Establishing a correct outlook on life and the world will help college students to set positive life goals, often improve their ability to withstand pressure and setbacks, maintain a positive and optimistic spirit, and make them understand the meaning of life. Establishing a correct outlook on life and world is helpful for college students to scientifically understand society, adopt appropriate attitudes and behaviors towards life, correctly observe and analyze objective things, and handle all kinds of things calmly and steadily. Establishing a correct outlook on life is conducive to shaping a healthy personality. College students with correct outlook on life and world can understand the world keenly and objectively, be innovative and creative in their work, and dare and be willing to give their love generously to others and society.
Second, we should have a sound self-awareness.
First of all, we should keep a clear head and have a comprehensive and clear understanding of ourselves. Only when a person has a clear understanding of himself can he discover his strengths and weaknesses. At the same time, you will find out what you are suitable for and what you are not. Secondly, we should have a tolerant attitude. This includes two aspects. First, we can tolerate our own advantages, that is, tolerance. Second, we can tolerate our own shortcomings, that is, tolerance. Tolerance is to look at your strengths with humility. Tolerance is to treat your own shortcomings with an open-minded attitude. Only by being cautious about yourself from multiple angles can we not misjudge our own strength. Third, we must have the courage to tolerate others. As the ancients said, tolerance is great. If a person can have the same boldness of vision as the sea, behave and tolerate others, there will be good results in the future. On the contrary, the results are predictable.
Third, we should establish a positive attitude.
Happiness is a day, so is unhappiness. How do you choose to spend it? Of course, I want to be happy. In fact, happiness is an external manifestation of a positive attitude. When a person is happy, his nerves are in a state of excitement, and he will have passion in doing anything, and he will regard doing things (such as work and study) as a kind of enjoyment. In this case, how can things not be done well? Besides, we know that emotions are contagious. When we treat others with a positive attitude, others also give us positive signals. On the contrary, our mood will only be more depressed. We often hear a saying called: Attitude is everything! This sentence deserves our college students' deep thought.
Fourth, we should face up to reality and adapt to the environment.
The so-called face-to-face reality means to treat the things around you with a fairly comprehensive, fair, non-subjective and non-paranoid attitude, and not to talk about your own development divorced from reality. Each of us lives in this world and is in a specific environment. You can change the environment, but you can't go beyond your environment. This is the first thing to be clear. Therefore, the first thing we should do is to adapt to the environment, whether it is good or bad. Darwin came to a conclusion in the Origin of Species: natural selection is the only way to survive. In nature, only tenacious creatures are qualified to survive, so the environment will not change to adapt to you because of your inadaptability, nor will it pity you. Therefore, in the face of some specific situations, we should rationally, objectively and comprehensively analyze which conditions can be used, which conditions can be used and which conditions can be changed. What can be used and changed is for your own use, and what cannot be changed must be faced, accepted and adapted. Marx has a saying: Seek freedom within the limits of the framework. Therefore, college students should position themselves in the social environment for their own development. Once they find that their needs and desires conflict with social demand rules and collective interests, they should reconsider and revise their plans in order to seek real and effective development.
Fifth, we should pay attention to learning methods.
Descartes once said: Without the right method, even scholars with eyes will grope like blind people. Modern illiterates are not illiterate people, but people who can't learn. As the saying goes, learning and learning from time to time is the most important thing, and the beauty lies in getting the right method. For contemporary college students, mastering skilled learning methods is the key to their psychological growth. There are many learning methods for college students, which vary from person to person. Here I want to share with college students the most basic methodology to adapt to the university.
Sixth, we should establish harmonious interpersonal relationships.
Some people say that in a person's success, professional knowledge accounts for 15% and interpersonal relationship accounts for 85%. I don't know if this ratio is right, but at least it can show that interpersonal relationship is very important to a person's success, so it is necessary for college students to handle interpersonal relationship well during their school days. However, it is not so easy to have good interpersonal relationships. If you want to have good interpersonal relationships, you must follow certain principles and skills.