This case happened on the first day of the New Year, which can be called the first case of the New Year.
Judging from the murder in Diaodang Street, it is not only a long-planned crime, but also a larger foe. He wants to kill his wife, but he has no hope for life.
This shows how much Diao hates his wife. According to an insider, the cause of the bloody case was that his wife married Diao and received a bride price of 200 thousand. Shortly after the marriage, his wife derailed and eloped to Chang 'an, Jiaxing, Zhejiang before the end of the year. Unexpectedly, Chang 'an was uneasy and eventually died under her husband's butcher's knife.
Whether the reason is true remains to be verified by the public security organs, but it must be an emotional dispute. Otherwise, a couple, who are not at home in the group garden on New Year's Eve and don't sleep late at home on the first day, involve three provinces and three places, and there must be something hidden.
Are modern people really too extreme? I don't think so. Extreme people, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, never lack. But one thing, the hostility of modern people is indeed much heavier than in the past. The most unbearable thing about a man's impulse is that no one can touch his bottom line. When the marriage is derailed, wearing a cuckold bears the brunt. 99% of men will never allow it and will take action. This kind of case happens from time to time, and it is not uncommon.
So how can women protect themselves? In fact, it is very easy, refuse temptation, lead an honest and clean life, and you can't have an affair and cheat in your marriage. If you really don't want to live with your husband, no problem. Your marriage is independent. You have to clarify the procedures, return the bride price you received, properly arrange the children, and most importantly, you have to go to the civil affairs bureau with your husband for divorce, and get a green card before you can be drunk by other men. Never "a lock is opened by more than one different key". The most important thing in marriage is loyalty, which should be true for both men and women.
As the saying goes, people have four great hates: killing their father, stealing their wives, being dug up from their ancestral graves and having no money. This is a man's bottom line, please don't take any chances and touch it easily. The dog jumped over the wall and the rabbit took a bite. This is not a fairy tale, this is reality.
Good men and women living on the earth are not allowed to come to this world! Love, please love deeply! Don't love, please let go! Happiness lies in contentment! Plain is true!
This is an official alert.
A couple met in the street, and after a quarrel, the man killed the woman on the spot.
Street murder is an extremely bad behavior. Moreover, after the man killed the woman, he still calmly sat on the street and smoked. The whole psychological quality is really strong. The public security organ informed that the two sides killed people because of a dispute. However, I saw some people talking about this matter from the media and suspected that it was caused by the woman's derailment.
In fact, murder or injury caused by emotional disputes is really common. This has happened every year in recent years. It's basically an emotional dispute. A man killed a woman. Generally speaking, the woman is indeed the victim of this kind of incident. But objectively speaking, the woman did make some mistakes in this process. This fault may not be the fault of intentional homicide, but it is the fault of husband and wife's feelings.
The woman's infidelity is basically intolerable to most men. People with impulsive or extreme personalities are naturally prone to do impulsive things when they encounter such things. Especially when the two sides are still quarreling with each other, arguing with each other and blaming each other, contradictions are more likely to intensify. These men will kill each other because of emotional disputes In fact, it doesn't mean that this person is very emotional or cares about each other. In fact, what is even more unacceptable is this kind of betrayal, or this kind of psychological and face discomfort that has touched his dignity as a man.
But such cases are also individual cases. There are so many families in our society that such a situation is rare. Therefore, it is impossible to cover all personnel with individual extreme behaviors or individual extreme cases. After all, this is more because of personal thoughts, personal personality and other factors. However, there is a common or serious problem, and that is domestic violence. Women are the main victims of domestic violence.
Data survey shows that more than 25% of women in China have suffered from domestic violence or are suffering from domestic violence. In addition, according to judicial data, divorce caused by infidelity and domestic violence accounts for more than 70%. Another more serious data shows that only more than 10% of women will choose to call the police to protect their rights and interests after suffering from domestic violence. Most women choose to tolerate domestic violence. How does that woman protect herself in marriage? On the one hand, nature is the source. Domestic violence has nothing to do with education and age. Therefore, before getting married, women should do a good job of understanding. If you don't know enough before marriage, there will often be problems after marriage. On the other hand, make yourself strong enough and brave enough. The strength of our society mainly lies in individual independence or economic independence. Women often have shortcomings in this area because of family, children and other reasons. Most women choose not to divorce after domestic violence, which is directly related to children's factors. However, if there is domestic violence, I still hope to bravely safeguard my rights and interests. The woman's choice of forbearance is the indulgence of domestic violence, and the final victim is herself.
It can't be said that modern people are too extreme, and millions of couples quarrel and divorce every year. Only a few people can do this, very few cases, not representative.
In fact, modern people have a strong awareness of the legal system, and this vicious crime has decreased by more than 80% compared with 30 years ago.
Only now that online media is developed, such cases are widely reported. A case was forwarded by various media everywhere. People feel that there are more and more such cases now, but they are not.
But people get out of control in anger, and many people still commit crimes. Some people say that it is incredible that the murderer can still sit there and smoke calmly after killing. In fact, it just means that the murderer knows very well that there is nowhere to escape from committing such a crime. Smoking is just a means to calm down after a person is emotional.
The current criminal investigation means is not 20 years ago, and now the probability that a new murder case can escape is extremely small, almost none.
Therefore, no matter how rational people are, no matter how angry they are, they will not do such extreme things. Often only people who are usually irritable and irrational will do such a thing.
The question of how women can protect themselves is so general that there is no definite answer at all. No one would have thought that the people next to them would do such a thing, otherwise they would never get married.
Whenever this kind of case happens, many people always infer that the victim is guilty. I always think that my wife must have done something that made her husband very angry before she was killed, and I'm sure her wife was also at fault.
In fact, this is not necessarily the case. People who can commit such atrocities under slaves may not be able to control their emotions at ordinary times, but must be irrational, impulsive and irritable.
Such people are often narrow-minded, preferring to destroy what they can't get, regardless of the consequences. It can be said that even if there are contradictions between husband and wife, they have to bear most of the responsibilities themselves.
If the country can legislate to punish marital infidelity more severely, then this tragedy may be reduced a lot. Some people feel humiliated when they encounter such a thing, but there is no place to seek justice for themselves, so they often choose such an extreme approach.
First, from the point of view of this matter itself, I suggest that women have two points.
1. Pay attention to the selected object.
Choose a person who is emotionally stable, outgoing and optimistic. It is not recommended to be impatient, and it is not recommended to pick people who are relatively stable but introverted.
Introverts look emotionally stable, but there will be emotional outbursts, which are likely to be as serious as this case-killing. Needless to say, grumpy, usually get along with is likely to encounter domestic violence.
If you choose one of the two, I suggest you be emotionally stable and introverted. Although there is a flash point, as long as a woman lives with him with peace of mind, there will be no such serious time in this life.
2. Don't be blinded by hormones
Why do you say that? Many abusers (men and women) after the vicious incident, the final investigation result is that this person is honest and usually treats people well because he is forced to do something extreme.
In marriage, men and women cheat a lot. What is terrible is that some men and women want both family and passion. In fact, it is impossible for everyone not to understand the truth that "you can't have your cake and eat it", but some people are too greedy. You want everything, but you get nothing. You know, hormones are just a temporary pleasure
In the end, the trouble is big, the family breakdown is small, and it is a major event in life.
Secondly, from this matter, I would like to suggest a few more points.
1. Women are easily violated. In places where there are few people, running away and fighting (another way of saying it is that you have studied professional martial arts) are the worst policies. Women's physical strength is not as good as that of men, which may irritate each other.
2. It is recommended that women carry anti-wolf spray and other anti-wolf devices with them. It is best to put it where it can be taken out in 5 seconds, such as underwear pocket. Sometimes they are controlled by gangsters before you take them away.
3. Good figure, good looks, exposed clothes and famous brand on your body may all be the reasons for your violation. Suggest a little restraint at night.
4. In case of sexual assault, you can paste your face with snot and tears, and urinate to reduce your interest. A well-known method is to tell the other person that I have some kind of disease, but I am afraid that the other person will say, I am not afraid, or I have it.
Going out at night with a survival whistle can deter the perpetrators.
6. Most of the perpetrators choose girls who are quiet and weak. Therefore, it is suggested that when educating their daughters, women should not bind them with the idea that girls should be gentle and quiet, and tell them to be "wild", dare to speak loudly, dare to fight, and make a hullabaloo about when they are harassed. Its deterrent power is not low.
I don't think modern people are too extreme. It may be because this woman has done something wrong to men, which makes men unable to be human, otherwise it wouldn't be like this.
Some women swell to say what they are! I don't do my child's duty at home, and I don't do my daughter-in-law's duty at home. Either I am realistic, or I am coquetry, or I am cheated and poisoned with chicken soup.
Some women are more emotionally active than men. For example, when they see a good-looking boy, they stay with him and get a room. Nowadays, girls are quite conservative and can't protect themselves. If a woman cheats and wears a green hat, I support this man.
Marriage is risky, so we must be careful when obtaining evidence. It is most important for a woman to call the police for help when she is abused. The police will handle family conflicts. If she files for divorce, she will encounter a cooling-off period, which will give the abuser enough time to transfer the property of the married couple and retaliate for killing his wife.
It's time for a divorce, but it's a pity that parents and brothers are sad and lose face, and their children and grandchildren can't lift their heads. It is the pain of their life, and generations can't get out of this haze. Therefore, accumulate virtue and do good deeds, love couples, and everything goes well at home, communicate more and discuss it well. If you are dissatisfied with your lover, you can change. If you can't satisfy the other person, you can break up peacefully.
Second, the man killed his wife in the street by cruel means, which is of course a very wrong criminal act, but we also need to understand the man's motive for killing. His wife is also at fault, and he also has a deep hatred for her. It was not easy for him to get married, and he also paid 200 thousand as a bride price. Soon after, he was abandoned by his wife and was cuckolded. Marriage exists in name only, leaving no talents.
Third, his wife is also at fault. Marriage is for making a living, not for collecting money. The wife abandoned her husband soon after she got married, received a bride price of 200 thousand, and then stayed with other men, giving her husband a green hat, which led to her husband's talent being empty. The wife used this despicable means to collect money, which seriously damaged the legitimate rights and interests of her husband and his family. This is a very hateful act and a kind of fraud. She should bear the corresponding legal responsibility and deserve moral condemnation.
Fourth, to resolve disputes and safeguard their legitimate rights and interests, we must be legal and reasonable, and illegal retaliation is not allowed. Even if the man is cheated, betrothed or cuckolded, he can defend his rights according to law through legal means such as negotiation and litigation. I believe the law will give him justice. He retaliated by killing people in the street, and let himself bear the corresponding criminal responsibility, which will only lead him to a point of no return.
Fifth, the wife's behavior is also seriously wrong, and it is a cheating behavior. Since we can't get along, divorce early and return the bride price. You can't cheat the bride price and cuckold your husband. You should consider the feelings of others. If you want to get rich, you have to work honestly and operate legally.
The case of killing his wife on the first day of the New Year in Jiaxing, Zhejiang Province is not extreme for modern people, but impetuous for modern people. Now because of the development of network technology, chat software on various platforms has created convenient conditions for modern people to cheat and divorce. Netizen teased: qq in the 1980s promoted the communication of countless couples and witnessed countless beautiful love. In the 1990s, WeChat gave birth to numerous extramarital affairs and witnessed the breakup of countless families.
Whether it's an extramarital affair or a third party intervening in other people's families, it's women who suffer in the end. I haven't heard that extramarital affairs have a happy ending, and few mistresses can succeed.
Modern women want to protect themselves. Lead an honest and clean life before marriage, don't promiscuous, don't sell your love and body just because you want to drive a luxury car, live in a villa, wear a watch and carry a backpack. After marriage, keep your original heart unchanged. Do not engage in extramarital affairs, do not be a third party involved in other people's families. If you think your marriage can't go on and you want to start a new life, you should tell your other half that they will get along well, and don't be duplicitous and hurt yourself in the end.
Hello, yes, modern people tend to go to extremes; The topic of women's self-protection is not new and has never stopped. This problem still needs to be viewed from several aspects!
Isn't the murderer who smokes quietly after killing calming his emotions and forcing himself to calm down? He must have regretted it, right? However, he didn't spend a few seconds of "out of control" after all! As normal people, we will inevitably encounter difficulties in emotional outbursts and self-control. What should we do at such a moment? Be sure to force yourself to think about the most calming pictures in life, such as: a child's loud kiss; For example, the most romantic thing a lover does for himself; For example, when you achieve your goal, you have a special sense of accomplishment, and so on ... even a short "stagger" of ten or twenty seconds will help calm your emotions;
A very simple truth: if couples in the whole society are extremely impulsive and irritable when things happen, I am afraid that this society has long been chaotic. Just like a country, can we use force because the United States can't fulfill its responsibilities as a big country? Will that solve the problem? Of course it's useless, so we have to use other methods;
They brought us into this world, not to make us solve problems easily by bluffing and force, or even to the extreme of killing people for their lives, but to let us come into this world to experience beauty and make ourselves beautiful.
Learn to judge and interpret a person from dribs and drabs, and maybe you can save lives at a critical moment! If the victim of murder tragedy can distinguish good from evil at a certain moment, I'm afraid the result will be more than that.
We have to admit: in today's society, competition in all aspects is fierce. It seems that when everyone is under too much pressure, many people will be upset. What made us like this? When we develop various abilities and acquire various skills, have we forgotten to optimize our ability to get along with emotions?
I hope to read more books and see the beauty of this world, which has gradually become the reason why everyone is more popular, and it is also a beautiful picture of this society.
I hope everything will be better, this society will be better and everyone will be better!
Modern young people must be cautious when getting married, be responsible for themselves and not be impulsive. Especially girls, need to think clearly about their marriage. Don't get married for the sake of marriage, don't get married on impulse, and don't obey marriage because of the threat of suicide or self-abuse. Be sure to keep a clear head and seriously consider understanding each other's family and personality. Don't be blinded by his sweet words. Of course, there are also some masters who hide well, and it may be difficult for us to realize some of his problems before marriage. Then as long as he has some bad behaviors such as domestic violence after marriage, he must be damaged in time, that is, he must be separated if he has children. The growth of children needs a harmonious family environment.
At the same time, we can also observe his attitude towards friends and family before marriage, and we can also learn some of his personality characteristics from these aspects. You know that marriage is risky. You should be careful when you get married. Girls, please keep your eyes open and protect yourself.
Whatever the reason, killing someone with a knife in the street (probably seeking revenge) and killing his wife shows that this person is very selfish and extreme. The whole behavior makes people shudder and angry ... Although they don't know the parties, the more incompetent they are, the more they will vent their violence on their families. ...
Now that the woman is dead, what the man said makes sense. All kinds of behaviors are pinned on the woman's head, as if she is really innocent. The rhythm of the network has also been pulled down, and the bride price has not been refunded. There are all kinds of unconfirmed claims that if the woman is innocent, how can men go to extremes?
In fact, how can a normal and mature man do such a thing ... One day, the husband and wife are still grateful. If they don't love, please let go. ...
This reminds people of Ding Xie in Big Times and Dr. An Jia in Don't Talk to Strangers ... These two people are completely extreme, selfish, self-centered, unable to communicate normally and violent. ...
Ding Xie is completely self-centered and can't look at the problem objectively at all. He thinks he is virtuous, affectionate and righteous. Only others harm himself, and he never harms others. As a result, Ding, who was full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, killed his friend, forced his wife to death, ruined his friend's house and boasted. ...
Dr Anja, on the other hand, is extremely jealous. He regards his wife as his private property. If she talks to others, she will be regarded as cheating, suspicious, sensitive and prone to abuse. It is impossible for the heroine to want a divorce and be forced to flee, but the doctor still chased her and persecuted her. This TV play has cast a psychological shadow on me. ...
Of course, I don't know the details of this case. Maybe it's really like the man said (the woman can't talk anyway), cheating on marriage, cheating, and not returning the bride price. ...
But whatever the reason, it's not an excuse to kill ... If the woman cheats, then she can file for divorce. Again, if she doesn't love, please don't hurt. ...
I'm afraid all men are paranoid like Ding Xie or Dr. An Jia. They feel inferior, incompetent, sensitive, insecure, always suspicious, feel that the woman is sorry for herself and doesn't want to divorce, which is a big deal. She is too weak to run away. Very unfortunate ...
In fact, paranoia occurs every year, but with the development of the Internet in recent years, many cases have appeared on the Internet, which makes people feel the extreme of modern people ... The following examples are not uncommon. ...
Therefore, before getting married, we must carefully identify whether the man is paranoid ... For example, a paranoid violent man has the following characteristics.
In addition, women must be strong. A man's first domestic violence is a test. If he finds this woman easy to bully, he will double his bullying, and even think that violence is the only means to solve the problem ... All paranoid and violent men have one thing in common, that is, bullying the weak and being afraid of the hard. ...
If a man commits domestic violence for the first time, a woman will defend her rights with the most resolute attitude and desperate ferocity, then this paranoid man is likely to be jealous and even take the initiative to divorce. ...
After all, women are too weak and obedient again and again, which leads men to think that you should listen to me. When women can't stand resistance, men will take extremely ambitious actions. ...