But now the situation of many families is not so ideal. In most families, children are taken care of by their mothers, and some children even rarely see their parents. All brought by nannies or grandparents. There are many reasons for this. Some dads are just too busy at work to spend time with their families and children. Some don't want to bring them because they don't know how to get along with children. Some are tired and shirk their responsibilities as fathers.
But for children, the role of father is indispensable. It is what a normal family with a father involved in family life and children's education should look like. In this way, children who grow up in a healthy environment will not have too many irreparable personality defects. So what behaviors of dad will affect the formation of this healthy environment? Must have lost his temper. Many children don't like to get along with their fathers, mostly because they are afraid. I am afraid that my father will scold me, so I will train myself if I have nothing to do. This kind of behavior will make children have no idea how to get along with their fathers.
Dad has to do these things if he wants to get along well with his children. The first is to build trust and let children trust themselves. No matter what problems they encounter, they will think of asking their father for help. Let the children know that no matter what, the father will be willing to try for the children. After a long time, children will feel that their father is one of their own and need not be afraid. When they encounter problems, they don't feel that they are facing them alone.
Then use your own behavior to influence children and be a benchmark for children. Many times, we all say that a child's style of doing things and personality and temper can probably tell what kind of parents he is. Yes, children will learn the behavior of adults. If the father at home usually has bad habits and temper, the children will generally learn. Therefore, if a father wants his children to be excellent, he must show them some good habits and let them learn.
The feelings between people are mutual, so are adults and children. A good relationship between husband and wife will also have a good influence on children. Dad respects and cares for his mother, and children are likely to become such people when they grow up.