There have been many dramas about marriage recently.
Some time ago, # divorce cooling-off period # caused a heated discussion, but recently many friends shouted, # Why not set a cooling-off period for marriage # and jumped on the hot search again. These days, there are # Gao Yuan talking about divorce. Zhou Xun: I thought everyone knew that # caused discussion, and # two people who witnessed the marriage said they were satisfied # were hotly debated.
So we might as well discuss marriage in depth, such as studying the marriage stars that everyone is interested in. The goddess of marriage has always been rumored as our "opposite fate", through which we can learn the portrait of our partner who will spend the rest of our lives with us.
But is the goddess of marriage that simple? As an asteroid, is it worth referring to?
The goddess of marriage connects us to consider reality and rationality, and also connects us to enjoy the intimate and profound side. Her mythical prototype even staged our marriage entanglements.
Is there really a perfect marriage?
How to make the positive edge really become the positive edge?
How to do a good job in your life?
Next, I invite you to explore this wonderful asteroid together.
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What is the goddess of marriage?
The discovery of the goddess of marriage:
Power wakes up one by one.
To talk about the goddess of marriage, we need to know about her "family history" first, so as to have a more comprehensive understanding of her.
Andromeda's "home" is located in the asteroid belt between Mars and Jupiter, which was discovered in the early19th century. Andromeda is one of the four earliest asteroids discovered in this belt. These four asteroids are named after several goddesses in ancient mythology, namely Ceres, Juno, Athena and Vesta.
The discovery of new planets is usually accompanied by the awakening of some consciousness at the collective level. After the discovery of four asteroids, susan anthony, Elizabeth Cady Stanton and other women leaders in the19th century started the movement to abolish slavery and women's rights, and the long-suppressed power stirred up the waves of the new era.
Demetra Goerge, an asteroid expert, believes that Hayaya's four-star marriage is a richer prototype energy for women to inject into the collective consciousness, and it is the awakening of China women's call for power, identity, justice and equality.
Poseidon position:
From individual to collective
Dmitry Gorger, "the goddess of asteroids"
In the above picture, we can feel the position of the asteroid belt more intuitively, between Mars and Jupiter, between planets, just like a bridge connecting individual consciousness and consciousness. The constellations guarded by four asteroids are also in the fusion stage of "I" and "we"-Virgo, Libra and Scorpio.
If the sun, the moon, water, gold and fire symbolize the integration at the individual level, then the earth, the sky and the ocean represent the changes in the larger environment and even the universe level. The asteroid belt between them brings the individual to the collective and symbolizes the integration at the interpersonal level.
The position of Venus in the above picture is the closest to Jupiter (the number is similar to the "meter" next to it), and it is the last door before our personal consciousness enters consciousness.
Venus:
Towards the "positive edge" of rice, oil and salt
Many times, the goddess of marriage can be interpreted as our ideal marriage or "positive fate", but when we understand it, we can look at it from a more three-dimensional perspective.
Demetra Golger, who has studied asteroids for decades, described it this way: "The Goddess of Marriage depicts our need for intimate relationships and our ability to entrust ourselves to these relationships."
She did not limit the scope of the goddess of marriage to marriage, but included the relationship of "significant other" outside marriage. In other words, a partner who has lived together for a lifetime without a marriage form is not necessarily a marriage relationship.
The most important thing is not the form of the relationship, but whether the relationship has reached the level of "you have me and I have you". Two people really assimilate each other in the process of getting along, leaving no appearance of each other.
My summative understanding of Andromeda is the ability of individuals to deal with intimate relationships, that is, how we can reach a new "we" with others. There are "who do we want to be intimate with", "why" and "how to be intimate".
The type of intimate relationship represented by the goddess of marriage is the kind of intimate relationship that we actually need, which is similar to "positive fate", less romantic snowy moon and more practical daily necessities.
How to check the goddess in the astrolabe? Generally speaking, there are asteroid settings in astrology software, which need to be turned on manually (most initial settings do not display asteroids by default). Take Astro Gold as an example, and look up Juno, the goddess of marriage, in the settings. If you use other astrolabe software, find Settings/Advanced Settings and turn on the display of Goddess.
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Andromeda and intimacy;
Half affectionate, half rational.
Goddess guardian constellation:
Scorpio is affectionate and Libra is rational.
Looking at the goddess of marriage, we also need to understand its guardian relationship in order to deepen our understanding of its essence. Different astrological predecessors have different views on the guardian relationship of the goddess of marriage. But in general, Scorpio and Libra are still considered to be the guardians of the goddess of marriage, and some senior teachers will emphasize one more.
Personally, I prefer the former. On this basis, according to the configuration of this picture, I may emphasize the energy of a certain constellation, but I think it is extreme to take only one of them completely.
Why do you say that? I think taking Daiyu and Baochai in A Dream of Red Mansions as an example, maybe you will have a more intuitive feeling. As far as marriage is concerned, Daiyu and Baochai are deeply in love with Scorpio and cling to jade's feelings; One is Libra's reason and perfect principle.
Love refers to love, an obsession with possession, and a yearning that is difficult to solve with reason. And reason is reason, that is, to be reasonable and not to cross the line. Among them, there is the "courtesy" that takes Qi Mei as an example and treats others with courtesy.
In real marriage, it is quite difficult to be so emotional and rational. Not to mention how difficult it is to achieve the ultimate, just "take one", in the face of the life of the whole family, it is difficult for us to shed tears for any one person. On the contrary, how many people can live like Baochai?
In practice, it is often difficult for us to be reasonable. This is why I think the guardian relationship of the goddess of marriage should consider both Scorpio and Libra.
Scorpio's energy is full of affection and secular desire, while Libra's energy is full of marriage, peace rules and reciprocity. The immaturity or excess of either side can hardly bring us. Even if a person can fall in love before marriage regardless of the cost, when the love disappears, he still has to face the real dispute with reason.
When the goddess of marriage guards Libra and Scorpio, it actually means a balance between emotion and reason-don't use reason, don't use reason to suppress feelings. When the contradiction and integration between reason and reason happens to individuals, we will see all kinds of "",pain and sadness, jealousy and hatred, intrigue and manipulation.
The marriage relationship governed by the god of marriage is a closer test of our hearts and a three-dimensional human Dojo. We are moved by the truth or truth of the external world, in fact, because we have it in our hearts and are eager for their evolution or integration.
A Dream of Red Mansions has touched people in ancient and modern times. It is a very realistic theory with deep feelings. And many works that we rated as bad films are always superficial and distorted.
Love crowns you and crucifies you.
Love will discipline you even when you grow up.
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It grinds you white.
It will teach you until you obey.
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These will be the fulfillment of love, let you understand your inner secrets and become a small part of "the essence of life".
-Ji Bolun's "Talking about Love"
When the "I" in I Love is no longer so important-not losing myself, but loving the fear that transcends personal gains and losses, Shuo Feng can't bear it. This kind of "submit to humiliation" can see things clearly but keep the true feelings, which is ruthless and moving.
The energy of the goddess of marriage is our rational and emotional dance, which is tempered and self-integrated. We can hold the sword we hate, or we can learn to dance devoutly until the end of love.
The mythical prototype of the goddess of marriage;
A portrayal of human marriage disputes
Juno, the prototype of the mythical goddess of marriage, is the only one among Olympians who is married and loyal to marriage. There is a saying called "June wedding quilt", which is actually because of June's marriage god (Juno).
In Greek mythology, Juno was the third generation of Hera, the ruler who shared power with Zeus. The goddess Hera is in charge of marriage, childbirth and guarding women. She is Zeus' sister, who is pursued by Zeus with clever tricks. Before marriage, Zeus still "liked the love that came too soon" to Hera, but after marriage, they were called "Stockholm lovers".
Hera's monogamy and faithful marriage, which was strictly observed, became a bondage in the face of Zeus' endless adventures. The queen of God can't escape the temptation of jealousy. Power is no longer just used to protect the world, but has become a lover and bastard who hates Zeus with a sword.
Hera wanted children and refused to cheat, so the opposing couple started monogamy (really playing with God)-Zeus gave birth to the goddess of wisdom from his head. On the other hand, Hera gave birth to several children, some of whom Zeus was afraid of.
This is the case in the sky, and so is the underground. The myth of the goddess of marriage is also the archetypal portrayal of many human marriages.
In The Queen of the Palace, there is a female character who echoes the myth of the goddess of marriage. Queen Unarai Xiu, who shouted "Men and women can't do it", was always jealous, controlling and destroying the concubines and their children in the palace, making the emperor's children wither and the concubines miserable.
Although the story is fictional, the entanglements in marriage are so similar. The feeling that it is difficult to compromise and the reason that it is difficult to cash evoke jealousy in people's hearts.
Desiring to entrust a loyal and intimate relationship to another person, many things are actually difficult to be rational and clear. There is an involuntary hook in a love story. We are eager for spotless intimacy, so we will encounter the temptation of secular desires.
He is easily emotional. He has a fragile heart and feelings.
-"brothers karamazov"
In ancient and modern stories, it is impossible to achieve intimate loss and infatuation, and it is also a cry and wail for everyone who has lost love.
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The trial of the goddess of marriage:
Do you dare to cure the heart of intimate relationship?
Poseidon:
Imagined perfect companion
The dark side of the goddess of marriage is actually the dark side of Libra and Scorpio that she guards when dealing with intimate relationships. In short, it is the repression or radicalism reflected in the intimate relationship, which fails to realize the Libra of Aries, Scorpio of Taurus (they are opposite to each other 180 degrees), or the combination of the two.
The imbalance between Aries and Libra may make people too tolerant or too self-centered in intimate relationships. Especially for many women, it is easier to fall into the negative trap of Libra, taking excessive tolerance as virtue and dependence as gentleness.
However, not all tolerance is really beautiful. As a rising scale, I am quite experienced in the negative expression of Libra (a tenth-level scholar). My own conclusion is that a person who doesn't put courage and perseverance into self-realization is actually hard to care about the inner beauty, and often just lies to his hypocrisy.
Libra expression of the energy of the goddess of marriage may also fall into the trap of false intimacy. False intimacy refers to two people who seem to take Qi Mei as an example. In fact, there are many untouchable reefs in the relationship, but because of deep fear or distrust, they choose to avoid and escape, leaving only the superficial beauty.
However, in the marriage-god relationship, the seemingly calm pseudo-intimate relationship will also be tempted by Scorpio. In the process of getting along with each other day and night, it is hard to see the dust of human nature. Often pulling causes Scorpio's feelings to be buried deep underground. We are afraid of being abandoned, betrayed, losing ourselves, and unable to be close to the other half we long for.
Scorpio is good at digging and insight into the dark energy, and is caught in the fear of intimacy, which may be misused in the trick of "drinking a bow and hiding a snake's shadow".
When a person longs to enter the Garden of Eden with the fantasy of a perfect soul mate, he has not really entered the Dojo of the goddess of marriage/important intimacy. When TA walked through the dreamland and saw the "perfect companion", it was actually dusty, muddy and not perfect. If she is willing to walk hand in hand in the unknown forest that is not the Garden of Eden, the goddess' homework will really come.
The antidote to the goddess of marriage:
Love is reasonable, take the initiative to love.
Love is a man's active ability, an ability to break through the barriers that separate people, and an ability to unite him with others. Love enables people to overcome loneliness and sense of separation, but love recognizes the value and dignity of people themselves. In love, there is such a contradictory state: two people become one, and they still retain their dignity and personality. -Fromm's The Art of Love
To sum up, I think there is only one antidote for marriage stars/important intimate relationships, that is, treating the love of intimate relationships as an active ability, rather than something that can be passive. We are the antidote ourselves. Scorpio probably evolved from three levels of energy, from scorpion to eagle to fire phoenix, from achievement medicine to medicine that can solve more problems step by step.
We may first use the tail as a defense and attack, but we are sad and resentful, and then we are a sober eagle with a higher vision. In these two States, I may unconsciously repeat myself, but I know how to be loved and loved better in the tenderness and patience of emotion and reason. Until the end, like a fire phoenix, it was born in the fire of an alchemist of the god of marriage.
There is a story in Journey to the West that is actually quite interesting. I don't know if you have noticed that the Tang Priest first went to his daughter's country, then was taken away by scorpion essence, and finally returned to his daughter's country to leave the king and continue on the road of learning from the scriptures.
Forget scorpion essence. The real embodiment of Scorpio's energy image is only in a more cultural way. The king of the daughter country, I think, is a figure with considerable Libra energy. From the outside, he is dignified and beautiful, and the country is beautiful. Judging from the appeal to marriage, the king of the daughter country seeks not only love, but also reasons for marriage.
Tang Sanzhen really experienced the temptation of the goddess of marriage. He was not moved by the fire of scorpion essence, nor was he addicted to the beautiful scenery described by the king of his daughter country. Went straight to Jiugong/Jupiter's Journey to the West.
I like the dramatic version of Tang Yan's story of leaving the motherland. In the original work, the king of the daughter country paid more attention to his status as a royal brother of the Tang Dynasty than to his feelings. The adaptation of the drama version was more "daughter country", and because of the slight swing of Tang Yan's heart, this parting was more real and delicate.
It turns out that a person is bent on seeking the west. The king, the daughter of the emperor, is actually affectionate. Our hearts are intertwined, and we respect each other's choices. Between looking forward and looking back, there is a trace of marriage-like love without romantic memories. When we germinate, we also integrate into a larger vision.
A friend teased,: Weibo
In a sense, we are all people who learn from the scriptures. What I experienced was the difficulty of my heart, but what I took was my heart.
In love, there is no indestructible body, only ordinary tires that will get hurt. Eighty-one Difficult didn't test us how to get rid of it, but he has been testing our honesty.
Where is our direction? Where did our sun go? Is our moon silent? Can it accommodate natural feelings? No matter how the marriage god tempts us, don't forget your most fundamental. Go ahead, the antidote is on the road, in our own growth.
In fact, in this process, we and our significant other see their true smiles and tears and respond sincerely and frankly, which is the most intimate and profound thing. We should also try to be more empathetic to each other's ordinary children and the fears and fears aroused by the "August 1st Incident", because the same tolerance is also for ourselves.
There is love in such a scene.
In a relationship, whether you stay or leave, the antidote is yourself who never stops growing.
I think the meaning of astrological interpretation is not to judge our choice in love from the perspective of God, and to distinguish right from wrong. As long as you choose with the word "straight heart", you will go wherever you go.
In this process, whether you pass through the daughter country or get stuck in the Pipa Cave, you can see more choices through the star map. The star map is not overlooking us, it lives in every moment of our hearts, waiting for us to give it a new definition beyond this moment.
When you ask "where is the road" in pain, you may wish to experience the road under your feet.
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Andromeda guide 12
Andromeda and the house on the astrolabe describe our ideal intimate/marriage partner. And judging whether a relationship belongs to the category of marriage god depends on the degree of "entanglement" For example, have two people ever experienced giving and receiving, possessing trust and jealousy, and enjoying the test of money and power?
The goddess of marriage describes how we meet the need for intimacy. And if we suppress our actual need for intimacy, then the constellation of the goddess of marriage reflects our possible situation on the topic of intimacy. The Palace of Marriage shows the areas in our lives that tend to experience the most important relationship topics.
The aspect of the goddess of marriage reveals how our mechanism of dealing with intimacy is combined with other parts of our personality and "marriage fate" Some astrologers found signs of marriage stage (about three degrees of tolerance) by counting the wedding year and the sun's reflection plate.
Generally speaking, the integration process will be better, and the tense aspects may remind us of potential problems in intimate relationships. (p.s is not only related to the feelings of the goddess of marriage, but also to finance. If you want to see the whole marriage through the goddess of marriage on the astrolabe, it is recommended to look at it in combination with the moon.
● Four suggestions on the interpretation of The Goddess of Marriage;
1. Know enough about the ten planets in your astrolabe, such as sun, moon, water, gold and fire.
2. People with outstanding interpersonal problems in their lives. For example, there is a strong Libra Scorpio/Seven Houses and Eight Houses element in this astrolabe.
3. The goddess of marriage is your later choice. Before that, you need to know your moon and Venus thoroughly.
4. In short, knowing Marion has two advantages: one is that the process of knowing Marion can make people more aware of their personal planetary operations (if we are really doing personal planetary operations). The other is that the "depth" of the astrolabe varies with the addition of asteroids, just as the colors on the palette are richer and more subtle details are added.
Aries goddess of marriage
Independence in a relationship is very important to Aries, the god of marriage. Even with the significant other, the one of us is tinkling. Married Aries and their partners, the atmosphere of two people together is likely to be straightforward and lively, saying one thing and not playing empty.
If there is any setback in the relationship, it is probably the mechanism of marriage. For an ideal partner, initiative is a very important quality. I have a friend who married Aries. There is a saying: "The most annoying thing is that you can't kick a P in a relationship."
Therefore, for married Aries, cooperation in intimate relationships may become difficult. On the one hand, you may like to take the initiative, on the other hand, you don't want the other person to be like a stone. At this time, it is necessary for married Aries and their partners to carry out Aries/Libra integration.
Taurus goddess
There is a song in Wang Leehom that goes like this: "Every bit of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea is full of happiness." . I think the Taurus marriage of the goddess of marriage is also likely to be such a scene. I have gained a little bit of luck in ordinary and reassuring daily chores.
The economic foundation in marriage is still very important to Taurus, the god of marriage.
Although every marriage is a personal choice, if Taurus, the goddess of marriage, one day begins to feel that there is something missing in the soybean milk fritters marriage, we might as well look at Scorpio's "ability to achieve intimacy". We can choose ordinary happiness and try to experience it deeply.
Gemini goddess
For Gemini, the goddess of marriage, mind is an indispensable factor in intimate partnership. The simplest way to judge is whether two people can talk together, whether they can talk for many years or even a lifetime.
The intimate relationship of "lovers talk more than half a sentence" is difficult to keep Gemini, the god of marriage. French philosopher Ernest's marriage star falls in the eighth house of Gemini, and his relationship with lover and writer Beauvoir shows a profound spiritual relationship.
However, Gemini, the god of marriage, probably doesn't pay so much attention to the form of marriage. Just like Janet and Beauvoir, they have been unmarried for 50 years. As for the statement that "Gemini, the goddess of marriage, may have more than one partner", it must be viewed in combination with specific dishes, rather than directly sitting in the right place.
Cancer goddess
The partner of the goddess Cancer reminds me of a lyric "Warm your warm fire". Imagine that on a Friday night in1February, a married cancer and her partner returned to their nest, and the casserole in the kitchen gurgled and smelled warm.
Two people wearing pajamas, get rid of the fatigue of a week's work, nest on the sofa watching the midnight snack shop. Although I didn't express much in words, I found the most desirable temperature between snuggling.
The partners of the marriage star Cancer need to be warm and tolerant of each other and become the one who stays together.
Leo goddess of marriage
The concept of marriage of the lion goddess may be a bit romantic. Just like a princess, an actor needs an audience, and a married lion needs to be seen by the other side in the process of getting along with the other half, otherwise it may attract the special attention of his partner in other forms.
However, because of this, if you are with a married lion, your married life may be full of romance, not just dull. Married lions need to pay attention to whether they are self-centered because they want to be loved.
Virgo goddess
Ideally, a virgin's marriage is to help each other realize themselves, be responsible for each other independently, and serve each other carefully.
A virgin or the other half of the marriage god has a high degree of standardization of daily life habits, and the home may be the kind of cleanliness that makes you feel uncomfortable sitting down as soon as you walk in. But this part of energy may also be used to criticize each other and haggle over every ounce.
Virgo can examine the foothold of giving advice to each other in the relationship, learn to tolerate trivial imperfections in intimate relationships, and use this energy in things that are more constructive to each other's lives.
Libra goddess
Libra-like ideal marriage, the goddess of marriage, should be a well-deserved case of Qi Mei. At this time, I suggest you look at two people's moons, Venus and Mars, especially whether there is a healthy emotional flow, and whether it is superficial because of deep fear.
The trap of pseudo-intimacy mentioned above, I think the marriage star falls in Libra, which can be considered and vigilant. Don't suppress the "love" part in order to fulfill each other's "reason" Even if "there is no quarrel without depth" for a while, emotions will be suppressed in the heart and will surface in some way one day.
Scorpio goddess
When the goddess of marriage falls in Scorpio, the depth of love and sex becomes the need of intimate relationship. Various emotional problems related to Scorpio/Pluto will also appear in this configuration, such as control, jealousy, strong possessiveness, trust and betrayal. ...
This is not to say that the goddess of marriage will definitely experience these complicated situations when she falls into Scorpio. For example, the goddess of marriage only symbolizes that in the important intimate relationship field (high pixels in the mirror, super night), we are more likely to dig out greed and ignorance in our hearts.
The specific situation still depends on the personal astrolabe and the degree of transformation. If married scorpions fall into a love-hate relationship, remember to look in the direction of Libra and Taurus, try to relax their attachment to each other or each other, and be rational, independent and self-sufficient in emotional relationship. Maybe then we will have a different definition of "affectionate".
Sagittarius goddess of love
There is a saying that "life is precious, but love is more expensive." If you are free, you can throw both. " For a married sharpshooter, the space of marriage life is still very important.
There are many cases that show that the marriage sharpshooter and the other half will have a feeling of alchemy. For example, the other half is far away from your native place, and the combination of two people is also the fusion of two cultures, or there are differences in age and education. In a sense, it is also the need of the soul.
However, unlike Gemini's "chat", it is more of a visual communication.
Capricorn goddess
Capricorn, the god of marriage, may have a traditional view of marriage, and it is easy to produce a mature and stable model couple to outsiders. For example, there is a saying that "marriage is a partnership between two people to start a company", which says to be a married Capricorn.
Long-term stability, safety and reliability, maturity and pragmatism are all words that can describe Capricorn's ideal other half. A better situation may be a bit like a pair of "wise kings and wise queens", paying more attention to treating each other with courtesy. Unlike married Aries, their partners may be as lively as children.
However, if married Capricorn couples pay too much attention to regularity, or avoid emotions in order to avoid marital instability, then we need to use the energy of Cancer to balance and adjust the emotional connection.
Aquarius goddess of love
Aquarius goddess also needs free configuration in intimate relationship. However, unlike Sagittarius's "freedom", Sagittarius's freedom is a bit like "walking away", while Aquarius wants to be his own space, so that TA can be independent, that is, "if you like weirdos, I am actually beautiful".
Generally speaking, I think it should be based on an understanding. If you can understand the "strangeness" of TA and think it is beautiful, you will not be bound by formal rules and regulations.
Two people don't have to stick together when they go to the museum for a date. A person goes to see paintings and calligraphy, and a person goes to see cultural relics, but I still feel happy after reading them. Keep your persistence of "never being blown by the north wind". Two people are not far apart, still proud of each other's fragrance.
Pisces goddess of marriage
People who marry Pisces will face Neptune's homework in intimate relationship and see what is real from the dream bubble. Perhaps at first, married Pisces had very ideal expectations for their other half, but when they really saw each other's truth through the romantic period, they felt disillusioned.
Ye Zhi, an Irish surrealist poet, is the goddess of marriage who landed in Pisces and wrote dreamy and affectionate poems in the face of hopeless love.
The lesson that Pisces, the goddess of marriage, needs to face is not to elevate the marital status to an idealized altar, or even to "make gods" in intimate relationships.
Try to see the needs behind your "god-making", and put these energies into more constructive and creative affairs, and try to see the crystal clear love in the small service in the ordinary life of daily necessities.
"Crescent Culture" gains more astrological knowledge.
The above is about whether the astrolabe can see the positive edge, and it is about sharing intimate relationships. After reading the astrolabe, I understand why it appears. I hope this will help everyone!