I once read a story about a soldier who was entrusted by his boss to take care of his widow's son for 66 years. He returned to his hometown in his 90 s and died three months later. Is this the embodiment of love or affection? The widow lived with this soldier for 66 years, did she have any love or affection? In my opinion, this exhibition was commissioned by his boss. In his eyes, his own gains and losses may not matter. The important thing is to fulfill his boss's entrustment. For him, love and affection are not important.
I don't know how many people have heard another story. It is said that a man and a woman privately agreed for life, but they were all blocked by their families and finally agreed to commit suicide by jumping into the river. In the end, both parents cried their eyes out, regretting that they had stopped them from being together. If we take their affairs as an example, then love is more important than family ties. But I wonder if anyone has heard another story. The story is also about a couple meeting to drink poison and double suicide. But the girl became afraid after seeing the boy drink the poison. She couldn't let go of her living parents, friends and the world. Finally, the boy died and the girl was still alive. If we analyze this case, then affection is more important than love, or in a girl's heart, love is not so important.
Let me tell you another story. There was a couple who loved each other very much. Their love lasted for a long time. Finally, they entered the marriage hall. But after marriage, they often quarreled, because a lot of contradictions broke out in some small things, but in the end they supported each other for a lifetime. At that time, his wife once asked him that before marriage, we were so loving, but after marriage, we were so at odds. Why didn't we separate, but we ended up together? Her husband replied, "I married you because you love me, and I love you too. I will accompany you all my life." Although there are quarrels and troubles, there are also sweetness and happiness, and we have children. My love for you and your love for me have been transformed into family ties. "
As the saying goes, love is very important to me. I love you as much as you love me. When we are together one day, my love for you will be transformed into family affection. If my love for you fades, it proves that I can't live without you, and I even want to meet you like this in my next life.