First of all, maybe not every family has the habit of praying for their children before, so some parents may ask if it is necessary to pray for their children. Is prayer really useful? First of all, let's not think about the use of prayer. Let's see what prayer can bring us first.
First: Prayer can give you strength.
When praying, there are always positive statements. Positive words will inject positive energy into your mind invisibly, helping you to settle down and stop being so anxious. You will also feel that there is a power to protect you. You are not alone. When you focus on praying for your child, your negative thoughts about your child will turn into light with the words of the prayer! From distrust of children in the past to trust and trust; Feel peaceful and quiet from the insecurity and uncertainty about the future.
Second: pray for children to feel love.
Pray for the children. When children hear our positive words to them, they can feel our affirmation and blessing, our firm belief in them, that they are loved and that they are beautiful and complete. This can increase children's own energy and sense of security. With a warm, cheerful and joyful heart, pray for children seriously, earnestly and continuously, and the sacred beauty of children will naturally be aroused. Praying for children is a kind of spiritual communication and a revelation and awakening of true love. A child who has parents who pray for him every day must be able to exert his potential and enthusiasm more than others and appreciate the meaning of life.
Third: Prayer is a kind of compassion.
Praying for children is not just about praying for our children, but that we can always pray for all the people we care about, for our motherland and for our world. When we care about the world in this way, our own strength will grow, and prayer can cultivate our sympathy and love. At the same time, when children watch us pray for all people, they also learn love and compassion.
So how should we pray after we know that prayer is very helpful to ourselves and our children? What kind of mentality do you pray with?
First: pray with a blessed heart.
Prayer must be positive and hopeful. Prayer is a blessing. Through prayer, we send blessings to everyone we care about and wish them perfection and happiness.
Second: pray with faith.
Prayer should not be tempted. Don't you think prayer is really useful? I'll give it a try and see if it works. When you pray with such a tentative heart, it is definitely useless to pray. Pray with complete confidence, believe that higher energy will help you, and believe that as long as your heart is sincere enough, your thoughts will come true. In fact, just like the law of attraction, if you want to realize your wishes through the law of attraction, you must first believe in yourself and continue to believe and desire. Then the universe will come to help you realize your wish.
Third: pray with joyful harvest.
The law of attraction says that when you put forward your desire to the universe, you should not only believe that the universe will satisfy you, but also have a kind of joy, that is, the joy that you really seem to get. When you have this joy of acceptance, the gift is on the way.
Fourth: Prayer is a commission.
There are no perfect parents in the world. We always make all kinds of mistakes. Even if we study hard, it may be difficult for us to be perfect in educating our children. Then, we can correct our mistakes by praying that some of our mistakes will not affect our children. Protect children with the power of their own consciousness and beliefs. Don't live in feelings of guilt and self-blame, because it is not good for yourself and your children. If you really feel that you have done something bad, pray that everything your child has experienced will make him rather than hurt him.
I remember once when we opened a salon, a mother listened to what you said and said, I think I did quite well, but the father of the child didn't do it. He always beats children and doesn't trust him. I think my mother was depressed at that time, and she began to worry about what bad things her father's behavior would bring to her children. I told my mother at that time, don't worry about anything, just believe it completely. Don't worry about how dad treats his children. Since you are studying by yourself, you just need to ensure that you give your children trust and love. As for the attitude of the family, it can't be changed at once. Then don't worry about your children. You should believe that children will not be negatively influenced by their fathers. I believe that your child has enough strength in his heart, that he can transform and that he can afford it. Here, the mother can turn her worries into prayers. Pray that their children will not be negatively affected by the outside world. We really don't have to worry about children. Children will always enter the society in the future, and he will always come into contact with all kinds of people. Can we change people's attitudes towards children? Then we pray for our children, pray for their wisdom, and lead them to learn how to face all kinds of people and how to transform those negative things and emotions.
So don't ask yourself or even others to give your child perfect love. Besides trying to be a wise parent, you should learn to entrust things that you can't do well or can't do at present. Prayer is to entrust everything to higher energy, let go of your heavy feelings, and believe that higher energy will protect us and our children.
Fifth: pray naturally, don't be persistent and don't insist.
The most difficult place to pray for children may be that many parents believe in prayer and have been clinging to what they pray for. Sometimes what we pray for may come true soon, and we are very happy. Sometimes it may not be realized immediately. If the prayer doesn't come true, you will be disappointed and depressed, and there will be results. If you feel that prayer is useless, it will become persistence and compulsion. Pray that if there is no joy, then good things will never come. Because joy is a kind of high energy, only joy can attract beautiful things to happen. Prayer is a happy thing, because it represents blessing and hope. We just need to be ourselves, give ourselves a sincere heart, entrust it completely, and the rest will be natural.
Sixth: Pray for the world.
The more you pray to contribute to society, the better your life will be. Tell you a story. It's a story I saw some time ago. On a construction site, a reporter went to interview the workers on the site. The reporter said that it is really hard for you to work here on such a hot day. The first worker said, this is impossible. We must bring home the bacon. This is the only way. Really hot and tired. The second worker said that this building will be beautiful to build, which is also my contribution, so I am also very happy. The third worker said that when the building is completed, it will be the symbol of the city. This city will become more beautiful because of this building, and people will feel better when they see the beautiful city, so I think it is very meaningful for me to do this. 10 years later, the first worker was still a house builder. The second one became the chief engineer of the building. The third became the mayor. After reading this story, I realized that how big your heart is, how broad your life will be. A person who has only himself in his heart has always been like this. If you have a building, you will be the chief engineer, and if you have the whole city, you will be the mayor.
Don't we pray for our children in the hope that their lives will be better? Then, if we can care about the world and benefit the world when we pray, I believe our wishes will be supported by greater energy and our wishes will be realized more. Therefore, when we pray, we can expand the pattern of our minds. For example, in the past, I might just pray that my children would be happy and have a successful career. Now we can pray that my child will have a successful career in the future, and his career will help the country and benefit the whole world. I hope my child will be happy in the future, and then use his happiness to infect everyone around him. If our prayers are for the benefit of the world, then our prayers will be more powerful!
In the process of educating children, it is inevitable to have feelings of worry, anxiety, fear and distrust. Prayer can help us to put our hearts at ease and make us believe that even if we are not perfect, our children will still be guarded and perfect. Prayer will also make children feel the deep love from their parents and make their hearts soft, compassionate, full of love and strength.