Be an emotionless person, don't complain everywhere, don't trust people you just met easily, and don't expect anyone. People who talk behind your back don't matter to you. All you have to do is care about your present and future. Don't let those trifles bother you. You don't need everyone to like you and understand you. Of course, you shouldn't give advice to others easily |
Everyone is a product of the environment, and different ways do not seek common cause.
Don't lose your temper casually. Too much temper can't solve the problem, but it will hurt your health. When you really want to lose your temper, actually one look is enough. Malicious people never cry or make trouble. Because this is what children do. But any relationship that makes you feel tired, just end it directly. Why are you still suffering there? Don't embarrass yourself, life is so short, remember to speak with strength in the future. The stupidest behavior in this world is to always reason with others when you are weak. Even if you are right, there is no need to prove others wrong.
Always remember:
Different positions, less words are more expensive.
Cognitive inequality is indisputable and indistinguishable.
It's a waste of breath to disagree with each other.
Don't tell others and don't feel wronged when you are so stressed that you are about to collapse. Because no one will sympathize with you. Nobody cares, or you are not as good as others. Try to calm yourself down and do what you should do, instead of letting troubles and anxiety ruin your little enthusiasm and determination. It is better to look at things optimistically than to blame others and let yourself suffer internal friction. Heart can be broken, hands can't stop, just do what you have to do.
Move on in the crash, you are a cruel man.
4. Whoever doesn't talk about people behind their backs won't be talked about behind their backs. If colleagues, peers and classmates speak ill of you, what does it mean? That means they are worse than you. Because people who mix better than you have no time to speak ill of you and are busy making money. If others don't know you and are not your friends, isn't it normal to speak ill of you and praise you?
Tell you a crab effect: if a fisherman hits a crab, he needs to cover the basket, because the crab will climb out by itself.
But if he hits a group of crabs, there is no need to build a basket. Because those crabs will pull each other down, once a crab tries to climb out of that basket, it will be pulled down by other crabs.
They will kill each other so that no one can run out.
So when you are accused, squeezed out and slandered by others, you can't catch him like a crab, so you will be dragged down by the other party in the end. What should you do? What you should do is not to stay in the same basket with him at all. Ignore them, just focus on doing your own thing, and then shut everyone up with the results. At this point, I admire Stephen Chow. Not only because of his good film performance, but also because of his strong heart. Once upon a time, he was besieged by the entertainment circle. He stood up and was interviewed by his wife, saying that his character was poor, and all the stars in Hong Kong stood up and besieged him together. Jing Wong said that making movies with him is very rewarding and famous. As a martial arts coach, Sammo Hung cooperated with him and spoke ill of him when he fell out because of disagreement. Even Eva Huang sued him, saying that he was an economic company that squeezed artists. But have you noticed that so many people say that Stephen Chow is not good? Have you ever seen Stephen Chow speak ill of others? This is why I have always believed in his character. A person's character depends not only on how he treats those who speak well of him, but also on how he treats those who speak ill of him.
A really good man:
Although it was noisy, I just smiled indifferently.
The so-called broad sky, disdain to compete with others.
5. Don't stay up late like death.
Everyone knows that staying up late is harmful to health, in fact, I also know that. But at the beginning of the project, in order to be stable, I often stayed up until three or four in the morning. A few months later, I found my hair lost a lot, my back ached and I was listless all day. Although I made some money during the period, my body collapsed. Later, I ate the black sesame powder sent by my friend, drank it once a day for several months, and then cooperated with the normal work and rest, and my body slowly recovered. Finally, it is found that there are also special ingredients such as black beans, yam, medlar, walnuts and red dates. People who want to recuperate can always surround themselves with some black sesame, walnut and black bean powder. It is best to choose this kind of black sesame with high sugar-free content, and you are not afraid of getting fat if you eat too much. Of course, the most important thing is not to stay up late. The rainy season of life will soon pass, so don't wait to waste the gun of love. ...