For example, in men's eyes, if a man has power, wealth and status, etc. Then this is a strong man. But let me give you an example. Napoleon can be said to be one of the few top figures whose power and wealth have reached the peak in human history, but just because Napoleon was very kind to his wife Josephine, he even had a tendency to lick dogs. So although Napoleon was a strong man, it did not prevent Napoleon's wife from betraying him.
If you watch some Qing Dynasty dramas, you will find a lot of jealous women around the emperor. In particular, many women want to marry the emperor, but in fact, these women only love the power and wealth possessed by the emperor. Without these external forces, women would not like the emperor himself. These women obviously prefer some handsome young princes to the emperor himself.
For example, Zhen Xuan in "The Empress in the Palace" betrayed the emperor, secretly conceived a child in Guo Ziyu County (gene provider), and hung up a spare tire article (provider), which also killed many children of the emperor and the emperor himself. Most men can't understand the concubines in the palace TV series, but in fact, if you analyze the characters in it with evolutionary psychology, you will clearly find that this is a textbook-level East-West Hotel.
Women are strong, obedient and disloyal. In fact, most powerful men are also senior providers in the eyes of women. Those who are very handsome, such as Lu Han and others, are lovers that women like, good genes in women's eyes and gene providers in women's eyes.
And powerful men, often women will be obedient to these men, obedient, but do not love him, nor regard him as a gene provider. A strong man is only a strong man in social status, but in the process of interacting with women, he is a dog licker who is only good to women, so women will inevitably betray him.
In fact, only those men that women can't control can easily arouse women's desire for strength. Even the weak in reality will attract women if they can't control them. For example, many gangsters, such as love rat and Sima Lugangzi, are not handsome and have no power, but women like them. Because women can only identify a man's strength through superficial interaction.