Everyone has a mentality of being young and unwilling to accept reality, but there is no doubt that aging will come to everyone quietly. Although the activities of my limbs are getting slower and slower, I still keep my mind as I think. "Think about how efficient I am; I thought my family had to listen to me; I think I must do my best in everything. But the weather is unpredictable, and people are doomed. I think that year is gone forever!
So when a person is very strong, he suddenly has physical problems and can't take care of himself. The gap can be imagined. Suffering from illness for a long time, I can't do my own thing, and I can imagine my anxiety. Personality will become irritable, the heart is extremely fragile, sleep well, and lose sense of security.
With the passage of time, after the old people slowly accepted the status quo, their temper and inner world also changed. They are afraid that they will be forgotten in the corner and lose their sense of existence in front of their families. So they participate in their children's lives with extreme heart, and get angry if they don't listen to their children. They talked about their unfilial son in bed for a long time, which shows how sensible they are and how considerate they are for their children.
Because children are busy at work every day, they sometimes want to be quiet when they go home. When the old people go home and talk endlessly, sometimes an impatient expression can touch their fragile hearts, thinking that they have to live according to their children's faces and have no right to say a word. How can I live a humble life? Sad tears.
The old man has no idea. Many children have their own ideas and arrangements, and they don't want to explain and discuss with the old man all the time, thinking that they just need to take care of the old man according to their own abilities. Tired from a day's work, the old man wants to go home and relax, but he is eager to confirm his sense of existence in front of his children. When he finally came back from work, he chattered and turned on the repeater mode. Causes the child to be irritable, of course, without patience, it will naturally be irritable.
Think about it carefully, it should be that children ignore the feelings of the elderly. It's hard enough for the old man to get sick (we healthy people should not realize it). We think that we have lost the value of existence in front of our children and become a burden. This is the biggest factor that makes the elderly feel insecure. Therefore, I always want to show myself in front of my children, "I'm ok, I'm not lame" and find a sense of existence.
Therefore, as children, it should be clear that parents are old and have a lot of time to accompany us. Shouldn't we show patience and love to face our old people? Our parents gave us a sense of security when we were young! Parents never bother when they can't take care of themselves! Remember: you raise me young, I raise you old!