stupa
A stray mouse made its home on the top of the stupa. Life in the stupa is really happy. It can walk between floors at will and enjoy rich sacrifices. It even enjoys privileges that others can't imagine, and it can chew unknown secrets at will. People dare not face up to the Buddha statue, which is a free relaxation. When it rises, it can even leave some excrement on its head.
Whenever a good man and a woman burn incense and kowtow, the mouse always looks at the intoxicating smoke and rises slowly. It jerked its nose, laughing internally: "Funny human, knees are so soft, kneel when you say it!" " "One day, a hungry wild cat broke in and caught the mouse." You can't eat me! You should bow to me! I represent the Buddha! "The noble prisoner protested." People bow down to you only because of your position, not because of you! "The wild cat sneered, and then it broke the mouse in half like a hamburger.
Opportunities.
A, a white-collar worker in a joint venture company, feels that his ambition has not been appreciated by his superiors. He often thinks: If only one day he could meet his boss and have a chance to show his talents! A's colleague B has the same idea. He went further, inquired about the boss's commute time and figured out when he would get into the elevator. He also took the elevator at this time, hoping to meet his boss and have a chance to say hello. Their colleague c went further. He learned about the boss's struggle in detail, found out the school where the boss graduated, his interpersonal style and his concerns, carefully designed a few simple but weighty opening remarks and went at the calculated time.
Fools miss opportunities, wise men seize opportunities, and winners create opportunities. Opportunities are only given to those who are prepared. This word preparation is not just talk.