How can we have a healthy and long-lasting love?

First of all, we should adopt a rational attitude towards love. It's easier said than done. Don't be a love brain. Do you think if you give it to him wholeheartedly, he will be kind to you? Think about this probability? Some people may throw peaches to reward Qiong Yao, but some people will not cherish what they get easily. When you meet the right person, don't slow down and don't be a camphor tree climbing trees. At the present level, you two can see each other's eyes, and he will shine more and more with her progress. If you stop, the light in the other person's eyes will become darker and darker, and her world will be involuntarily attracted to the girls at the level behind him. If you find that the other person can't keep a clear distance from the opposite sex during love, you should ask him to stop. If he can't do it, you have to reconsider. When you meet a boy you like, you can make progress together, except in tune. Don't do this. Don't hate boys' patience in disguise. You can listen to your good friend's advice, but don't blindly follow it. Get to know each other's family before entering marriage. Don't think that you are married to only one person. After you get that marriage certificate, you should have various contacts with his relatives and pay attention to his family style. Get along well with each other. If you can't get along, please inform the other party of the bottom line you can accept in time. Although others will say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are like mother and daughter, there are not many things that can really be done. You can be sloppy, lazy and outspoken in front of your mother, but never in front of your mother-in-law. Your careless words may be infinitely magnified. After marriage, you can tolerate and make concessions, but you must have your own bottom line. You can tell each other in advance. Raising children is two obligations of husband and wife. Don't push both sides. Both of them are old people, and it is the duty of either party to take care of them. You can't feel that your mother-in-law is sorry for herself just because she is willing to take care of the children. Who is willing to lend a helping hand, don't feel so hurt, because people's hearts are slowly warming up. Grandma has paid a lot for her grandchildren, so she naturally loves them in their eyes. Grandma loves them more, and the affection between grandparents and grandchildren is already the biggest gain.