In fact, although I have been admitted to the hospital, I can take care of myself, and I hardly need personal care. But she was worried when she heard that I was the only one in the ward of Nuoda University, so she insisted on accompanying me every night, and she didn't want to go back anyway.
We used to go to bed late every night. Later, I found that after turning off the lights, my mother was still brushing the bottom of Tik Tok's bed. Since my brother bought her a smart phone, she has also fallen in love with Tik Tok. Sometimes she stays up at one or two in the morning, brushes Tik Tok, makes friends or sends us voice messages. Maybe it's because she's old and doesn't sleep much, but she should turn on the light to play, and don't break her eyes. I said cautiously, "mom, if you want to see it, just turn on the light." It's bad for your eyes if you don't turn on the light. Don't break your eyes. " In the dark, my mother came up and said, "You are so generous!" I said, "I'm doing it for your own good." She immediately said, "I don't care if I'm blind!" " "Well, I didn't mean to, but she was still angry. Fortunately, she still considered that I was a patient. Otherwise, with her temper, it will definitely be difficult to end. I was too scared to speak, and she was even more angry. Alas, why can't she understand the words "for your own good"?
I can't sleep either. I thought a lot that night, and finally I strung together a poem called "For Your Own Good":
In childhood
I think my mother cares too much.
Mom said it was for my own good.
Gave birth to a little queen
My son thinks I care too much.
I also said it was for his own good.
But now
Mom thinks I care too much.
I said it was for her own good.
"For your own good" will be handed down.
"For your own good" will be returned.
It makes sense.
Just because there is love in my heart.
Indeed, when we hear the words "for your own good", we are always annoyed, because when the words "for your own good" appear, our words and deeds are bound to be "disturbed" or "constrained" or make you feel uncomfortable or not free, so no one will like it. However, people who are willing to say these three words must be your relatives or close friends. Really, all people who want you to be good start with love for you. Otherwise, no one wants to say you, because without love, it doesn't matter and may offend you.
I posted the above poem in a circle of friends, hoping that my mother would understand my heart and stop being angry. I didn't mean to upset her at all.
I woke up the next day and found my mother praising me at the bottom. I am very happy. She should have understood. She should remember how she used to say "for your own good" when she was a child. She was in the same mood as me at that time, and there was absolutely no bad heart.
Sure enough, my mother seems to have forgotten the unpleasantness during the day and night, as if nothing had happened. Thank you for your understanding.
During the days when my mother was with me in the hospital, I asked her to do physical therapy when I was free during the day. I hope her health, happiness and longevity are our greatest blessings.
There are not many people who really want to say "for your own good" in one's life, so we must cherish it.