What I want to say is that it is very likely that my answer will be cruel, but it is really not easy for me to have a baby. There is a simple reason. I can stand the attitude of the world towards me. But I can't bear to be judged by others. What does a child with a cleft lip have to go through when he comes into this world? I don't know, either. However, it must be difficult. Therefore, I would rather be brutally reviled than face life painfully when the child is born. It depends on the level of the child's rabbit lips. If it is only mild, it can't be seen clearly through repair in the middle and late stages. Nowadays, medical technology is relatively developed, which has no effect on children in the middle and late stages. It is fate that the child comes. Don't give up easily.
I have been engaged in speech rehabilitation for 18 years. According to my years of language rehabilitation practice, children with cleft lip are repaired by surgery, and then language rehabilitation exercises are carried out. More than 80% of children can be the same as ordinary people. If you can recover, why can't you have such children? As far as I know, the current prenatal examination technology can not accurately screen and distinguish whether a child has harelip. Even if it is impossible to accurately distinguish whether the child has a problem in the early stage, then such a child's needs are unfounded.
In this world, there are only a handful of disabled people who can walk to the steeple. Their suffering is that we ordinary people need more suffering. These people as low as us, their hardships are obvious. There is nothing wrong with such a life. It is difficult for them to form a long line and reach your stomach easily. However, living well is not just living. There are too many problems to consider. So, don't be too virgin when this happens. You don't have a strong heart and are not ready to fight hard in advance, so choose to give up. If you are really well prepared, you will have the courage to face everything in the future.