You know, poverty is not the original sin. When our pattern opens, our partners and people who can listen to us will naturally come, and the wealth and social status that follow are only corresponding accessories. If the pattern wants to be opened, people must break through the lack, and the most direct way to break through the lack is to "take a step". what do you think?
Next, Yan Xiaoer will first discuss the truth of the world revealed by the sentence "People are poor, don't talk lightly, don't persuade people", and then talk to you about the "causal relationship" between this sentence and "People are poor, but they have to rush", hoping to give you some inspiration.
1, the sentence "People are poor, don't talk lightly, don't advise others" reveals the truth of the world "People are poor, don't talk lightly, don't advise others". Although it was left to us by our ancestors, it still shows the "world truth" that people get along with each other in the gap between the rich and the poor.
Intuitively, this proverb means that because of poverty, what the masses are chasing may be too extravagant for themselves. Don't "follow the crowd", the consequences are often not worth the loss. It is also because of poverty that people speak softly. Don't admonish others at this time, it may make others laugh.
Some people think that this is a prejudice against poverty. Yan Xiaoer is not talking about "prejudice" here, but I hope you can understand "poverty" as "lack". Interpreting this proverb with the meaning of "lack" can excavate its more valuable hidden wisdom.
First of all, we know that people have different circles, and people in the circles often have the same level in knowledge, economy and interest. For people who are relatively lacking in one aspect, it is not only hard, but also easy to attract ridicule if they want to integrate into the circle of people who are relatively rich in this aspect. Well, everyone is fine. So, why force a circle that is not suitable for you and expose your own shortcomings?
Secondly, we know that everyone has superficial and incisive views on the same thing, because the "spiritual world" is different. In other words, limited by the surrounding environment and our own economic base, our vision may be "lacking" and we can't see the "consideration" behind the actions of people in high positions. If we "lose" at this time, wouldn't it be "asking for trouble" and "teaching others an axe"? You can consider the rationality.
2. It is precisely because "people are poor, don't talk lightly, don't advise others" and "people are poor, they have to rush". "Poverty" is not the original sin, but the real "sin" is self-destruction. Yan Xiaoer always believes that there is always a mountain outside the mountain, and there are always people outside the people. Whether a person is "losing" is relative. The splendor of our life is often reflected in the time when we break through the current "scarcity".
Therefore, if we feel the truth that "if people are poor, they will join in the crowd and don't advise others" because of our own shortcomings, the first thing we should do is not to feel self-enclosed and inferior like "standing still", but to think, distinguish and then determine our own course.
First of all, the world is full of different values; Lack and affluence are by no means determined by superficial "material affluence" Therefore, when we find that what people around us are chasing is too hard for us to bear, we must learn to think and distinguish ourselves and think about whether our values are worth pursuing. For example, in the circle of comparison, the bad values of "money worship" are the circles that we should "abandon as our shoes" and absolutely can't and disdain to join.
Then, if you find yourself evaluating the decisions of people around you, and the gap between yourself and the other party appears in the "pattern", at this time, you should examine yourself, and whether you should learn to think more about "broadening your horizons" and adjust your development course.
3. Written at the end of Yan Xiaoer's visit. The wisdom left by our ancestors is infinite. As long as we understand rationality and the law of unemotional disclosure, we will get more beneficial inspiration.
However, the phrase "people are poor and can't follow the crowd, so don't talk lightly to persuade others" seems to persuade "the poor don't try their best to squeeze into the circle of the rich". As long as we analyze it deeply, we can realize that this proverb is more about showing the law that "different classes, different horizons, different situations and different modes will make people unable to act and talk together on the same channel".
According to the law revealed by common sayings, we can find inspiration in treating people. We can find that as the saying goes, "People are poor, don't talk lightly, don't persuade others", in fact, it is more about warning people: if you find yourself on the side of scarcity, on the one hand, you should have "self-knowledge", know your own "level" and "desire", and then make efforts to improve yourself. After all, "poverty" has never been the original sin. Under the condition of relative scarcity, if we want to change and improve, we must get out of our closed comfort zone.
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