How should we be a kind and confident person and integrate with reality?

1. Whenever I feel that I lack confidence, I say to myself, "I can do it!"

2. Seeing that others are doing well, say to yourself, "In fact, I can do better than him!"

3. Make full preparations and lay a foundation for building self-confidence, which requires usual efforts.

4. Be optimistic. Optimism is a kind of mental outlook that people are full of confidence in the future of their career, and it is the quality of successful people. Generally speaking, confident people are always optimists. It is this optimism that makes children's self-confidence gradually develop and consolidate.

5. Have strong perseverance. Edison believed that self-confidence and strong will were the most obvious signs of great men. He said, "No matter how the environment changes, his original intention and hope will not change at all, but he will eventually overcome obstacles and achieve the expected goal." People with strong self-confidence generally have strong perseverance, and perseverance is always combined with energy to form the quality of perseverance. A person with strong perseverance will not be proud of success, nor will he be discouraged by failure; Success can urge him to keep forging ahead, and failure can also inspire him to make persistent efforts. Perseverance and self-confidence also promote each other. Hawking, a professor at Cambridge University in England, is regarded as one of the greatest physicists since Einstein. Hawking supported decades of efforts with firm belief and made amazing achievements in the field of astrophysics. His book A Brief History of Time was translated into 365,438+0 languages and sold 6 million copies.

6. Try to build self-confidence with small success. Successfully accomplish some small things and find the feeling of success. I gradually established my self-confidence.

7. Attribute the failure correctly, and then make improvement according to your own shortcomings.

Simple:

Do anything you like, such as playing, skating, climbing mountains and going outdoors.

Go to nature, let your heart calm down, come back and think about it, and self-confidence takes root from your heart!