When Liu married Wu Fan, she knew that her mother-in-law was not a good quarrel. She just feels that she doesn't live with the old man, and it won't cause much trouble if she wants to come. Just entering the door, Wu Fan broke many original promises. Everything else is fine, except one thing: her mother-in-law will accompany her for half a year, and Liu IELTS is angry with Wu Fan for the first time. Liu knows Wu Fan. Actually, there are not so many playboys. The person who uses this brain must be his mother-in-law
When she promised to marry Wu Fan, her mother-in-law promised to follow Wu Fan's brother's family in the future, and the two of them would bear a pension at most. However, this changed as soon as he entered the door, and Wu Fan was embarrassed. Mother-in-law said with a runny nose and tears that Wu Fan's sister-in-law couldn't control her, felt it was unfair to live in their house only, and made things difficult for her everywhere. Wu Fan loves his mother dearly and can only come back to be his wife. Liu was angry, only to see Wu Fan caught in the middle. She couldn't bear it anymore and agreed to let her mother-in-law live.
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The next day, my mother-in-law packed her bags and moved into the home of Liu IELTS and Wu Fan. Wu Fan's father died a few years ago and was obedient to his mother-in-law when he was alive. So this mother-in-law can be said to be spoiled by three men in the family. The two sons are meticulous to this mother and never disobey.
Liu IELTS and Wu Fan seldom cook at home because of their busy work. But Wu Fan said that her mother-in-law was not used to eating out, so since her mother-in-law came, they went home early from work every night to cook for her mother-in-law. It doesn't matter. Mother-in-law is used to being awkward by her father-in-law. She always thinks that Liu's cooking is wrong and inappropriate. Let the mother-in-law do it herself, but the mother-in-law dotes on her son: "Where have I been cooking for so many years?"
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Shortly after marrying Wu Fan, Liu became pregnant. My mother-in-law who is going to my eldest brother's house in the second half of the year said that she would take care of Liu IELTS, and naturally she settled down again. When it comes to caring, Liu feels that her mother-in-law is more like a supervisor. She neither cooks nor cleans the house, but just directs her to do this and that. Euphemistically called: more exercise is good for childbirth.
When she was in labor, Liu IELTS felt that she could not expect her mother-in-law to take care of her in the month, so she simply set up the month center. Thinking that I could finally be quiet for a while. But I don't want anything unexpected to happen to her. On the second day after Liu Sheng's children moved into the center, her mother-in-law also packed her luggage and said that she was alone at home and no one took care of her. She will come to the center to live with Liu and let Wu Fan go home, so that she can have a good sleep at night.
Liu Yes, it's really angry and funny. I really don't know how I met this wonderful mother-in-law Liu quietly tipped off the people in the center, and the staff persuaded her mother-in-law to go home. Before leaving the Yuezi Center, Liu said that her mother would come to take care of the children for a few months and there was no place to live at home before sending her mother-in-law back to her eldest brother's house.
It turns out that Liu IELTS is still a little sympathetic to her mother-in-law, and she feels that her sister-in-law is not very good at her indifference. After getting along for nearly a year, Liu Yasi finally understood that no one can be happy with such an amazing mother-in-law.
The island owner said:
When you meet such a mother-in-law, blind obedience will only breed her to push her luck. It is difficult for an old man to get the real recognition of his children. Mother-in-law Liu has been spoiled by her husband all her life, but it doesn't mean that her son and daughter-in-law should be tolerant without restrictions and even influence each other's lives.
In fact, the greatest wealth that people can leave to their children in their later years may not be money, but independence. What is the independence of the elderly?
First of all, you can take care of yourself, have a healthy body, and don't let your children worry about their health. Not procrastinating is the best gift an old man can give his children.
Secondly, you should have your own life, not everything around your children. The old man lost himself, blindly mixed his life into the children's life, and often found himself getting farther and farther away from the children in the end. A good parent-child relationship must be understood at the right time and kept at the right distance.
As children, they should also guide the life of the elderly when their parents are old, so that they can have their own old age, instead of letting the elderly fall into the predicament of taking care of their grandchildren in their old age and completely lose themselves.