1 mysteriously disappeared
Men are naturally adventurous. The more mysterious things they are, the stronger their desire to explore. Women, on the other hand, long for stability after marriage and pursue more sense of security. Therefore, when a woman becomes a man's wife, the true colors of both sides are exposed. When this mystery disappears, its attraction to men gradually decreases. There are also some women who are forced to be full-time wives for family reasons after the birth of their children. Long-term families don't pay much attention to their own image, and because of limited time and energy, they are unable to improve themselves ideologically and cognitively. In addition, they have been out of touch with society for a long time, and their attractiveness has dropped sharply over time.
A man with a sense of responsibility should naturally be responsible for his family and restrain his male instinct. And lack of sense of responsibility, never want to control their own men to start hunting everywhere. So, there was an affair.
2 sexual life is not perfect
In fact, the reasons for many problems in marriage are very simple. However, due to thousands of years of feudal traditional ideas, men and women are ashamed to talk about their sexual needs. However, women are mostly forbearing on this issue, and when men's sexual needs are not met, once they meet a woman who tickles his hormones, it is easy to arouse a desire, which is not satisfied in marriage life. The stimulation of extramarital affairs brings freshness and satisfaction to men.
Married life is boring
Long-term married life, it is easy to feel the aesthetic fatigue of both sides, holding your hand, just like holding your right hand with your left hand. Both husband and wife will inevitably be upset and exhausted when faced with the trivial life of daily necessities. When the husband and wife can't reach an agreement on the issue, they can't understand each other, which will further intensify the contradiction. When the passion has been completely buried by the boring life, men will vent their inner resentment by seeking the stimulation outside marriage, which also gives the derailed man a good reason-his wife is unreasonable and doesn't know how to be gentle and considerate.
4 the desire for youth
This is mainly aimed at middle-aged men in their forties and fifties. At this age, because my wife has become a "yellow-faced woman", she has neither youthful beauty nor youthful vitality. Especially for some successful men, they secretly feel that their wives are not worthy of themselves, and those young girls can not only make them feel the beauty of youth, but also let them take it out. So this stage is also the easiest time for men to cheat.
All five families have strong wives.
Some men cheat because their wives are capable and excellent, which makes women very helpless. When women are mediocre, men are disgusted and think that they are "making money to support women." But once a woman is eager to get rich and work hard, a man accuses her of being "too strong", saying that her wife is not gentle and considerate enough to ignore her family, so as to find a lover who obeys him in all aspects and satisfy her poor self-esteem.
6 think that the wife and herself have nothing in common.
Women are capable and excellent, but men feel inconsiderate. When women are inferior to men in all aspects, men will think that women don't work hard and can't keep up with him, thus using the gap as an excuse to cheat.
7 can't resist the temptation of the outside world
Temptation is everywhere in today's society. When men go out, it is inevitable that they will be tempted by green tea bitches or women with ulterior motives. People are visual animals. How many people can face the temptation like Liu Xiahui?
In this era, men and women are under great pressure. But the original intention of marriage is to be with you for life. Therefore, men and women in marriage should first consider their responsibilities in marriage and face the problems in marriage together when facing the problems in marriage and the temptation from outside. Although it is simple to say, if you do it bit by bit, it will always bring different feelings to marriage over time.