1. It is difficult to adapt to the change of living environment.
In order to successfully pass the transition period of living environment, college students who have just entered the school should start from small things and make use of every small thing and every opportunity to exercise their ability to live and work independently.
2. The psychological burden caused by the pressure of study and competition is too heavy.
After entering the university campus with a good mood, the students who have experienced the college entrance examination suddenly found themselves standing on the top of the mountain. In a cloud of experts, the sense of superiority of "standing out from the crowd" in the past has disappeared, and the status of "stars holding the moon" has changed, which has virtually produced a sense of loss.
Therefore, teachers and parents should educate them to face up to the reality and realize that going to college is only a victory in the journey of life, and there is still a long way to go. From the moment we entered the school gate, the new competition started again, and everyone stood at a new starting line. Therefore, after a short period of excitement after entering school, we should analyze the pros and cons calmly and seriously in time, know ourselves correctly, and take our own path down-to-earth.
3. Social barriers caused by the imbalance of interpersonal relationships
Avoidant personality disorder in communication. Its characteristics are: psychological inferiority, behavioral withdrawal, evasive attitude or inability to cope with challenges. I want to associate with people, but I'm afraid of being rejected and don't like it. I want to get others' care and consideration, but I am too shy to get close to others. Not interacting with people is not voluntary, and there are many internal contradictions.
Eliminating social barriers is mainly to learn to evaluate yourself correctly, increase self-confidence, and eliminate inferiority and fear. Otherwise, I am particularly sensitive to my manners, afraid of making a fool of myself and losing my manners in front of others, but I feel extremely nervous in front of others. Social disorder is a self-reinforcing process of fear. Once a vicious circle is formed, fear will intensify and finally seriously affect normal study and life. Students with such problems should be bold, take part in more group activities and dare to show their faces.
4. The failure of ideals and goals leads to inner confusion.
After entering the university, learning loses the motivation of primary and secondary school hours, and inevitably comes into contact with the bourgeoisie and the dark side of society. Students who are used to reading only sage books are confused in the face of reality.
In view of this situation, we should guide students to clarify their own learning direction and realize the transformation from exam-oriented education to quality education. The purpose of university study is to master certain professional knowledge and skills and improve their own quality. To achieve this goal, we must learn professional courses well, improve professional skills, cultivate noble moral sentiments, exercise organizational and social skills, and improve physical and psychological qualities. Pay attention to find your interest in learning content. In addition to completing normal learning tasks, we should also develop the habit of finding, thinking and studying problems according to our own interests, change passive learning into active learning, and improve our learning consciousness and autonomy.
5. Emotional frustration leads to mental depression
Nowadays, love is an open secret on the university campus. Some college students join the "lovers" in a hurry. Due to the lack of correct understanding of love or being loved, they often suffer from lovelorn, but it is difficult to adjust themselves. Those who are light can't extricate themselves from the emotional whirlpool, and those who are heavy will be miserable, trying to die, and even lead to serious consequences such as mental disorder and suicide.
Falling in love is an aesthetic. Once the two sides have an affair, they should be calm, calm and rational. We should not only cherish pure feelings, but also let them develop, pay attention to moderate control and correctly handle the relationship between love and school. For unrequited lovers and lovelorn people, we should pay attention to patient and meticulous ideological work, educate them that love is based on the principle of mutual willingness, and turn their attention to study.