I was told that I want to be a freelancer. In fact, freelancers are not necessarily more free. Freelancers just control their own time loosely, but in order to make money, you must also meet the needs of customers. You must spend time studying, growing, doing things and making money, not to mention how much freedom you have. Especially when you have a lot of fear and anxiety in the process of freelancing, you might as well live in a stable place without food.
To continue this topic, for a person with strong ability, perhaps his speech will be more useful, customers will be more willing to listen to him, and it will be easier for him to make money. What are there? We can see that people who are confident and capable may have greater freedom, but these are not basic freedoms. However, we can still make the following analysis:
1. When we are more capable, we have more freedom to do things and more choices in this world. This is the freedom of life, career and finance that can be achieved in the secular world.
2. Physical and mental freedom. When our body and mind have more space, we have more freedom. The so-called greater physical and mental space lies in our lack of rigid beliefs and limited beliefs. You tolerate the differences between people and things, without entanglement or rigidity. Seeing others pleasing to the eye, seeing yourself pleasing to the eye, not necessarily doing anything, not necessarily not doing anything, is essentially letting others let themselves go. At the same time, I also love the process of life more and try to do everything well every day.
3. Basic freedom: the freedom to know how to accept and give up. Abide by the power of your own system and the rules of its operation, be comfortable in different systems, act according to the rules of the system, and don't entangle yourself at the same time. Just as Confucius said, do what you want and don't go beyond the distance.
This is greater freedom.
Mr. Hellinger, a German psychologist and founder of family system arrangement, talked about freedom:
"People have a little freedom." His implication seems to be that there is not much freedom.
"What freedom does man have?" He said, "Freedom to change."
Then he turned a corner: "But people are not free about the changed results."
He also said slowly: "The so-called freedom is nothing more than submission-a person who knows how to submit to his own destiny will be the greatest freedom. Many people like to pursue, pursue this and that, but in the end, the result may not be good. Surrender means that you don't have to pursue it and hand over what the result is to a whole bigger than you. "