The first and most important thing is to have a happy family. In life, husband and wife should respect and care for each other, brothers and sisters should live in harmony, sisters and brothers should live in harmony, children should be filial to their parents, and elders should also care for young people. This will often make our own small world full of warmth and feel very happy.
Whether friends, family members or colleagues, let this big family play together. In the pond, only water fish can survive. So if everyone around you can live a happy life, you must help each other, for me. A person is helping a person in trouble, which will deepen his happiness. I can forget when I help others, but I must remember when others help me.
Whatever it is, be patient with each other. In our daily life, no matter what we do, we should seriously consider it before doing it, and don't be too impatient. Temper can be regarded as a kind of patience, so we must consider it clearly. A true gentleman can stand what others can't stand and do what others can't. Therefore, we should strengthen moral cultivation and learn to deal with problems calmly and rationally. In the face of some principles of right and wrong, we should learn to adhere to the principle of "tolerance" and be tolerant of others.
Slowly, you will find that it is a very happy thing to tolerate a person. Different people have different personalities. When dealing with others, you should learn to be strict with yourself, be generous to others at ordinary times, and be open-minded to keep an optimistic attitude and relax yourself.
You should know how to immerse yourself in joy. In normal times, don't always think about this and that. It's useless to think about many things. No matter how old you are today, you should learn to make friends with young people, so that we can keep childlike innocence, so that our hearts will not get old and we can live happily every day.
You should also know the fun of chatting. In our daily life, we should selectively chat with the right people, which will be a very positive way to relax. Chatting between people can talk about the history of ancient and modern China and foreign countries, and anything can be done. The world is so big, and many new things, including social anecdotes, can be discussed, which are often not available in books. If you feel uncomfortable today, as long as you can take the initiative to talk and share with others, then you can alleviate your pain and troubles and achieve a psychological balance.
Of course, you should study more when you have time. Knowledge is the precious wealth of society and the spiritual food of the people. Reading more books and newspapers when you have time can not only increase your long-term ability of knowledge, but also drive away loneliness and benefit your body and mind. It is never too old to learn.
Finally, in fact, it is contentment, and one must know the truth of contentment. In life, we should not covet fame and fortune. Whether rich or poor, we should cherish the life we have now and live every day well. That's all that matters.