So, how to eliminate their psychological gap and make them successful? The specific ways and methods are as follows:
First, cultivate good personality quality. A good personality should first understand oneself correctly, cultivate an attitude of accepting oneself, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and constantly improve oneself. Secondly, we should improve our tolerance to setbacks, have a correct understanding of setbacks, not panic in the face of setbacks, adopt a rational coping style, and turn negative factors into positive ones. The level of frustration tolerance is related to personal ideological realm, subjective judgment of frustration and frustration experience. To improve the ability to withstand setbacks, we should strive to improve our ideological realm, establish a scientific outlook on life, actively participate in various practical activities, and enrich our life experience.
Second, develop a scientific lifestyle. The influence of lifestyle on mental health has been proved by scientific research. A healthy lifestyle refers to a regular life, a combination of work and rest, scientific use of the brain, adherence to physical exercise, less drinking, no smoking, and attention to hygiene. College students have a heavy study burden and great psychological pressure. If we want to keep the efficiency of study for a long time, we must arrange daily study, exercise and rest scientifically to make our life regular. To learn to use the brain scientifically means to use the brain regularly, reasonably and promptly, so as to avoid neurasthenia caused by excessive use of the brain and reduce the ability of thinking and remembering hundreds of millions.
Third, strengthen self-psychological adjustment. The core content of self-regulating mental health includes adjusting cognitive structure, emotional state, exercising will quality and improving adaptability. College students are in adolescence, and the prominent feature of adolescence is that human sexual physiology has gradually entered an active state after undergoing a transition from germination to maturity. In the sense of psychological development, this stage is an eventful autumn of life. This is because of the lack of experience and the naivety of knowledge, which determines that some aspects of people's psychological development lag behind the growth rate of physiological functions in this period. Therefore, in its development process, there will inevitably be many embarrassment, confusion, trouble and pain. On the other hand, China is in a critical period of establishing a socialist market economy and realizing the strategic goal of socialist modernization. The social situation is undergoing complex and profound changes, with increasingly fierce social competition, accelerated pace of life and rapid development of science and technology. This situation will also lead to psychological contradictions and conflicts among young students who will enter the society sooner or later, such as parents being laid off, changes in family life, poor academic performance, failure in making friends, lovelorn and so on. If these psychological problems persist for a long time, they may become psychological obstacles and affect study and life. Let students face up to reality, learn to adjust themselves and keep good contact with reality. Self-adjustment, give full play to subjective initiative to transform the environment, and strive to achieve their ideal goals. Therefore, college students should learn to adjust their own psychology and realize mental health;
1, maintain a strong interest in learning and curiosity. Learning is the main task of college students. With the interest in learning, we can consciously jump into the vast ocean of knowledge and invite them to swim, desperately absorb new knowledge and develop various abilities, so as to improve our own quality and better adapt to the needs of social development.
2. Keep an optimistic mood and a good attitude. College students should maintain a positive and optimistic mood, a happy and cheerful attitude, and be full of confidence and hope for the future. When you encounter sad things, you should learn to adjust yourself, express and control your emotions appropriately, and be proud to win, happy to lose, and worried. 3. Maintain harmonious interpersonal relationships and be willing to communicate. Students with mental health are willing to communicate with others, and they can live in harmony with others with understanding, tolerance, friendship, trust and respect. Through interpersonal communication, they can understand the social responsibility of college students and cultivate the habit of observing discipline and social morality. Enhance psychological adaptability, work with others, cooperate with others, maintain a harmonious relationship with the collective, and ensure the healthy psychological development of college students.
4. Maintain good adaptability to the environment. The environment that has an influence and function on college students' psychology includes living environment, growing environment, learning environment and campus environment.
Fourth, actively participate in extracurricular activities and develop social contacts. Colorful extracurricular activities not only enrich the life of college students, but also provide opportunities for their healthy development. College students should cultivate a variety of interests, develop hobbies, participate in various extracurricular activities, give full play to their potential, cheer up their spirits, relieve tension and maintain physical and mental health. Only through social communication can we realize the exchange of ideas and the enjoyment of information and materials. Developing social communication can continuously enrich and activate people's inner world, which is beneficial to mental health care.
Fifth, seek the help of psychological teachers or psychological counseling institutions to acquire psychological counseling knowledge. Psychological teachers have a strong theoretical foundation and practical experience in life, and have good solutions and skills to the psychological problems faced by students. When necessary, college students turn to experienced psychological counselors or professionals and psychological teachers who have been engaged in psychological counseling for a long time. Psychological counseling refers to the process of helping visitors stand on their own feet through interpersonal relationships and using psychological methods and skills. From the point of view that psychological counseling has therapeutic function, psychological counseling belongs to psychotherapy. As a treatment method and means, the subjects of psychotherapy are mainly normal people and people with mild psychological disorders. Through the conversation and guidance between counselors and interrogators, we can help interrogators correctly understand the root causes of their psychological problems in view of various psychological adaptations and problems raised by interrogators. Guide inquirers to be more effective and realistic, and provide inquirers with opportunities to establish new interpersonal relationships; Increase the psychological freedom of the inquirer, help the inquirer to change the psychological abnormality in the past, and finally restore the healthy psychology. Psychological counseling has both psychological prevention and psychotherapy functions. Through psychological consultation, we can create a good social and psychological environment and conditions for visitors, improve their spiritual life quality and psychological efficacy, thus reducing and reducing psychological barriers, preventing psychological diseases and ensuring mental health.
Learning is a hard mental work, and there will be many difficulties and setbacks in the learning process. Therefore, without will and indomitable upward spirit, it is impossible for college students to achieve excellent academic performance and master more scientific and cultural knowledge. Healthy psychology takes the outlook on life of being active and enterprising and serving the society as the core of personality, unifies one's needs, wishes, goals and behaviors with this as the center, sets up lofty ideals, and "takes the world as one's own responsibility", thus generating strong learning motivation, pushing college students to finish their studies hard and consciously climb the scientific peak. Mental health is an important guarantee for college students to master cultural and scientific knowledge. With a good attitude, they can not only get good academic results, but also benefit for life. Without the cultivation of good psychology, it is impossible to cultivate qualified college students with advanced cultural knowledge. To sum up, mental health education is not only a requirement to improve the comprehensive quality of college students, but also an important guarantee and foundation for college students to develop in an all-round way and become "four haves" talents.
In a word, it is an urgent task for college students to achieve mental health and strive for physical and mental health. Only the combination of healthy psychological quality and healthy physiological quality, coupled with the interaction of other positive factors, can college students have reliable internal conditions for success, and a talent star can rise in Ran Ran.
"Young people are strong and the country is strong; If teenagers are weak, the country is weak, and if teenagers are stronger than Europe, the country is stronger than Europe; If the young male is with the earth, then the country is with the earth. " Mr. Liang Qichao's famous saying shocked the hearts of young college students from generation to generation. We college students should meet the future challenges with good psychological quality and contribute our youth to the prosperity of the country.