The picture of parents quarreling is very destructive to children. When parents quarrel, some children will suddenly shout and show fear, fear and helplessness. A child's heart is fragile and soft. Seeing parents quarreling once may make children seriously insecure. According to statistics, 80% of adults are afraid of getting married because their parents were not in harmony in childhood, which led to unsafe factors in childhood and fear of getting married in adulthood.
2, causing the child to be grumpy.
Smart and sensible children will become excited and irritable when they see their parents quarreling, because many behaviors of children are imitating adults when they grow up. Parents' quarreling behavior will be seen by children and remembered in their hearts. Over time, children will become irritable and even violent.
When parents are used to quarreling, children will lose their temper, become unfilial and ungrateful.
4. Bad relationship between parents will also have a negative impact on children's social behavior and ability. Children will become inferior, afraid of communicating with others and socializing, which is very unfavorable to life, work and study.
Children have lost their yearning for life.
Some children grow up in the quarrel between their parents. They will think that the world has lost its color and everything is just gray violence and curse in their ears.
Children living in this environment will easily lose their yearning for life if their psychological quality is not strong enough. When children lose confidence in life, no matter what they do, they are confused, listless and even less energetic.
Children have lost respect for their parents.
A child who grew up watching his parents quarrel, in his eyes, parents who can only solve problems with violence and quarrel will not win his respect, and even resentment is full of it.
Parents who lose their children's respect when they are old.