The quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law makes old friends dislike going home. Unexpectedly, the mother won in the end. As soon as the primary school started, the two children already had the meaning of being top students.
The teacher in charge of the class said that these days, the children not only pay good attention, but also the teacher's digestion and absorption are basically all-round. The key is their good memory ability and their own learning ability.
Among them, the second child is still a little creative and imaginative. With such a compliment from the teacher, the daughter-in-law stopped making trouble and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for many years eased. One Spring Festival, taking advantage of the good opportunity of family reunion, my wife unexpectedly became a good family for the first time, thanking Aunt Lin. Thank her for helping to give birth to such excellent two children. In fact, Lin Yi is self-defeating. In her own words, I should have known that she taught her children like that. At the beginning, my old friend, she did the same. In short, in any case, the form of parenting education is efficient. Aunt Shaolin set an example for us. Summarize her handling methods, but these three points. You can learn from it.
The first point: Lin Yi, who has strong plasticity, is a resilient person, and her influence on children is roughly the same. It is one of my rules to let my daughter-in-law do whatever she wants, so as to ensure that the form of my parenting education is firm. This unshakable quality is actually a role model for children.
The second point: the way is simple, but Lin Yi's understanding of parent-child early education is not complicated, that is, through children's small memories, let children recite things and exercise their memory ability. More importantly, he studies with his children all the time and grows up with them. When she is satisfied, the children will naturally learn. The way is not complicated, just studying with children. As a game, both adults and children are comfortable.
The third point: equal treatment. In fact, an old man with two children must be very tired, but the old man doesn't feel tired and treats them equally. It won't make any difference just because one is a boy and the other is a girl, which will have a great adverse effect on children. It can be said that it is really good luck to have such a mother-in-law, and it is really a blessing at home.