Now, I can share many of my ideas with him frankly. I don't just report good news but not bad news, and I won't say anything superficial or just comfort him just to cater to him. I will share my true thoughts and let him know that I can control my life now, whether it is good or bad.
At the same time, I also told him that people should make progress step by step instead of always standing still. As long as we pursue progress, we still don't give up health and family.
Then I remembered the article I read last night, especially reminding me. Health, love, mission, these three orders, can not be chaotic, others are not important.
This is really not empty talk. It is really not easy to put this sentence into practice successfully. People who can put health and love first are truly wise.
It can be said that people who can really do it are people who can think things clearly and live clearly. Such people may not achieve much in the short term, but in the long run, they will certainly overcome some hardships.
Health is the capital of revolution, and it is also determined by material decision consciousness. With matter, it is possible to talk about consciousness and spirit, otherwise everything is empty talk.
And love is powerful and has unlimited energy. Since ancient times, people have been praising love, praising love, and praising love without hesitation. At the same time, love gives people the strongest spiritual support. With love, everything in this world will be very different. This kind of love comes from parents, partners, friends, society and even the whole universe.
But love is invisible and intangible. People with a strong sense of love and love tend to be happier.
What's the mission? This is a call, a person who knows exactly why he came to this world. People who know this are extremely lucky and happy. Because many people, until the moment they leave this world, still don't know what they are in this world for, or what they have created for this world.
Tasks are often difficult to find. If you just look at it on the surface, or just follow someone's wishes, or just follow some rules of this world, it is often difficult to find your mission in life.
How can I find it? Learn to listen to your inner voice. It takes practice and time for a person to really walk into his heart, rather than suddenly waking up one night, or reading a sentence in a book, and so on.
Because a person is just a sudden idea, it is not enough to prove that this is his mission. How to prove it? We must return to action and practice, treat dialectically in practice, constantly update iterations, and prove or demonstrate with at least one result, so that a person's mission can truly stand the test, not be empty.
Health, love and mission, in this order, nothing else matters. This is a sentence from Nabal's collected works. In just a few words, it concisely solved the sorting problem of key moments in life and provided us with practical suggestions.
When I shared all the above views with him, I obviously felt his peace of mind. His peace of mind is not that he thinks of me now, but that my daughter has finally grown up and she will face everything good and bad.
Sometimes when chatting with parents, you don't necessarily just report good news but not bad news. Tell them your current thoughts and situation, tell them what changes we are making and how we are handling them. We believe we can handle them well.
This may make parents feel more at ease ~