1, good emotional control.
College students with healthy personality should have the ability to adjust and control their emotions, always keep a cheerful mood and have a sense of humor. When negative emotions appear, they can be reasonably vented, dissolved, transferred and sublimated.
2. Have good social adaptability.
College students with healthy personality can keep good contact with society, take the initiative to care about society with an open attitude, observe all kinds of things they come into contact with, and see the positive side and mainstream of social development. While understanding the society, I can keep pace with the times, make my thoughts and behaviors keep up with the development of the times, meet the requirements of the society, and show that I can adapt to the new environment.
3. Have a harmonious interpersonal relationship.
College students with healthy personality are willing to associate with people and can establish good relations with them. When getting along with people, positive attitudes such as respect and trust are more than negative attitudes such as jealousy and doubt. Healthy college students often treat others with honesty, fairness, trust and tolerance, and are also loved and accepted by others.
How do college students consciously control themselves?
Once instinct is realized, it will be controlled by consciousness, and instinct will be humanized and socialized. For example, excretion is a biological instinct. For an animal, excretion is to start his excretory instinct regardless of time and place. But for a normal adult, he will never defecate at will, no matter when or where.
This shows that when all biological instincts are expressed in civilized people, they must be controlled by consciousness. If a person's biological instinct is not filtered by consciousness and reason, then he will never rise to human psychology. This man's biological instinct is compared to a wild horse, and his reason is like a reins. A horse without a reins is an untamed wild horse.
A horse with a reins is a useful horse. Only by obeying your own reason with your own will and consciously controlling yourself to achieve your goals can you control the world through your own control.