How can long-distance love provide effective care?

Give you some advice:

First, keep in touch and pay attention to the people and things around girls.

At the moment when information is super developed, it is not difficult to keep in touch with your girlfriend. You should talk to each other about what happened recently and who you are with every day. Don't be too lazy to ask, and don't feel tired of asking every day. Since it is a long-distance relationship, don't brush the sense of existence, then be careful of Lao Wang next door.

Second, send material care to your girlfriend.

Believe me, no woman hates material things, even if she says she doesn't (doesn't mean all girls are material). Put yourself in the other person's shoes, and you will be very happy to receive a gift or red envelope from the other person. Of course, I'm not teaching you to give girls red envelopes to buy luxury goods every day. You can find out what the other person likes, what he likes, or what his shortcomings are. If you really don't understand, it's right to buy flowers, perfume and lipstick. Even if I don't know what brand of perfume and lipstick are, I always buy snacks. What girls want is care. Care can be done with your heart or with money.

Third, create surprises.

Boring relationships need seasoning. If you can, you can try to suddenly appear in front of her and enjoy the world of two people. Even if only two people meet, hug and kiss, it is much happier than keeping a mobile phone pet. If possible, create more romance. If you have time, do more unforgettable things together, go to concerts, travel together, go to amusement parks, do handicrafts together and so on. Spiritual fullness can drive girls to have more emotions.

Fourth, plan the future.

You must have heard the complaint that "I really can't see the future with him" and "I don't think he has ambition and doesn't know where our future is". As a man, we must shoulder the heavy responsibility of planning the future and working hard, and we must take responsibility. Imagine and plan the future with your girlfriend, realize it step by step, and let the other person see your future. This is the greatest encouragement and motivation for love.

Fifth, let both friends know each other very well.

The big problem of long-distance love is that you can't seem to find the bond and intersection between the two sides except a mobile phone. Then, it is important to integrate the circle of friends on both sides. Imagine, one is that only she misses you privately and secretly, and she doesn't know who to tell when she misses you, because everyone seems to be unfamiliar with you; The other is that all her friends are familiar with you. Everyone is a circle of friends and can share their own interesting stories and anecdotes with each other. Everyone will talk about you together, and some friends will take the initiative to tell her about you and make fun of you. Which of these two works better?

Six, making 3D stereoscopic care

Don't just type and chat. First of all, we can communicate through three-dimensional chat. Typing, sending voice and video should be interspersed with chatting, because audio and video can give people a more intuitive feeling. There is a saying, love me, love my dog. If you really love her, then you should spend more time and thought to study the circle and city where she lives. Then when she talks to you about where to eat, maybe you will know where that place is and what kind of restaurant it is, and she will be surprised. Once a girl walked home from the railway station and called me to express her boredom. Then I found the city and route she was going to on Baidu map. Baidu map has street view function (requiring Baidu to pay a lot of advertising fees). As the girl walked, I talked about what was nearby. The scenery there is beautiful, the buildings are relatively high, and the shops nearby are also conspicuous. The girl was surprised at the time. She told me it was like