Parents are advised to pay attention to the following aspects when carrying out correct health education for their children:
1. At different ages, the content of sex education is different.
About 3 years old is the child's gender psychological hair.
At the beginning of the exhibition, the child has a gender.
Consciousness. Therefore, parents are advised to wait until their children are 5 years old.
/kloc-before the age of 0/8, we should solve the simple problem of gender knowledge.
problem Sex education at this stage includes
Two aspects, one is to let children know how to protect.
Your own body, followed by children.
Every part of the body has a positive image.
Pre-puberty, emphasizing sexual physiology education; During adolescence, sexual psychology and sexual morality should be taught.
Education.
2. Teach "sexual knowledge" naturally
Sex education should be more advanced, but it is inseparable from children's understanding ability. Parents should try their best to tell their children about sex in simple language. These are all natural things, so that children can have a correct and scientific understanding of the body.
Of course, at the same time, we must tell our children that some parts of the human body are private and privacy cannot be exposed, otherwise it will be embarrassing. Only by correcting their own thoughts can parents give their children correct guidance.
3. Strengthen the education of "sexual morality"
Sex education includes many aspects such as sex physiology, sex psychology, sex morality and sex ethics, among which sex morality is a very important part. The content of sexual morality can be summarized as follows: sexual moral norms; Correct views on love, chastity and fertility. Its core is love and respect.
Heavy.
Parents should convey positive messages to their children through nonverbal behaviors, such as the principles of mutual respect, loyalty, sharing housework, respecting the old and loving the young, helping others, being polite, being serious and responsible for their work, being honest and trustworthy, which is the best education for their children.
4. Admit the answer and don't avoid it.
Parents should not avoid, panic or lie when children ask similar sexual questions. They should answer children's questions quickly and correctly with a scientific attitude, in a way and language that children can accept and understand, and satisfy their curiosity and thirst for knowledge.
Judging from the current social and cultural situation, it is best to answer the gender differences before the age of 5, especially the primary characteristics of men and women. There are also differences in the methods of sex education for children of different ages. Before the child is 5 years old, parents can show up with their own bodies. But after the age of 5, it is more appropriate to use indirect methods such as books and audio-visual materials.
5. Sex education special reminder:
For modern children, the more taboo they are, the stronger their curiosity will be. Nowadays, social communication means such as Internet and media are so rich and developed. If children can't get scientific sexual knowledge through proper channels, they are likely to have incorrect views and understanding of sex with their age, which is harmful to their physical and mental health.
In short, sex education for children should adhere to natural and appropriate principles, and should not be done deliberately, nor should we look at children's problems from an adult's perspective.