Through this caring activity for the elderly, we can see that the elderly are actually afraid of loneliness, and a little care can melt their frozen hearts. The following is my summary of the practical activities of caring for the elderly. Let's have a look!
Chapter 1: Report on Social Practice of Caring for the Elderly in Summer In order to further promote the traditional virtues of respecting the elderly and the spirit of "dedication, friendship, mutual assistance and progress" of young volunteers, a good habit of helping others and a social atmosphere of respecting, loving and helping the elderly are formed in society, and at the same time, the elderly can enjoy the fruitful results of reform and opening up and feel the warmth of the socialist family. As of today, my holiday internship is over.
On the morning of July 20th, three of us volunteers came to the local nursing home-Yihezhuang Nursing Home. We chatted with the old people and played cards. Last year, volunteers also came here for summer social practice, so we are familiar with many old people. They all welcomed us very much. We see that they are also very kind. During the chat, we learned that most of the old people here are from our town, and most of them are lonely old people. The county government and the nursing home provide them with good accommodation and a lot of entertainment and fitness equipment, which provides them with a lot of entertainment in their usual life. We met an 83-year-old veteran who has been demobilized for 52 years. During the chat, she told us about several battles he participated in, and told us about the fierceness and cruelty of the war, which made us deeply feel the cruelty of the war and the hard-won peace. He also sang many anti-Japanese war songs for them. He also said that he was grateful to the party and the government for providing such a good environment for his old age and happiness. We sincerely wish the China veteran a long and healthy life and thank him for his contribution to our peaceful life. After chatting with the old people, we chatted with the staff again. They say there are more disabled old people here. When I first came here, everyone was not used to it, and they lost their temper. But they can understand that although the work here is a bit bitter and tired, it is also a kind of anxiety to see these old people smiling. Several old people left one after another. Compared with last year's excitement and impulsiveness, this year they are less impulsive and more rational and calm. Look at every day, every situation and every problem calmly, carefully analyze and solve them. Solved, dare not slack off to meet the next difficulty.
In August 1 1, we came to grandpa Wang's house in our village. Grandpa Wang is a veteran. He got a daughter-in-law with mental problems in middle age, and the hard life began from then on. Now, my son is successful in his studies, but because he married his daughter-in-law and worried that his wife would abandon his family, he had to leave his parents and go to the city to live his own life. The old couple have a hard time. They just want their son to live a better life. It's really hard to see them collecting garbage for a living now. His family lives at the eastern end of our village.
Every time I go home, I buy something to visit them. Although I don't talk much, they always expect me to go. When I went this day, I found a car parked in front of Grandpa Wang's house. When I entered the yard, I found that it was Grandpa Wang's son and daughter-in-law who came back to visit the two old people. Grandpa Wang smiled and cried. I thought I would be relieved if I didn't get these. In the next few days, I found that the door of Grandpa Wang's house was locked. Later, I learned that my son had taken me to live in the city, and the old man could finally enjoy his old age.
On August 20th, I came to Grandma Sun's house with fruit and milk powder. Grandmother Sun's wife died very early, and her son worked in other places. Usually, she lives alone. Every time I go home, I will talk to Grandma Sun. Grandma Sun went from novel to old, from son to grandson. The old man was in high spirits, and Kan Kan talked about it. He has an optimistic attitude towards life. We sing old songs, play cards and sometimes watch a classic Huangmei opera. Grandma Sun is very kind to me, just like her granddaughter. This is the last time to visit her this holiday. When we packed jiaozi for jiaozi, she cried and said, "If only my granddaughter were here." I smiled and advised her that you should treat me as a granddaughter. I regard you as my grandmother. She smiled and didn't speak, just nodded. Every time we leave, Grandma Sun always says, "Don't forget to come again when you have time." I said, "I know, I will come!" " But I know this is the last holiday. Actually, I'm a little worried about her.
During the short 20-day summer internship from July 20th to August 60th in 10, I realized the power of love, youth and life. As an ordinary college student, I have benefited a lot from these 20 days of practical activities. In practice, I witnessed the bitterness and helplessness of the old man, and I listened to his voice with my own ears. Here, I would like to suggest to my classmates that in today's aging society in China, the elderly need our attention, care and help more. As college students, we should give our strength, start from the side, start from small things, respect, care and help the elderly! Understand the living conditions of the social elderly, listen to the voices of the elderly, care about their lives, offer love, shoulder the social responsibility of contemporary college students, and contribute to building a harmonious society.
Chapter II: Report on Social Practice of Caring for the Elderly My summer social practice began on August 6th, 20XX, and I spent six days visiting the elderly on weekends. The theme of this activity is to care for the elderly and send warmth to them in summer. The experience of this activity is now reported as follows:
Perhaps, in the eyes of many people, nursing homes are just the habitat of lonely old people. It should be quiet and deserted or have a feeling that the world is cold and the world is cold. The dying old man, the cold hospital wall and the cold wind of the sunset may be influenced by some negative reports before, which is a bit negative: this is my image before I went to the nursing home. But after I went to the nursing home, I found my narrowness.
In the morning, I came to the nursing home with several students who had planned to contact before. At the moment I entered, my eyes broke my previous cognition-some people were running, some were playing chess, and some were playing Tai Chi ... In the sunshine sprinkled through the leaves, I felt that they were just like us: all energetic young people!
After the morning exercise, we went to the old people's lounge and gave them a gift that we carefully selected or made by ourselves. The amiable old people are very moved and happy! Li Nainai in a red shirt is very talkative. She used to be an English teacher and liked singing and dancing. She discussed English grammar with us with great interest, and occasionally popped up a few nostalgic English conversations, which made us completely forget that she was an old man. Grandpa Liu is a veteran and his wife died a long time ago. He told us that his children were away all the year round and he was lonely, so he came to the nursing home to find friends and find some comfort to make himself less lonely. The old man told us that when he joined the army, he was very moved and impassioned, as if he had returned to the army. His eyes were full of excitement and disappointment, but I can see that it was mixed with bitter tears for so many years. A person's lonely life makes his face more gaunt.
Unforgettable is 80-year-old grandma Chen, who sits in a wheelchair all the year round. Although she can't move easily, she insists on writing and listening to old songs every week. This makes us a little ashamed. She also taught us to sing Dongfanghong: Dongfanghong sun rises in China and a Mao Zedong appears. He seeks happiness for the people. He is the great savior of the people. Chairman Mao loves the people. He is our guide. In order to build a new China, Huerhe will lead us forward. The * * production party is like the sun. Wherever it shines, there will be a * * production party, and the people will be liberated. ...
Singing and singing like this, unconsciously, everyone followed. There is an out-of-tune but affectionate song "Dongfanghong" in the lounge, holding hands. The old people let go of their laughter, and we laughed, but it was a little puzzling. At that moment, I couldn't tell what it was like in my heart.
Put love into action. After talking to the old people, we began to help them clean their rooms and put love into action. Everyone began to work seriously. Everyone is doing caring things with caring heart, such as hanging clothes for the elderly, bask in the quilt, taking out the garbage ... Some give the elderly a gentle massage, and some help them cut their nails.
Holding hands, holding hands, I have unspeakable warmth in my heart. At lunch time, we took the initiative to feed some old people, one bite, two bites ... now they are as thirsty as babies.
Hope to get care in the palm of your hand, that happy smiling face and moved tears are not a taste in your heart. In order to enrich the entertainment life of the old people, we also brought some laughter. talk about
Jokes, dancers, flute players, everyone wants to bring great warmth to the small yard. Grandpa Zhang, who is strong, simply plays with us. He took out the erhu that had been put on hold for a long time. Playing erhu and humming a ditty have a unique flavor. The long-lost smiles on the faces of the old people are very sweet and beautiful.
Finally, we found the director of the nursing home, Uncle Zhao, and talked about the recent situation of the nursing home. He told us: "The basic material life of the elderly in the courtyard is still guaranteed, too."
Rich, but poor spiritual life. In fact, the heart of an old man is the same as that of a child. They are more afraid of loneliness and more eager for warmth! Some old people look happy on the surface, but the inner door closes themselves. The most painful thing is that when they think of their loved ones, they can only cry silently in the dark alone. "Sometimes, some old people will hold your hand and talk about bumpy experiences and family affairs. When they are affectionate, they will burst into tears. Loneliness and melancholy seem to fill their whole lives. Even the happy space can't be squeezed in. Ming Lu misses the long grass and worries about his hometown. I think they must miss their home where they have lived for most of their lives, because here, happiness will not spread to every corner, nor will it benefit every old man. When I walked out of the gate, I saw everyone's disappointment and some people secretly wiping their tears.
Through this caring activity for the elderly, we can see that the elderly are actually afraid of loneliness. A little care can melt their frozen hearts and feel the warmth of the world. We should talk to them more and care more about them. When children are not around, what the elderly need most is a warm concern and greeting. We should pay attention to their physical and mental health from all aspects, so I suggest:
1. I hope that the nursing home can establish an activity center for the elderly and provide an activity room for the elderly.
Reading room, health room Old people can go to the activity room with other partners.
The children chatted and played chess. It is best to have fitness equipment in the activity room, or entertainment items such as chess, cards and mahjong. The activity center can also hold some activities for the elderly, such as lectures for the elderly, Tai Chi lovers, Tai Ji Chuan competitions and so on.
2. Further improve public infrastructure, beautify parks, gardens and other public places, and let the old people go to the activity center in their spare time.
You can dance yangko, sing, dance and go for a walk in the park, which will make them feel comfortable.
3. For the elderly whose children have not fulfilled their obligations of support, I hope the relevant government departments will actively publicize legal knowledge and encourage the elderly to safeguard their rights and interests through legal means.
4. I hope the government can give these old people living allowance, buy daily necessities regularly, and solve the problem of "providing for the aged". Improve the living allowance for the poor elderly, for
Entertainment facilities for the elderly, even a small TV set, will make the elderly physically and mentally happy and happy.
It is hoped that medical institutions can visit the elderly regularly, advocate voluntary service and ensure the health of the elderly.
6. Strengthen the spiritual civilization construction of teenagers, encourage students to enter the elderly, help the elderly, and provide "send warm, offer love" volunteer service.
Some people may think that the nursing home is a happy paradise for the elderly to enjoy their old age, but this trip to the nursing home has changed some of my thoughts. Without the care and care of relatives and the chat of friends, those old people give me the feeling of loneliness, just like lonely travelers in the desert. Some houses are big, but they are deserted and have no warmth. Are their hearts the same? No one knows except themselves.
Some houses are a little small and crowded, but there is still no lively atmosphere. Everyone seems to shut himself up, as if there is a scar in their world that we are prone to. Although we are enthusiastic about helping them and caring for them, some old people are still afraid and unwilling. Maybe they think their children can't be trusted, let alone others! Their eyes are so confused and their expressions are so helpless, just like people wandering on the edge of life and death. In fact, everyone will be old, and every old man has been young. Please don't laugh at the backwardness of the old man.
Because in the future, we will not keep up with the times. Don't laugh at the slowness of the old people, because we will do the same in the future. Don't dislike the unsanitary old people. They suffer more than we eat salt, not to mention complaining about the old man's nagging. Sometimes this is a way for many old people to love their children, but young people don't like or even hate this way, so there is a generation gap between old people and young people, and sometimes there will be contradictions. As the saying goes, "The sheep have the grace to kneel, and the crow has the intention to feed back". It is shameful to care more and complain less, and to respect the elderly.
Sometimes, a little love can really create great happiness. It has become the responsibility of the whole society to "provide for the elderly, learn from them, provide for them and enjoy themselves". Taking care of the elderly is like taking care of our own tomorrow. Tomorrow we will be old, unable to keep pace with the times, slow to move and unable to say anything unreasonable ... At that time, we must really want to be cared for and respected. When you are lonely, you will want someone to accompany you! So, no matter how busy you are, don't forget to make a phone call, and no matter how annoying you are, don't lose your temper with the old man. Taking care of the elderly is not just about paying, greeting, smiling, and giving up your seat on the bus for the last time ... in fact, it's as simple as that. Don't be stingy with our language, shake hands, hug and even kiss! Let language, handshake, hug and kiss become the bridge between us and the elderly!
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