Mandy was so surprised that she almost lost her chin that she quickly put the child back in her arms. Accusing her mother-in-law why she did this, her mother-in-law said disapprovingly, "This is my child, too. Is there anything wrong with me giving him something to eat? Look at my hungry little grandson. This mother is useless. It is not as good as my grandmother's love for children! " Xiaomin trembled with anger and had a big fight with her mother-in-law. Since then, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have met like enemies.
Mother-in-law doesn't like her daughter-in-law's parenting style, and wants to intervene in everything. She thinks mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural nemesis, especially after the baby is born. From the baby's diet, lifestyle and other aspects, what two women want to say counts.
Lena's son 1 is over years old, and usually the children are brought up by her mother-in-law. Many habits of her mother-in-law also determine her grandson. The baby accidentally bumped into a small stool while walking, and the mother-in-law would hold the baby and hit the small stool, while chanting: "The smelly stool made our baby fall, and grandma beat him to bully our goods again."
Sometimes when Lena eats together at her husband's house, the children will learn to eat by themselves. Sometimes the baby eats all over her body, and Lena encourages her patiently. My mother-in-law doesn't like it. She thinks the children are all dirty and can't eat much. She has to support her children by herself, which has always frustrated Lena's teaching methods.
Modern daughter-in-law is highly educated and respects scientific and reasonable methods in raising children. However, most mothers-in-law take raising many children by themselves as an example, interfere with the upbringing of their daughters-in-law, and even dictate what to do, leading to family differences and quarrels.
3. The son listens to his wife, and the mother-in-law is so angry that she has a baby's family. Husband's efficacy is very important. While listening to his wife's complaints and calming her emotions, he has to continue to honor his mother and reduce the differences between her and his wife. When the mother-in-law saw that her son was partial to her daughter-in-law, she couldn't help flying into a rage. It seems normal to lose face to your daughter-in-law
My son was brought up by myself. Although married, most of my mother-in-law still have my son, so they need to listen to me more. Although the mother-in-law and her son achieved the ultimate "physical separation", the "inner separation" never stopped. Some mother-in-law even threatened her son to obey her orders by crying, making trouble and fasting.
There is a skeleton in the cupboard. Smart daughter-in-law must polish her eyes before marriage, and tough and unreasonable mother-in-law must avoid it. If the mother-in-law interferes with the family too often after marriage, it is best to give her husband a vaccination in advance, and after all, she will use her husband to "deal with" her mother. This is the wisest thing to do.