The poet douglas malloch said: If you can't be a tall pine tree on the top of the mountain, be a shrub in the valley! But to be the best shrub by the stream. If you can't be a towering tree, be a jungle! If you can't be a shrub, why not be a grass and bring a little life to the road!
Mr. Jiang Yang once said: "We are so eager for recognition from the outside world that we finally realize that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others."
The older I get, the more I understand that it is not the outside world or others who have been fighting against myself, but the self with high sensitivity, low self-esteem and perfectionism.
If you care too much about yourself in the eyes of others, you will live very tired. Life is long, and you can never satisfy everyone. In life, some people like you and some people hate you; Some people envy you, others envy you; Some people think you are excellent, others will look down on you ... this is normal. After all, no matter how good you are and how hard you work, you will never satisfy everyone.
The rest of your life is very expensive, so you don't have to waste time explaining it. You should be yourself and leave the rest to time. When you are in full bloom, butterflies will come.
Never lose yourself for others. True friends don't need to please, they like the real you.
So, what is the real appearance? No one can give you the answer, you can only find it yourself.
Romain rolland said: There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to love life after recognizing the truth of life. Maturity is not the aging of the heart, but the gentleness of the character. Growth is not to become smooth, but to know enough is enough and learn to treat life gently.
In the chess game of life, there is no regret in the end. Each of us is a chess piece. We should play our role, live a healthy life, live a plain life and really love. That's good!