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In fact, the law of attraction can simply define "what attracts you", but it seems unreasonable to look at this law-everyone in this world wants to have a healthy, rich and intimate life, so can they all live a happy life?
No, definitely not, but this really can't blame the law of gravity, and it can't be said that the law of gravity is invalid.
Because this just shows that if we really focus on one thing, then the probability of this happening will definitely increase greatly. Many people don't live the good life they want, precisely because they usually don't focus on having these things-they focus on not having them!
This proves the correctness of the law of attraction from another angle-"what attracts your attention"
If you want something, imagine how you feel when you have it. This is the only way to attract them, which is visualization. Then you have to convince yourself that you can have everything and you deserve it. Finally, you should always focus on the above positive thoughts and feelings.
Does it look super simple, don't you believe it?
Although this is an old article, it is still very meaningful to change it and republish it today.
The background of buying a house is because parents always quarrel. I don't want my mother to go back to her hometown after retirement, so after they had a big fight, I decided: I must buy a house this time. I immediately bought a ticket from Handan to go home. I am serious. I just want to own a house with few conditions. After I place an order with the universe, this house will really appear soon.
The order I placed for myself:
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1. The floor is on the 3rd-4th floor, not the elevator.
2. The security environment in the community is good, and the security guards are on duty 24 hours a day.
3. The room has a big balcony, the bathroom should be big and the windows should be big.
4. Fine decoration (note: there is no furniture from the landlord)
5. Sleep on the tatami in the room
6. It must be floor heating (necessary)
7. The community has convenient transportation and is close to the bus stop sign (but far from the road).
8. Give a cabin, and it is best not to buy a garage (parking is convenient).
9. The room must be clean
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Because I am a person with a clear sense of purpose. I don't have much time to waste on choosing a house and looking at it, so I will act as soon as I have a clear direction. Being away from home all the year round, I am unfamiliar with Zhaoyuan. So when I got home, I traveled all over Zhaoyuan city by car, asked the driver to introduce the names of various communities, and drew a map on this book with a pen to help me understand the online communities. Then find an agent to determine my location. I only need houses in three communities near that location, and the down payment is less than 200 thousand.
I found a broker and showed me four sets in two days, all of which passed. Because at that time, I had already chosen a residential area, as long as it was in these three residential areas, and later, because one of the residential areas was not floor heating, it passed.
After seeing the house that afternoon, I rode around on a small motor and saw a house: xx Property. When I went in, I always remember that the agent said, "Now there is one that is especially suitable for you. The landlord is anxious to sell it, but someone has taken a fancy to it and has not paid the deposit. When you come back from a business trip tomorrow, you will see first, and whoever pays the deposit first will have it. "
It was strange at that time. I was very comfortable when I first arrived in this community. After seeing the house, I exulted. That's it. I told the agent to bring my mother to see it tomorrow, so it's settled.
This process is very enjoyable. But then something happened, which made me very depressed. Generally speaking, it is because the landlord of this house sold it very cheaply, 430,000 yuan, and the minimum price of the same house in the community is 460,000 yuan. Besides the deposit of 1 10,000 yuan, I only paid 1 10,000 yuan to the intermediary to transfer the ownership to me. So my friends, relatives and even other intermediary companies thought I was cheated, and even later I went to the law firm with my friends to consult a lawyer.
In short, I was particularly angry at that time. Until that night, my mother said, don't buy this house. To buy a house, I don't hesitate to add fuel to the fire.
After listening to this sentence, I think I have learned the law of attraction. Why do I keep thinking about these negative things? Why can't this good thing happen to me? I began to calm myself down and read the contents of the second week of A.S.K.A That night, I began to visualize the scene where my mother and I lived, including how to decorate it and so on.
Why are you doing this? I quote the complete collection of secrets-just like asking for a sewing machine. I'm not saying that after you have the idea of needing a sewing machine, you can stay there and wait for the sewing machine to be built automatically. If you really want a sewing machine, you have to draw it in your mind to make sure that this machine can be built or how to buy it. Once your idea is mature, you should carry it out firmly. In this process, never doubt whether you can get the sewing machine. You should always believe that you will get it. "
I also understand why people who knew this secret in the past were all great men in history: Plato, Newton, Lincoln, Emerson, Edison and Einstein.
Because the law of attraction helps you realize what you want not by what you say, but by our inner belief-"I believe we can get them", which is why we often get what we want in small things, but rarely in big things.
Therefore, after placing an order, in addition to a clear image, you must also have the will to achieve it and have enough motivation to actually create it.
How to have this unshakable belief?
The best way is to tell myself that it belongs to me. Right in front of my eyes. I just brought it here. From that day on, my mother and I lived in the new house that we longed for psychologically. Every night, I dreamed about how to decorate and buy something with my mother, and I was really happy at the end.
Imagine living in a house, living in this community, as if you already have it, being grateful for everything around you, sincerely thanking the landlord, the intermediary and everyone.
So once we form a clear image in our mind, the whole event begins to turn into an acceptance process. From that moment on, we will be ready to accept everything we and the universe need. For example, living in a new house; For example, having a career that you love; For example, you can travel around.
This feeling is really wonderful!
The Gospel of Kyle in the Bible also mentions this method: "I tell you, whatever you pray for, as long as you believe you can get it, you will get it." It means to take your wishes as an existing fact and stick to it, and the effect will soon appear.
So in the end, I didn't even give the landlord a down payment, so he vacated the house for me to decorate.
Apart from the deposit, I only paid a transfer of 10 thousand yuan, and the loan itself came down before the end of 10. As a result, the bank dragged on for half a month, and the landlord didn't rush me in the process. I am so lucky. Thanks again to the landlord's eldest brother and intermediary sister.
Looking back now, it is almost 99% consistent with the order content, which is incredible!
Originally, the down payment was 1.8 million, and tens of thousands were left for decoration. For the smooth loan, I paid 2 1 10,000. So I was robbing Peter to pay Paul in the later decoration, 1 I lent my aunt 20,000 yuan to attend the class on September 9th, but I still don't lack money every month under such a lack of funds, and I bought insurance in the later period, so as long as you believe it, I can get rid of the feeling of lack of money.
PS: This incident also made me reflect: Don't judge a book by its cover. Because this big brother really looks like a gangster, black, fat and not laughing. I get scared every time I see him, but it turns out that he is really nice.
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Finally, I quote The Complete Secrets to everyone and myself:
First of all, you should believe that cosmic energy is the source of everything.
Secondly, you should believe that the cosmic energy will give you everything you want.
Third, you should connect with the cosmic energy with deep gratitude.
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This is why Mr. Qiu Kai has an article called "One Action, Changing Life", which mentioned the gratitude diary.
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