First, family harmony and stable marriage. This is the most fundamental and basic family education.
Second, parents are stable and complement each other at worst. Because a stable personality is one of the basic guarantees of family education. Family education is the most taboo for unstable personality and bad temper.
Third, parents themselves love reading and learning, and have a strong reading and learning family atmosphere. The so-called education is nothing but edification, bit by bit.
Fourth, parents can have a good habit of sticking to 10 for more than 0 years. Our family has been reading with our children every night since 1 0 and a half years old. It has been nearly 10 years without interruption. Desalinate good parent-child relationship. Excellent parent-child relationship is a powerful guarantee for family education. Any educational problem stems from the failure of parent-child relationship.
Fifth, parents are excellent in self-education. No matter the unit, society and family, it has a high reputation and has a certain contribution to society. For example, as parents, we insist on public welfare all the year round. This is education, silence is better than sound.
Sixth, learning attitude is more important than academic performance. Personality education and cultivation are more important than academic performance. Simple happiness is the standard of loving reading and learning. At least I personally think that 60 points in academic performance is long live. The best homework is reading a lot.
Seventh, no matter family or school, including society, they are unconditionally and firmly on the side of children. Parents are strong in their own hearts, and the first thing they pass on to their children is self-protection and love for life.
Eighth, the subjects that children are most interested in are strictly required to study hard. Only concentration can lead to success and Excellence.
Ninth, we should form the habit of sticking to a sport. For example, the eldest daughter concentrates on practicing Taekwondo and keeps running every day. A healthy body is not only healthy, but also cheerful and tenacious. Of course, we must achieve sports.
Tenth, adhere to the principles of equality, freedom and democracy. To be children's intimate friends and partners, be good at listening and encouraging, and parents should have the most basic knowledge of psychology, pedagogy and sociology, be able to correct mistakes, sincerely apologize to children or really learn from them. Think and solve problems from the perspective of children. It's really for the children.
There are three typical manifestations of family education failure. Did you step on thunder?
Now more and more parents are beginning to realize the importance of family education and consciously introduce various scientific parenting concepts into their own family education.
Indeed, family education, as the first kind of education that children are exposed to after birth, will have an impact on their life. If parents fail to educate their children, their life is likely to be ruined. So what is a failed family education? Failed family education often has the following three typical characteristics. See if you've stepped on thunder, too.
1. Often violence against children, but also complain that children have a bad temper.
In life, we can often see some parents complain that their children have a bad temper and are too impatient, but they never reflect on whether they often use violence in the process of educating their children. Children are a mirror of parents. They are like their parents, and their temper is greatly influenced by their parents.
2. Never care about children's study, and often accuse children of not studying hard.
The reason why many children are particularly rebellious in adolescence is that parents don't care enough about their children. Some parents not only don't care about their children's study, but also accuse their children of not studying hard when they don't do well in the exam. This unbalanced way of education will make children more disgusted with learning, and sometimes it will worsen the parent-child relationship between them.
3. Often forcibly control children's lives, and complain that children have no ideas of their own.
Some of our parents have strong personalities and like to listen to everything by themselves, so does family education. In the early days of family education, children are always used to listening to their own opinions and are not allowed to have opinions contrary to their own. Over time, the child's personality will become particularly timid, opinionated and completely independent.
The above are typical characteristics of failed family education. I hope parents don't step on thunder easily.