Of course, on the other hand, "I love whoever loves me" can also be an open and inclusive attitude, which means that one is willing to accept different types of people without being bound by some superficial standards. However, this attitude needs to be combined with self-worth, personal needs and respect for partners in order to form a healthy emotional relationship.
In short, the concept of emotion varies from person to person, and you need to make a choice according to your own situation, values and needs. In any case, you need to keep a clear head and a healthy emotional boundary to avoid ignoring your needs and values because of your emotions.