When people reach middle age, they should not only shoulder family responsibilities, but also persist in fighting for their careers. It seems that we can stop to have a rest, but we can't be idle for a moment, and we can't stop for a moment, for fear that something will happen. Joint reaction? , bring trouble to the family. When men reach middle age, what they fear most is not poverty, but these four things.
1, afraid that my wife will cuckold herself.
For the sake of family and life, many men need to make 100% efforts outside to change their families. It takes effort to improve the quality of life. Most men don't expect much from women. They just hope that she can take good care of the family, take good care of the children, and leave the things involved to herself, so that it is worthwhile to see a well-organized home.
When people reach middle age, men are afraid that their wives will cheat, which is undoubtedly a kind of damage to their reputation, uncertainty about their abilities, and even children. Many men hate their wives, and even beat their wives because of their infidelity, so they can't accept such a setting, and their efforts are worthless to their wives.
A man who loves you doesn't want to lose his wife, and he is even more afraid of losing someone because of cheating.
2. I am afraid that children will not follow the right path.
Educating children is a science. When people reach middle age and children grow up, there will be a generation gap in communication with children. Sometimes, if you talk to your child calmly, there will always be several quarrels. Every time there is a quarrel or a cold war, men are afraid that their children will not follow the right path. I like children too much, I am afraid that they will change, and I am too strict with children. By contrast,
For a father, it is also a sign of incompetence and a great blow for his children not to follow the right path.
In the face of children with great personality, men should be more patient. You are a father who has seen the world. First of all, you can't be serious about children. If you have any questions, you should communicate with your children in an equal manner. Being too strict and too commanding will only make children more and more rebellious. A child full of love in his heart will take the road of positive sunshine.
I am afraid that my parents will get seriously ill.
A serious illness in life can ruin a family and take the risk of where you will go. When a man reaches middle age, he is afraid of his parents' serious illness and their physical condition. A serious illness will affect two families, and your own sense of powerlessness will only make people more depressed. No matter how much money you have, you will be defeated in the face of illness.
Men should work harder while you are young and your parents are not really old. Pass on a healthy and correct lifestyle to your parents and change yourself at the same time.
In spending money, we should be ahead of ourselves and save some money for a rainy day, at least when unfortunate things happen, it won't be too embarrassing. A good body is the best capital to walk in the world.
I'm afraid I'm tired and will fall down.
When people reach middle age, they need to worry about all aspects of themselves. Sometimes, he really feels that he can't hold on and will fall down. No matter what you want, you just want to live happily for yourself once, but you can't let go. Bite my teeth and persist day after day, but my body and mind are getting more and more tired. Life is hard, but you should learn to cheer yourself up instead of falling down.
When you are tired, find a time to relax yourself and then stand up again; When you are tired, talk to your lover about your troubles. If you have something on your mind, it is to release stress.
If a person has been on the road without success, he will be exhausted on the road, and these efforts will be in vain. When people reach middle age, don't be afraid of suffering and falling down. When he is tired, let him have a rest.
The author's words:
When people reach middle age, they should stop clinging to money and fame and pay more attention to life. Some people make a lot of money, but they are still unhappy. Some people, with average economic conditions, spend their lives, but the difference between them lies in their mood. How you look at life, life will come back to you.