I think proper communication between boys and girls is necessary, but it must be based on friendship. Proper communication can help each other in study. Don't get along alone, for fear of gossip. As long as we keep a normal mind on this issue. Otherwise, it will not only affect learning, but also affect mental health and cause greater psychological pressure.
1, pay attention to communication methods. In the process of communication with the opposite sex, we should correct our attitude, cultivate healthy communication consciousness and dilute our cognition of the opposite sex. Young men and women should have group sex. Discussions and speeches in class, after-class discussions and jokes, and extracurricular game activities all create opportunities for the opposite sex to communicate with each other. Make some introverted and unsociable students avoid the shyness and embarrassment of facing the opposite sex alone; Some students who like to communicate meet the needs of communicating with others. Everyone is integrated into a strong collective atmosphere. In the collective heterosexual communication, everyone is faced with a group of heterosexual classmates, who are humorous and talkative, smart and kind, optimistic and generous, or steady and capable ..... This allows us to broaden our horizons and minds while absorbing everyone's advantages, and avoid focusing on one opposite sex and developing a "one-on-one" love relationship. Collective communication, parents rest assured, teachers support. There are various forms of collective communication, such as interest groups, science and technology groups and study groups. Group activities are also colorful, such as entertainment, games, competitions, travel, small inventions, small productions and so on.
2. Natural communication. In the process of communicating with the opposite sex, words, expressions, behaviors, feelings and thoughts should be natural and smooth, without exaggeration or avoidance; Neither blindly impulsive nor artificial. Eliminating the unnatural feeling in heterosexual communication is the premise of establishing normal heterosexual relations. The best embodiment of the natural principle is to treat opposite-sex students as same-sex students, establish opposite-sex relations as same-sex relations, and conduct opposite-sex exchanges as same-sex exchanges. The relationship between classmates should not be uncomfortable or unnatural because of the opposite sex. If you think naively, you will naturally be natural and graceful when communicating.
3, to grasp the scale of communication, communication with the opposite sex should be moderate. The degree and way of heterosexual communication should be just right and accepted by most people. Love for the opposite sex will not germinate prematurely, nor will it cause mental harm to both sides by avoiding or rejecting the opposite sex. Of course, sometimes it is not easy to be accepted by most people. I suggest that as long as nature is moderate, you don't have to worry too much. The other party invites you to participate in an activity, such as listening to music, watching movies, watching art exhibitions and visiting book fairs. This is a normal and open sexual intercourse, and you can keep the appointment generously. Girls should be dignified and open-minded, don't let the other side misunderstand and think at the worst; Boys should be calm, solemn and respect each other. Try to reduce or avoid being alone together, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstanding. The relationship should be sparse, not far. If you are at arm's length, grasp the psychological distance between the two people and eliminate the contact that makes the other person feel too close and causes emotional fluctuations. If we find each other's signs are wrong in communication, we should adjust our attitude to make our communication return to a calm and calm state. This is more conducive to our growth.